Same here Appu, it was granny who told me cry with family n infant she poked me but agn I saw my best frnd her mother had kidney issues n was struggling n one the main reasons she gv up her dream of studing further n married n during bidaai she just couldn't stop n in fact fell sick, but it was somehow she felt she mite not see her mother agn,,,n it so Happnd she fell pg very soon after marriage n her mother detoriated n pg ladies n allowed to ppl who are on the. Edge of death so she nvr saw her mother agn not even corpse,,,so my point that u can't say right or wrong, circumstances destiny to play a role,,, like with Arnav n khushiOriginally posted by: sonshine
You are right. Some cannot cry, while others cannot but cry. Neither is wrong. 😃
As for me, I come from a family who had a strong matriarch in my great-great grandmother- she used to say that tears are to be shed in privacy while laughter is to be shared and heard. She was also insistent that the girls in the family laugh out loud and free😆. No subdued giggles' they were not appreciated.😆