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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: swapna08





Even if you live in India it is the same, i have not seen my parents in a year


SwaPna I agree N when I got married, I cried earlier in the day with my close family to buckets n at bidaai I didn't bcz I felt the change it's just that I knew I can't cry with 200 ppl arnd n with my family yes
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Jhalak29

. Babes,,, kudos to u For a fresh thought process but agn u r counting frm ur viewpoint what abt ur mom,,, see it involves a lot of factor,,, excuse me here but my best frnd had similar thoughts like u n post her marriage Her father passed away,,, n she bought her mom there with here, in 2 yrs her mom decide to shift bk to Delhi for their own reasons,,, n she just visit,,,, So marriage is a tedious process !,, no right n wrong changes with diff persons

yeah...my mom plans to live in some kind of farm in some hill station and spend the rest of the days in peace..or buy a bungalow somewhere...but my husband will have to tolerate the fact that i'm like paayaliya and i can't really digest the fact of having my mom at the mercy of the weirdos in those areas so i can't really be focused bahu...😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

Wowww...😲 I spent my weekend doing the same thing😆


Same pinch ji😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: namedx


Thanks for highlighting these matey - brilliant pointers! Kudos! 😊

Yeh, my heart also went out to Anjali during that scene!!

🤗thanks
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Posted: 13 years ago
Geet loved your analysis, it was a sweet episode but contained so many emotions, so true "Expect the unexpected has become the mantra of IPK.. Read in to the unsaid has become the mainstay of IPK..look into the eyes to understand the difference between the spoken word and the unspoken implication has become the order of the day in the IPK land" and I'm loving it.

"even mami with her unpleasantness was present in the welcoming committee of the RM..bodes well for the future.."
mami was not part of the initial trio but she does join it before the aarti starts, to me that looked like she may b late but she will get there.

"Desperation of arnav to hold to his wife.. When he asks her if she would return home..Desperation of the wife for a single wish from her husband.Desperation of the husband as the gift he ordered was not even considered a gift...desperation of wife to have husband's personal touch in the wishes he gifts her rather than the impersonal gifts he orders."
I loved that scene at the door where he asked if she was goin to come back home, the tone of voice conveyed the anxiety beautifully, and yes he is learning 4her its not about the money but the thought behind the gift and that is wat wud make it special 4her, the bangles were a prime example of that.

I don't no anything about doin aarti so just a question, he was standing there to slightly to one side while she was doin the aarti, wud he b considered doin aarti wit her?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

yeah...my mom plans to live in some kind of farm in some hill station and spend the rest of the days in peace..or buy a bungalow somewhere...but my husband will have to tolerate the fact that i'm like paayaliya and i can't really digest the fact of having my mom at the mercy of the
weirdos in those areas so i can't really be focused bahu...😆


Its actually a very good thought to keep your Mom around you post marriage. I am also putting my resources together to bring my parents along with me..somewhere closeby.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Personally...I was glad she smiled..because she'd been keeping a morose face for so much time so i was like 'finally madam ka mood thoda utar gaya'😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sonshine

Of course you may feel that way, Jhalak! And it is not wrong. It is just that my parents didn't want me to cry. 😊Dad especially told me that this is your happy day. I worked for this dream ever since you were born and I want to see you smiling. So I smiled, for him and all those who loved me. My dad had been diagnosed with last stage cancer at the time and I would have given him anything. Aur ek choti si muskuraahat kya cheez thi? He died 6 yrs ago.

Also my family believed it is inauspicious to cry.😊


Appu I am 100 percent with u dear,,, what I m trying to say is there is no right or wrong here,,,, it's a particular way, I mean a persona who builds a person, a family, a ritual
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

yeah...my mom plans to live in some kind of farm in some hill station and spend the rest of the days in peace..or buy a bungalow somewhere...but my husband will have to tolerate the fact that i'm like paayaliya and i can't really digest the fact of having my mom at the mercy of the weirdos in those areas so i can't really be focused bahu...😆

dear that's what I said,,, it just so nice ur viewpoint but the achievement lies in balancing everything...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: redwine1

Hiya winey.. Just read yours too.. Winey, please do write a book winey.. U will do well.. Atleast attempt a start.. Accha likthi ho.. When u write .. Send a copy to me.. U are always a delight and very informative to read..

Running temperature again in this stupid weather.. So husband looked after the children..read all the takes aaram se


Thanx a ton Lizzy .. i want to but i have this mental block .. have always thot i dont have a creative bone in my body .. so i dont think i can do creative work .. need to get over this hang up .. have promised myself at least a page today of one of my stories .. lets c .. if i delver
haye, if you say u don't have creativity, what about poor struggling souls like moi😕

yaar if u do marketing for the no of years i have done .. u to will be wondering about creativity ... ;)

but i am discovering a side of myself here .. & my competitive streak is making me try to measure up to u guys ..
Discovery is the first part, trial is the second part and then follows success...lot of us here feel you are too good, so just wake up the creative cells and you'll do fine dear

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