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Posted: 13 years ago
it wud come rima... don't worry... its just that Di has to get the priority right now that she is all sad and depressed and has distanced him from her and not letting him even console her... on the other hand Khushi is helping him bear the pain and face the situation... she is there with him trying to be his strength as he needs her...

and hope u noticed that he does realise that Khushi still has to go thru so much when Nani tells her not to go near Anjali... he looked so sad that she has to suffer even now... all other thoughts about hurting her himself and her pain and sacrifice will soon follow... he loves her, respects her and he wud kiss away all her pain in his own style... we ought to give him more time... :))
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

You confessed you made the biggest mistake of your life by distrusting Khushi? So why not a single thought about the way you married Khushi?

You confessed it was Shyam's mistake all along. Then why didn't the 'characterless' dialogue flash in your mind.
You worried and worried for your Di She needs it. True. But why not a single thought of what Khushi went through due to you and Shyam? Is it because Khushi has forgiven and accepted everything?
You were ready to flirt and take your marriage to the next level. I am happy. But did you remember that you have tied the girl to a 6 month bond that has nothing to promise in the name of a future?
Should pity and sympathy go to the weak and none go to the strong?
Should Khushi not be in your thoughtd due to what she has suffered both due to you and Shyam? Anjali has at least suffered due to Shyam only.
Should Khushi not be your equal priority for regret the way you are regretting the past moments with Anjali?
Should Khushi not get regret just because she has the large heart to forgive and forget?
What the hell was that ASR? Khushi may love you and never seek redemption or even regret. Don't you owe it just the same as a man of honour?




You confessed you made the biggest mistake of your life by distrusting Khushi? So why not a single thought about the way you married Khushi?


Arnav is not thinking that the marriage was a mistake.But the contract of 6 months is wrong.

Right now his first priority is his DI , there are many reasons the first is DI is all alone, KHushi has Arnav.Second she is pregnant and needs lot of mental happiness but she is undergoing a lot of mental stress.

Once his Di is back to normal he will definetly think of what Khusi went through.


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Posted: 13 years ago
Firstly excuse me for not being able to put my thoughts clearly like most of you but just felt would share my thoughts too.
I agree with most of my friend's views here. Even I felt sad first when I saw today's episode but after watching it for second time and giving a second thought this is what I felt. Since Anjali is distancing herself from Arnav he is feeling more pain for his sister as he has given her a mother's place.
Arnav got emotionally attached to Khushi during the kidnapping track and she is the one whom he missed the most. Agree even Khushi went through hell both during Arnav's presence and absence and also because of Shyam. Already Khushi is feeling guilty because of Anjali's pain.
Bringing both the guilt and redemption of Arnav during the Anjali's fiasco would bring more sadness into show. Once when Khushi decides to leave RM for Arnav and Anjali's relation his redemption and guilt will be with full impact. At that time, everything will make him repent more. Even after going through lot of pain Khushi forgiving him that easily will make him more guilt and therefore his love and concern for her will be more and I JUST HOPE at this place he should keep Khushi above Anjali. Leaving him for his relation with his sister will make him realise what a gem of person Khushi is.
First separation(kidnapping) made him confess his love and emotionally bonded with Khushi. If at all CVs want to show a separation at the end of 6 month marriage will make him vulnerable for Khushi and his guilty will be of high impact.

P.S Even I felt atleast for once if they have shown his pain for Khushi would have been great. I felt in the beginning of today's episode when Khushi slept in his palm, and looking at her with pain would have been perfect timing.

Thanks for reading and sorry for my rant😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
You know, as much as I agree with every word you said I somehow cant blame Arnav for remembering every nice moment with his di.

You can call me crazy but I dont want a redemption right now! For me, I am looking at a brother who is trying his level best to put everything into place.. Trying to figure out a way out of this mess.
I aint saying you all are wrong. But as far as redemption goes I want Arnav to be strong enough for that. He hasnt reached that point yet. Right now he is too broken. First he realizes that his wife is innocent and second his Di is blaming him for everything. She is still blinded by her stupid love and hurting and Arnav can't stand that and as a matter of fact Khushi understands that he needs time!

They've barely even spoken..its too soon to judge.

Yes khushi is as important as his Di is but right now is not the time to regret what he has done. I wouldnt mind a redemption track later in the show. But right now his realization that he was wrong is enough for me.

He was uncomfortable to talk to khushi at first but then he started flirting, I am sure he will regret the things he did in the past with khushi, later.
Yes, Khushi deserves respect from him but I like that they are together right now just when Arnav needs her. I'm sure he'll come around.
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Posted: 13 years ago
ok. I am getting ready for the tamater and pattar to be thrown at me...

I realise we are all impatient for Mr ASR tubelight to understand his mistakes, repent, grovel etc. I love this forum - full of fiesty women... but the way the serial has been unfolding, I think that it all does happen just in the speed of a serial, not the speed of real life.

we all wanted ASR and Khushi to trust each other - and I was one of the most angry ones at ASR's obtuse behaviour after the terrace scene. But to be honest, it was really natural that you are insanely in love, see one scene and completely lose perspective...

in that context, you then see him gain the ability to trust her without evidence. So we did get to see what we want but it comes slowly. I believe that redemption or remorse will also come and it is in his heart...

ASR is happy to have Khushi in his life finally...

and I really agree with Jameelah... Khushi is our doll so we love her so, but ASR right now does need to focus on his Di.. she has been his responsibility and the dearest member of his life and she needs him more than anyone else. true the sad fact of life is that Khushi also needs him, but would it be better if his Di broke down and did something stupid or if he ignored his Di for Khushi at this time. what kind of man would that make him. Khushi understands this, which is why we adore him. And yes, there definitely should and will I think be remorse galore...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Jameelah52

You know, as much as I agree with every word you said I somehow cant blame Arnav for remembering every nice moment with his di.

You can call me crazy but I dont want a redemption right now! For me, I am looking at a brother who is trying his level best to put everything into place.. Trying to figure out a way out of this mess.
I aint saying you all are wrong. But as far as redemption goes I want Arnav to be strong enough for that. He hasnt reached that point yet. Right now he is too broken. First he realizes that his wife is innocent and second his Di is blaming him for everything. She is still blinded by her stupid love and hurting and Arnav can't stand that and as a matter of fact Khushi understands that he needs time!

They've barely even spoken..its too soon to judge.

Yes khushi is as important as his Di is but right now is not the time to regret what he has done. I wouldnt mind a redemption track later in the show. But right now his realization that he was wrong is enough for me.

He was uncomfortable to talk to khushi at first but then he started flirting, I am sure he will regret the things he did in the past with khushi, later.
Yes, Khushi deserves respect from him but I like that they are together right now just when Arnav needs her. I'm sure he'll come around.

I know this will sound really weird but I WAS SO WAITING FOR YOU TO COMMENT on today's episode and I knew you would say something like this. :) I kinda got excited when I saw your post lol. I totally agree with you, they shouldn't mix things up and rush everything. That should be a separate track and it should ONLY concentrate on Arnav and Khushi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
just becoz khushi is too strong and she has a power to change the environment around her does'nt mean people should take her for granted...why the hell he did'nt told nani about how he married khushi? i did'nt liked it... before i was thinking tht he still have some doubts thts why he is not talking abt tht but today when i saw him talking about his ghalat fehmi ..i was like What The...!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sarunfan4ever

I agree with most of my friend's views here. Even I felt sad first when I saw today's episode but after watching it for second time and giving a second thought this is what I felt. Since Anjali is distancing herself from Arnav he is feeling more pain for his sister as he has given her a mother's place.
Arnav got emotionally attached to Khushi during the kidnapping track and she is the one whom he missed the most. Agree even Khushi went through hell both during Arnav's presence and absence and also because of Shyam. Already Khushi is feeling guilty because of Anjali's pain.
Bringing both the guilt and redemption of Arnav during the Anjali's fiasco would bring more sadness into show. Once when Khushi decides to leave RM for Arnav and Anjali's relation his redemption and guilt will be with full impact. At that time, everything will make him repent more. Even after going through lot of pain Khushi forgiving him that easily will make him more guilt and therefore his love and concern for her will be more and I JUST HOPE at this place he should keep Khushi above Anjali. Leaving him for his relation with his sister will make him realise what a gem of person Khushi is.
First separation(kidnapping) made him confess his love and emotionally bonded with Khushi. If at all CVs want to show a separation at the end of 6 month marriage will make him vulnerable for Khushi and his guilty will be of high impact.

I couldn't agree more with you mate. :) brilliantly explained!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: trina2010

Rima I think this is the build up of the redemption track which is to come after 6 months after their marriage. See no one is thinking about Khushi here and though ASR seems loving and caring towards her and declared in front of the whole world that she is one of the two most imp person in his life, he is solely focused on Anji. Khushis pain, sacrifice, sufferings forgotten completely.
Now that's because DBs demands about more importance and screen space. Anyway Arnav is still not fully into Khushi IMO. I always saw that he cares for her when she is away or is hurt. Anjali is still his priority. Now many says it is because Anjali is emotionally weak. That's not an excuse. Just because Khushi can't cry all the time doesn't mean she is not hurt. Infact she is suffering for long and that too by different members of the Raizada family. She suffered because Arnav misjudged her from the beginning. She suffered because Arnav was getting attracted to her and so he decided to punish her for some wierd reasons. She suffered because Shyam wanted to get her by hook or by crook . She suffered because Anjali is delusional and weak and she could not tell her about Shyams creepiness . She suffered because Arnav saw Shyam hugging her forcibly and MU her of being in love with Shyam.
Now after all these she still has to suffer because Anjali won't be able to tolerate her. IS THIS FOR REAL? I am speechless that some people are actually supporting this.
Anyway I want Khushi to leave RM untill or unless these stupid Raizadas and her lover DOES NOT UNDERSTAND HER VALUE COMPLETELY.
I want a redemption track after this where Khushi should play HARD TO GET for Arnav




Trina I get why you are upset but why to jump to conclusions here? See, I have a brother and if I go through something like this as Anjali is going through I would imagine my own brother going through same thing as Arnav.
And also if I were in khushi's place and my husband was going through something like this I would rather support him than want him to say sorry for all the mistakes he did with me. Not because he loves his Di more but becaue I love him enough to give him time to handle himself. I have my self respect as any other woman but when I see my loved one being hurt as Arnav is right now I would rather give him a shoulder to cry. Because I'm strong enough for both of us same as Khushi is right now.

But then again thats just me. I respect your opinion. These situations are pretty close to reality so I'm willing to understand if Arnav doesnt break down and repent his decisions.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Every single word you've said Rima - has been on my mind all throughout the episode. And i was so waiting for you to come with this post..I expected it. 😊

Yes we all love the flirty Arnav being back and taking their marriage to the next level.. And yes, i was and still am dreaming about that crooked smile.. :) But he hasn't really done the deed of giving her a respectful place in his life and his heart by not apologizing to her for the MU.

Arnav is all too consumed with the pain his di is going through coz he has never hurt her.. And he hasn't let others do that.. So, when he hurts others and cannot do anything to make them better, he suffers we know that..And the person here is his DI...So he might be all too consumed with hurt and guilt now regarding Di..

Maybe cv's are waiting for a perfect moment for this to happen
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But, what is the point really? When you realize your mistake, you also do the deed that is most important i. e rectify it immediately.. The purpose of that whole acceptance in front of nani that he misunderstood and gave pain to Khushi was lost..

Khushi saved him, went through the whole drama, got accused and is in deep mental pain too.. She is a strong soul we know that... And she'll never ask for an apology, she has already forgiven him and accepted him completely.. But Arnav needs to do what is most important before taking his marriage to the next level.. I so want that redemption track now!



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