I hope Anjali does announce that she will no longer be able to stay at RM especially after the allegations made against her husband by Khushi, NK and Payal and the slap by Arnav. Moreover she must renounce the Raizada wealth and make arrangements to move out of the RM with Shyam. This will be a good test of Shaym's commitment to her and his disinterest in the Raizada wealth as he seems to be claiming. Anjali needs to test out her beliefs about Shyam- that he is totally devoted to/ in love with her just as she is to him . She needs to put him through a tough test where he will have no access to the perks of being married to her.
Anjali needs to do this to reaffirm her faith in Shyam.
However, it is unlikely that Anjali will do the above. If she renounces her wealth and asks Shyam to leave the RM along with her, she is likely to come face to face with the truth- that Shyam does not want her but only lusts after her wealth.
Anajli is in denial of the truth / reality of Shyam that is staring her in the face.
She is in denial because somewhere deep down she knows Shyam's reality to be true. She is denying the truth to herself. She is not willing to accept that she has been betrayed by Shyam.
This would imply/ confirm her own sense of worthlessness. Much of Anjali' s behavious are driven by her low self esteem and fear of rejection .
That is why she presents with a 'sweet' demeanour as her belief is that sweetness begets sweetness and saves her from having to deal with anything negative. It also makes others want to protect her .This way she stays in people's minds as she makes people feel good by giving them the superior role of protecting her.
Anjali knows deep down that she has lost Shyam. She is greiving her loss. Denial is the first stage in grief , loss and bereavement. She will go through various stages of grief i.e., Anger-Bargaining, Depression and finally Acceptance of the reality and her loss.
I hope that she will emerge out of this process as a stronger person very much like wood that has been seasoned .
Edited by bangles - 13 years ago