When People Criticize Khushi's Attitude to Shyam.. - Page 11

Originally posted by: rajeev_surbhi

To all those girls out here who think that khushi should speak up against shyam and do this and do that my only ques is that if you would have been in Khushi's place would you have done that? If your answer is Yes then please think twice thrice or million times because honestly and very unfortunately you cant do anything or your society will not allow you to do so(this is specificaly for Indian Girls)
I'll tell you one real example from my own personal life,am a young girl of 19 yrs,very confident and aggressive when it comes to something right or wrong,moral or immoral.one day while returning from college in local bus two boys tried to flirt with me and passed really stupid comments and one of them was actually sitting beside me and was constantly trying to touch me in some or the other way and then i stared at him rudely once but he didnt stopped and then when i yelled at him all the people in the bus started looking at us and the lady behind my seat asked me what happened,i told her that this guy is doing batmeezi and i asked the conductor to please change his seat and the great conductor in return asked me to change the seat instead of telling him and nobody in the whole bus tried even once of helping me,all the people were staring at me like a have done something wrong and i was completely shocked and at the end it was me who changed my seat because there was no one to help me out.
And when i told my mom she just said me that its India,people are very insecure,they dont say anything to a man but to a girl and she aso explained me that people must have thought that may be i was involved with that guy in some or the other way and they thought that may be there are some personal issues. So that means i as a girl was actually wrong without no fault of mine. well unfortunately thats our society and how it works.

Originally posted by: rima

I can't tell you how much I agree with you.

Arnav acted like the rest of society putting the blame on Khushi.

Shyam got a chance and Khushi? Her future is ruined.

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I agree. Shyam is almost twice Khushi's size. Remember the terrace scene - she tried to get away a couple of times, and then he just grabbed her. She just couldn't get away from him.

It is best she stays calm. She has no sympathizers in the house, no one who will help her. She cannot raise a hue and cry. She is truly in a vulnerable position.

I wish that Arnav returns soon. She is just not safe in that house with that kameena.

It s not her fault, she can try what she wants to try, but she is powerless at this point.

I would hate to be stuck in that position - she can't talk to anyone about it. Even her useless sister is never there for anything.

actually a also want khushi to slap shyam but when i think over he matter

Originally posted by: Aahanaxx11

I totally agree. That's how people in india are. They think the girl's involved with that guy and its their personal issue and do not come forward to help. And when someone tries to flirt with you and you actually do yell at him in public and show him his right place, people never forget it. Whenever you pass by them they whisper, Look...She was the girl with whom that guy was flirting. Instead of solving the issue in private she yelled at him in public. Is this the way how girls from good families behave? I have actually seen this happening with my friend. The society is disgusting.

Originally posted by: achu_arshi

actually a also want khushi to slap shyam but when i think over he matter

i think she has to patient after all arnav doesn't trust her and she is in the battle alone and also she has to think about anjali

so khushi has lots of responsibilities

so she can't be urgent, that's the reason for her silent

Rima I don't think you can generalize khushi's case with general victim blaming scenario. Khushi is different. Typing the same reply i posted in another thread.

Originally posted by: sree07

Rima I don't think you can generalize khushi's case with general victim blaming scenario. Khushi is different. Typing the same reply i posted in another thread.

Khushi needs to put on her defensive shields. it is not blaming her. Khushi, the character we saw in IPK is a fighter and a righteous one. So we expect the defense mechanisms from her character on shyam's advances. It is not a generalized victim blaming case. As per her character she is supposed to react, which is not happening.Deviation from character traits? As a character khushi, she is supposed to act!

Shyam - khushi equation is no so straight. It thrives on hidden truths.

With shyam, she needs to account lot of factors... like Anjali, family!!

Khushi needs to make sure that everyone stays away from the truth!

Her one word or yell or shout may ruin the RM peace forever! Isn't it? She is well aware of the fact. So she might be playing it down.

Khushi is a smart cookie guys. She retaliates in her own way. I wanted her to retaliate the khushi way today. But she did not. She was confined by many external factors. Give her some time. She will come out and be the Tigress we always want her to be, when the occasion is right! Hope it comes soon⭐️

Originally posted by: ..Manal..

Rima I have to Agree 😕 ! im Sick n tired 😕 I dunno why Always a girl has to be blamed esp Khushi here !! if ASR doesn't believe her ! ! why do people think others will believe her !! plus she is doing it for others safety ! as she knows she can handle her self n she is 👏 !! this is wat makes khushi the strongest character on SP !! she is NOT like others !! !