Don't u actually feel a little bad for Khushi?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well as i am having exams i hardly am on the forum for the past few days..but from the little time i checked around here, well i thought mostly the forum opinion was that she was silly and was actually angry with her behavior..i was a little surprised..

as much as the earlier comedy tracks had no sense whatsoever, this time this track actually makes sense..
From where Khushi stands,
1) She has no idea that Arnav loves her
2) the stupid girl doesn't understand her own feelings (so the jealousy thoughts is also out)
3) she was forcefully married and till today no valid reason was given to her
4) and she was also told the marriage was for 6 months!
5)And above all else, she doesn't know if her life is of any value to him!!(the saddest thing of all!)

ok now put together the clues she has

1) a tv program tells her about an incident where a poor girl was married and later killed off by her rich hubby as it was what his Kundali said to do to make it safe for his actual girlfriend/lover
(now mind u..as surprising as it is..these things happen in the real world!! i have read them in newspapers!)
2) arnav had a girlfriend who left after they broke up (Khushi nor no1 knows the reason)
3) she hears her hubby talking to that ex-girlfriend and about taking someone out of the way
4) he behaves nicely towards her surprising her further

now this is Khushi.. she acts and reacts first and then later thinks
she takes tv stuff and any other crazy thing seriously..that is just plain her


so with all the facts she has she came to a conclusion
1) her hubby married her to fix a problem in his kundali
2) now he wants to kill her as he doesn't want to have her in his life anymore


and to top it all she seems to get all these clues on methods to kill a person..
they r normal day to day things..but as her senses r heightened and searching for the very things she seems to pick all of them..and obviously in a completely wrong way!

and now she is scared for her life..
and she is trying to protect herself from impending death..

i mean don't u feel sad for her?
1) the girl who couldn't stay a moment in hunger is actually staying hungry and skipping meals so she won't consume poison by mistake (not having dinner properly, not drinking the tea, milk)
2) the girl who would sniff a jalebi a mile away and run to consume it, the girl who stole laddoos under her buaji's nose from the prasad, who always ate her jiji's share of sweets whenever she could manage it, is not touching the jalebis she herself prepared and is right in front of her nose!
3) the easy, carefree sleeper who always slept peacefully is not able to sleep peacefully..she gets nightmares, she apparently stayed up the whole night!! (look at the scene in the morning where she lies with her eyes big and not blinking!!)
4) the happy carefree girl with a smile is looking over her shoulder every second if death is approaching!
5) she imagines how her loved ones will cry and remember her..she cries while imaging this!! she seriously is sad here!! she is sad for their sadness and her supposed impending fate!!


i mean for us these seem comical..but this is life and death to this stupid crazy girl!! she is actually scared!

then comes the next part
she is terrified of dieing! but more terrified of living in this fear of dieing eventually at his hands..uncertainty is harder than it actually happening..she has never been one to live in doubts..remmeber the vibhuti in the drink scene? she believed in the 'jaadu' and other crazy things from long before and acted on them too!!
so this is totally within her character..


so what does the crazy girl do? she decides that rather than dieing a hundred deaths every second it is better to actually do it herself! and a similar situation is the above i mentioned, vibhuti in cool drink scene..so she plans on how best to do it!

and then comes the plan of execution! she does all the preliminary activities a person who is about to die will do! and this was pure khushi!! she was about to die(from her crazy point of view) and like everything else she faces death with her sunny personality!! with a smile..
she was first scared.then she made peace as much as she can when she decided the fact was inevitable..then she decided to be happy about the things she had to do rather than being sad about something she can't control..


and then finally the last will filled with love to every single person in her life..every one who mattered to her was given something valuable and useful from her point.. that was khushi, who even when she was going to die decided to make sure others will get something to be happy about!!

ok now my point is..well don't u feel bad for her? i know she is silly..she is stupid..and naive..but isn't she innocent and actually scared?
i actually felt so sorry for her despite laughing my head off watching her antics!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly ..So sweet of you to put the perfect points about Khushi Suffering ..I am just pasting my post in other thread about Khushi in this post
..I am so positive thinking that CVs has shown how a person who can commit suicide feel and suffer ..The way they showed how she felt and suffered a lot even that poor girl thought about that Goat Lakshmi too ..Suicide is never easy task you need so much Guts but she will damn wiling to put it becoz she wanted to end all these tensions and Fear everything ..Khushi character was never ever spoiled in my eyes ..Purely my opinion ..There was no silliness in khushi thinking that her husband wanted to kil her becoz she never know why he married Did she ? She tried to find it in all damn ways like crying, Fighting and annoying him very badly..But he never opened up infront her so what can a girl like khushi think ..She will surely think all possible ways why he married her ..She suspected Shyam thing too but she never got any proof against that Shyam thing

I am very happy today with CVs as they shown exactly what was Khushi feeling ..She have a lovely family who can protect her even if Arnav throws her out ..But the fact is she want to die for Arnav ..Why cant anyone see that love for her husband ..She cant live dying every moment thinking her husband will kil her now or now ..So she wanted to end it all..If she wish she can tell everyone about Arnav Intensions but no she is willing to die for him ..So that her killing blame will never be on him and he can happily live with his love ..

But i can perfectly understand where is this Girl coming from ? I adore her so much today ..My love for Khushi touched the Sky Today..Love you Khushi..I actually felt very bad for khushi what had ASR made her ..she is much loving and fun going girl but now after knowing the truth she will be surely shattered thinking ASR has punished her brutually for the mistake she had never done ...Poor Khushi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i feel terrible terrible for her. she is little more than a child yaar and as I have always said too much is dumped on her. stupid shyam, iron handed arnav, a temporary marriage, daily harassment by shyam, intense hatred from arnav...always always my sympathy and love is with her no matter what her antics are. I don't care what anyone accuses her of. I have never forgotten what she is going through. My only only problem is the way they have completely ruined her route to justice, her most most important moment in life.
This could have been treated so much more asthetically and less comically giving us more reasons to sympathize with her.
do you see many people are not seeing what you and I are seeing because of the silly coomical way of treating things?
they have ruined her most important moment. she deserved the dignity of complete sympathy.
Edited by rima - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A very logical explanation. This path does not seem obvious or normal. 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hats off to you for making this post. I was laughing throughout the episode but actually cried thinking how naive and scared she looked...Of course she had to be scared as she is so cluless about her marriage..and why wouldn't she think of Arnav killing her...he has always hurt her physically whether be it grabbing her hand tightly or drop her down on the box from second floor of his cabin...howw does thinking of him killing her is low thinking...I really hope people out here can understand..so what is she is just character..but she is a women and a women can't understand a pain of other women then who can? If they can go and defend ASR...they also should try to put them into her shoe and feel her pain.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Chinu-

Exactly ..So sweet of you to put the perfect points about Khushi Suffering ..I am just pasting my post in other thread about Khushi in this post

..I am so positive thinking that CVs has shown how a person who can commit suicide feel and suffer ..The way they showed how she felt and suffered a lot even that poor girl thought about that Goat Lakshmi too ..Suicide is never easy task you need so much Guts but she will damn wiling to put it becoz she wanted to end all these tensions and Fear everything ..Khushi character was never ever spoiled in my eyes ..Purely my opinion ..There was no silliness in khushi thinking that her husband wanted to kil her becoz she never know why he married Did she ? She tried to find it in all damn ways like crying, Fighting and annoying him very badly..But he never opened up infront her so what can a girl like khushi think ..She will surely think all possible ways why he married her ..She suspected Shyam thing too but she never got any proof against that Shyam thing

I am very happy today with CVs as they shown exactly what was Khushi feeling ..She have a lovely family who can protect her even if Arnav throws her out ..But the fact is she want to die for Arnav ..Why cant anyone see that love for her husband ..She cant live dying every moment thinking her husband will kil her now or now ..So she wanted to end it all..If she wish she can tell everyone about Arnav Intensions but no she is willing to die for him ..So that her killing blame will never be on him and he can happily live with his love ..

But i can perfectly understand where is this Girl coming from ? I adore her so much today ..My love for Khushi touched the Sky Today..Love you Khushi..I actually felt very bad for khushi what had ASR made her ..she is much loving and fun going girl but now after knowing the truth she will be surely shattered thinking ASR has punished her brutually for the mistake she had never done ...Poor Khushi



exactly!! the stupid girl can actually go and tell her amma or buaji! that he is trying to kill her!! she didn't even for a moment think of exposing him! just like she not even thinking of exposing what he did to her by forcing her in to this sham marriage!!
she was prepared that day to lose every single loved one from her life, yet was prepared to safeguard him (don't tell me she did it to protect her jiji..no if that was the case she could have told her own family a day or 2 later in secret and made them part of her sacrifice)
and today she chose to die (committing suicide is bad i know..but it requires so much strength to take ur own life..it is not easy despite it being called cowardliness to take ur life) rather than expose him for trying to take her life (as wrong as she is this time..well she actually believes it, doesn't she?)

so even in her silliness, just like in her pain her love is hidden..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

i feel terrible terrible for her. she is little more than a child yaar and as I have always said too much is dumped on her. stupid shyam, iron handed arnav, a temporary marriage, daily harassment by shyam, intense hatred from arnav...always always my sympathy and love is with her no matter what her antics are. I don't care what anyone accuses her of. I have never forgotten what she is going through. My only only problem is the way they have completely ruined her route to justice, her most most important moment in life.

This could have been treated so much more asthetically and less comically giving us more reasons to sympathize with her.
do you see many people are not seeing what you and I are seeing because of the silly coomical way of treating things?
they have ruined her most important moment. she deserved the dignity of complete sympathy.



well this post reminds me ur post that day (when she lied to her mom about how wonderful Arnav and he marriage is) when u asked if just because khushi doesn't show her pain in specific scene, does it mean at other times she is not suffering..

so well i think it is very wrong how most people don't get her side at all! rather than the CVs making her suffering come through in a comical manner..i wish people understood a bit more and didn't need tears only to realize someone is suffering..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

i feel terrible terrible for her. she is little more than a child yaar and as I have always said too much is dumped on her. stupid shyam, iron handed arnav, a temporary marriage, daily harassment by shyam, intense hatred from arnav...always always my sympathy and love is with her no matter what her antics are. I don't care what anyone accuses her of. I have never forgotten what she is going through. My only only problem is the way they have completely ruined her route to justice, her most most important moment in life.

This could have been treated so much more asthetically and less comically giving us more reasons to sympathize with her.
do you see many people are not seeing what you and I are seeing because of the silly coomical way of treating things?
they have ruined her most important moment. she deserved the dignity of complete sympathy.


Rima,
I think they deliberately put a comic angle to the suicide angle today. As we all know that they could have delivered a perfectly emotional episode (as we saw on tuesday), however, that would have made us all sympathize with Khushi. I don't think they want any of the viewers to sympathize with someone who is contemplating suicide. Look at it this way. Had they kept it all serious, we would have all cried buckets of tears and said "poor girl, look what the circumstances have led her to do. She is broken down to such an extent that she is on the verge of taking her life". So, our reaction in a way would have condoned her for her suicide thought process. I don't think they want to show this on national television. They cannot even hint that suicide is okay to contemplate under any circumstances. The story required her to attempt suicide, so they have tried to make it comical to reduce the impact, make it look funny, so that the actual blow isn't felt. I think this is why they portrayed the episode as they did.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well this post reminds me ur post that day (when she lied to her mom about how wonderful Arnav and he marriage is) when u asked if just because khushi doesn't show her pain in specific scene, does it mean at other times she is not suffering..

so well i think it is very wrong how most people don't get her side at all! rather than the CVs making her suffering come through in a comical manner..i wish people understood a bit more and didn't need tears only to realize someone is suffering..

yes that day the forum wept for her because her wounds were laid bare, her broken dreams became evident. but like you noticed today despite the comedy we all need to notice this girl is hurting and extremely so
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bidz

Rima,
I think they deliberately put a comic angle to the suicide angle today. As we all know that they could have delivered a perfectly emotional episode (as we saw on tuesday), however, that would have made us all sympathize with Khushi. I don't think they want any of the viewers to sympathize with someone who is contemplating suicide. Look at it this way. Had they kept it all serious, we would have all cried buckets of tears and said "poor girl, look what the circumstances have led her to do. She is broken down to such an extent that she is on the verge of taking her life". So, our reaction in a way would have condoned her for her suicide thought process. I don't think they want to show this on national television. They cannot even hint that suicide is okay to contemplate under any circumstances. The story required her to attempt suicide, so they have tried to make it comical to reduce the impact, make it look funny, so that the actual blow isn't felt. I think this is why they portrayed the episode as they did.



exactly!! and my question is why the hell can't most people get that whether is comical as it is not based on actual facts or not..she was driven to it? don't these people(most of the forum people i mean) realize that she actually attempts to commit suicide? isn't it more than enough reason to sympathize with the girl or at the very least not be degrading to her?

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