Khalish? Yes! & so clear the Ranjish Dammit!

Hiya all😃

Guilt is great on screen😳...when two good looking actors give appropriate attractive expressions. In real life or ''asli zindagi'... guilt is a slow eater of peace and happiness...and no ...not an attractive feeling...and the only way to resolve it is to do something honest and credible about it.😳

So ASR and Khushi...please get to a point now when there is a conversation...and not just a verbal war with no real meaningful conversation or even an attempt at one😳

Originally posted by: JWMRK

Hiya all😃

Mon+Tue

Koi Khalish hai!!!...If there is one word that describes the recent IPPKND experience for me this seems to be it...Khalish

Yes 4 Lions and how...Khalish!...that is a 'pain', 'hurt', 'prick (chubhan)' while watching this endless merry go round!...khalish to hai hi naa....because somewhere you guys are taking an eternity to bite the bullet!...

Yup my take today may not be the cherriest...but based on prior experience and probability of watching the recent merry go round that you have dished so far, it is a practical take.😆😆

There is indeed Khalish...because no one seems to be clear, motivated or for want of a better word even interested in clearing the "ranjish"

Ranjish...the enmity, dushmani

Khalish No 1:

Ok so when last Friday ended me and a few buddies thought this may be it😃...Next week Monday is the dhamaka...why we loonies don't learn lessons and still continue to hope😆😆😆...I don't know

So ok...ASR+Khushi ...you guys had another fight ...congratulations😃...Some accusations were thrown...some 'you back off', 'you go away' words were uttered, some typical flashbacks were shown, and some typical expressions were given by the leads😆😆...

And then today we have Khushi's monologue...the reasonably same monologue which she had in RM a couple of days after the marriage, while making jalebis...😛...And then we had approximately two months of comic merry go round😆😆

So this scene today would have made sense back then...and had it been followe dby a serious attempt to understand why I was gragged like cattle and married off...But no its comedy time or very recently classroom time...Why even today minutes after being rebuked by ASr...Khushi did wahat she does best...Dance😆😆😆...Even more, in the pre-cap again the fun background tune and tone ...at least at the outset given the dialogue I should not run away so he is holding my hand...so is comedy back😆...(watching him hold hands had a totally different effect on me☺️☺️...but then I am not Khushi😆😆).

So where is this recent Khushi monologue heading...any concrete answer...or some more misunderstandings😆😆...after endless repition of the same dialogues

Common how can she go and sulk.. remember she has tried everything under the sun to get him answer her why he married her .. so instead of being the typical SP crying , sulking bahu she hides her pain and goes back to being happy.

I sincerely hope this time she tries and gets some answer from him.. But looking at the recent promo it looks like back to OTT

b) Khalish no 2

Why is it that only ASR has to feel the guilt?😕

Unless I am watching an entirely different serial, a lot of people here need to feel the guilt...starting with the Guptas's themseves...Shyam anyone😆😆😆, shutting off Khushi on marriage day anyone?😆😆😆

So ASR feels the guilt, Barun Sobti does an outstanding job emoting the guilt and then😕...then what😕...do we have a reconciliation? a marriage...a sensible love and trust anywhere here?

I believe in love, peace, happiness and an Honest approach towards life😊...not a Godforsaken need to keep a hurt, ...continue creating bubbles of lies, ...spin stories about everything is ok only to crash it in front of the same elders 5 months down the line...or create misunderstandings and make no sensible attempt to resolve it.

Guilt is great on screen😳...when two good looking actors give appropriate attractive expressions. In real life or ''asli zindagi'... guilt is a slow eater of peace and happiness...and no ...not an attractive feeling...and the only way to resolve it is to do something honest and credible about it.😳

So ASR and Khushi...please get to a point now when there is a conversation...and not just a verbal war with no real meaningful conversation or even an attempt at one😳

You are missing the point here, how can SP having the largest audience (women mostly) base show a woman wrong ? tell me.. They have to show the man wrong, woman right and he changes or rather she changes him from a shaitan to a rajkumar. .. This is how hindi soaps have been running all these years & i bet it will never change.

Khalish no 3

Why are all the flashbacks when Khushi is speaking about ASR negative??...Yes I may be the ASR supporter here but I am in this case...😆😆

a) has he not done things which she wanted...eg. Payash engagement, Payash' sangeet,

b) Has he never made her happy...eg. silver coins in soap packet, bangles,

c) has he never felt her pain...eg. bangle wound, Bauji's hospitalisation

And why is he in Gupta House anyone, in doing so has he not listened to her demands?...

Has he not respect the marriage...Was he not speaking in a way about his own respect for the Guptas😳...or even Khushi when it comes to respecting her as his wife in front of outsiders ...like the Muh Dikhayi ceremony or even now when he is at Gupta House...And how has he been repaid when it come to his outing with outsiders...dabba service, public bath and public exercise

Come on 4 Lions...I get the whole "rishta wohi soch nayi" humdrum...and I am a woman so thank you very much😃...

But stop making the male protagonist look like a demon when he is clearly not...had it not been for Barun Sobti here, the way things are shown, especially the flashbacks, ASR would have been reduced to a cheap grimacing villian by now.

And if you are so sure that he is the vilian of the peace...lets all ...you plus us viewers, save our breath for a more worthy cause...why don't you bump him off or just sack him from the script...please find an alternate lead for Khushi...or if you want to save money ...may I suggest Shyam😃

LOL JW did u not know ASR is the shaitan , rakshas 😆

Anyway most of the forum members and some people outside the forum who i know already think and have convinced themselves that ASR is a villain , the CV's have been successful in this regard. So all that is left is ASR's guilt track to satisfy the viewer's and get higher TRp's

Khalish no 4

Which brings me to the biggest Khalish here...Shyam

Ok so I am very happy that Garima asked Khushi about her relation with Arnav bitwaa ...what about Shyam? Is Shyam still on board in this serial😕... Me thinks he is as his name appreared on a gift label😆😆...

So why would Khushi want to keep gift wrappers or labels gifted by Shyam...Is the grand plan one day when he decides to finally actually physically abuse to help get his fingerprints or DNA?😃😃

Shyam is the horrifying "asli Zindagi" truth that needs to be reminded time and again to Khushi and now to think of it even ASR.

What are we doing to address him...zilch ...nada...zero😆😆...The heroine even managed and outstandingly mindbggling dialogue and monologue..."I will not think about Shyam"...Kya baat Kya baat Kya baat!!😆😆😆😆

Bite the bullet guys before someone is bumped off. Have a conversation and discuss how to deal with Shyam...please

this even i have no clue 😕

Khalish no 5

Routinely mindless scripting and screenplay...and the casting director...the less said the better

I get the point that this whole Preeto wedding was to show to Khushi how kind and well meaning Arnav is and to show to ASR how troubled Khushi will be after this fake marriage is over. Point taken😃.

But pray why does it seem like this is a Gupta wedding and not a Preeto's family affair

Shaadi kiski...aur diwaane kaun ho rahey hai.😆😆😆... 4 Lions when you have a well meaning track, it is sometimes best to leave it subtle😳...Ok I know subtle is a word alien in Hindi serials😆😆😆...Anyways, this same effect of ASR and Khushi realising matters would have been achieved if Gupta's were mere bystanders and not the lead to get Preeto married...I mean Buaji and Amma conducted the affair as it was their wedding😆😆... Khushi called the verbal shots...and ASR the non-verbal.

Whats happening dude😆😆😆...Hulloo, did Preeto not have any family...or were they there only to nod heads and look despondent?

And as usual Khushi was the spokesperson for all Guptas...exactly which asli zindagi 18 year old does that in weddings😆😆😆

And wonder of wonders...from Sangeet ...Preeto and Cheeto got married😲

Voila!!😆😆😆

This was really funny to me also.. 😆

Summary of the Khalishes😆😆

4 Lions, if you are struggling on getting the emotional and intelligent quotient in your own serial ...a reference point for you😊...iskey baad aap khud samajhdaar hai😃...

Here's bringing a common point to the IPPKND tagline..."Nafrat paas aane na dey, mohabbat door jaaney na dey...Is pyaar ko kya naam doon"...

This is committing poetic harakiri...(Ahmad Faraz, Mehdi Hassan and Runa Laila ...please forgive me)...but right now ...this seems the most apt reminder to you for your own forgotten concept of your serial

From ASR to Khushi and Khushi to ASR

Ranjish hi sahi...dil hi dukhaney ke liye aa

Aa phir se mujhe chod ke jaane ke liye aa

Manaa ki mohabbat ka chupana hai mohabbat

chupaakey kisi roz jataaney ke liye aa

From ASR to Khushi

Kis Kis too batayenge judaai ka sabab hum

Tu mujh se khafa hai to zamanekey liye aa

From Khushi to ASR

Pehle sey maraasim (agreement) na sahi phir bhi kabhi to'

Rasmo-rahey duniya hi nibhaaney key liye aa

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Ranjish hi sahi...dil hi dukhaney ke liye aa😳

Aa phir se mujhe chod ke jaane ke liye aa😳

PS: Sanaya Irani...the expressions today in the Garima-Khushi scene were outstanding👏👏👏...from the teary toned to the attempt to sound jolly...poignant and beautiful👏👏

Barun...go get some sleep Buddy😊...you look really tired...and a haircut please😊

Cheers!😃

Hey J 🤗


I liked the epi...but OTTness had been one of my pet peeves regarding this show...be it comedy or any other aspect...and there it continues for snobbiness of rich people too...

I get dat this scenario is to make ASR realize certain values of middle class and Khushi seeing goodness of this Rakshsh...but teeny weeny bit of logic?! especially when the bride's side said the day b4 dat community hall has been booked for marriage?! Except the bride's mother ...All hide behind an 18 year old?! Fine, Telly s a parallel world, no logic there...

The mother-daughter moment was poignant...The harsh reality and trying 2 cover up(ASR portrayed as demon?! Y r u surprised😆 😆 lot more 2 cum... where Shyam wil b made a devta 😳) but I liked her words...This gal really wants 2 b loved by him...all her inner desires
came out as tear-filled-lies...And also after a long not the irritating Gopi Vahu but heart -felt-Khushi smile...

But again comedy with toing toings...so they hav decided progress shud b from only one half while nothing from other side...and Voila! one fine day...everything will b alright...
But I hav made up my mind not 2 except from this show...so watever I get s bonus 😆

And u my friend , mirror almost my every thought in the most beautiful way...Brilliant as always😃

Hola Amigo,

I am so sorry in getting back late.

I actually liked yesterday's episode as I thought that our beloved show is back. But I kind of agree with all your Khalish points. Yes we may be going merry go around like earlier. But I feel the whole sequence yesterday was more to Khushi then what she thought abt it while making Jelabis after their marriage. She maintained her composure instead of confronting him yesterday as always she does. This is the matured Khushi I want. Think and give a thought and start working towards actual problem. I so want her to be like that now.

I am hoping eventually they will go towards truth. Yes, ASR will only feel the guilt..like you said nobody else and I am 100% sure they will show like that only. They won't let Khushi feel the guilty of hiding truth. It's naari shakthi..and even I am a woman, but still one has to learn from their mistakes. But in our show it will not happen.😳

Showing little comedy is fine with me as long as they are trying and using their brains to tackle actual problem instead of running away. This time I am hoping it...if not I am🤢. Since Sanaya is in UK we will see more bubli and Payash scene and comedy will be there. Till now I didn't understand why bubli is here😕

I still keeping hopes that this time they move forward..CVs meri laaz rakhna JW ke saamne😆

But lovely post dear in putting your thoughts so beautifully and so right to the point👏

Ciao

Just wanted to say: I felt that all the flashbacks were Arnav's memories, not Khushi's. HE was remembering all that he had done.

And while you're applying Ranjish hi sahi to Arhi, we must have these too:

From ASR to Khushi
ek umr se hun lazzat-e-giriya se bhi maharoom
ai rahat-e-jaan mujhko rulane ke liye aa

From Khushi to ASR
kuchh toh mere pindar-e-muhabbat ka bharam rakh
tu bhi kabhi mujhko manaane ke liye aa

ab tak dil e khush faham ko hai tujhse ummeedein
yeh aakhri shamme bhi bujhane ke liye aa

Thanks for quoting this lovely ghazal! Maza aa gaya. 😳
Bubble

Hey... I read that as Kailash...so dyslexic me did not correct that and kept going duh...what..

👏 Fantastic post. You have laid out so well all the ranjish we the audience have been experiencing now for too long. But apparently CVs are simply intent on prolonging the khalish with story going to hell. Watching the old episodes, it is hard to reconcile that it was the same show.

Guilt is great on screen😳...when two good looking actors give appropriate attractive expressions. In real life or ''asli zindagi'... guilt is a slow eater of peace and happiness...and no ...not an attractive feeling...and the only way to resolve it is to do something honest and credible about it.

I really liked your take on the concept of guilt which is depicted here only as a crutch to remind audience from time to time that yea, something happened and that leads are supposed to feel something before it all again gets swept under the rug of mindless comedy till the next time guilt is again resurrected.

Khushi's epiphany that ASR is Shaitan and Rajkummar is the same one she has had periodacally for last two months along with her determined "is baar humen pataa karna hi hoga". It is really trite by now.

And I really don't understand how Garima and Bua cannot fathom that all is not well between Arhi. If nothing else, the fact that Khushi goes to other extreme in describing the perfection of her marriage, would have been enough to raise anyone's doubts that it is too good to be true, and Garima is a married lady herself knowing that a marriage is never such perfection except in story book. Oh wait, this is a fictional story!

JW 👍🏼

Res

EDIT-----

Hi JW!!!🤗

Me LOVE your song pick for this post --- love LOVE love ranjish hi sahi!!!! they don't make them anymore -- ghazals like that...they just don't make them anymore!!!

Yesterday, I had much to write once i saw the epi and read your post. But real life was all consuming!!

and today...after the return on the ding dong toing...coupled with the promo ... i seriously want to stuff some apples into someone's mouth!!

Am jumping on to your post of the day!!!!

(apologies)