Arnav humble as never before...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Frankly, when I heard Arnav say the lines about 'respecting wife', I flinched' knew he will be branded a hypocrite. But a thought later' I realized while he might have voiced his hypocrisy' there was something that was a lot more blatant in the plot that unfolded today' the fact that he was humble.

When he realized the groom could be his employee' an employee he knows by face not even by name. He could have so easily revealed himself to everyone else' thrown the power of being Arnav Singh Raizada, THE Boss of the groom's bosses. He just had to show up in d hall... d groom would hv fretted and bowed down to him and so would his family. With his mere presence... this wedding would have gone on without a hitch. Furher, This scenario would have solved so much problem... the mohala ppl would hv known ASR wasn't a mechanic who repairs their random things... he is in fact a business tycoon. He would hv gained so much of appreciation and affection from them for being so humble in comparison to d groom and his family... when in reality his stature in society is unparalleled

Or he could have chosen an easier option to splurge his money around... step up the arrangements... buy lavish gifts for the groom and family... order five star food etc'

But he choose not to do that...he seemed to sense d groom liked the girl but just didn't have it in him to stand up against his family. so in his own discreet way Arnav tried setting things in order. He immediately stopped Khushi from making sarcastic remarks over melting ice creams, avoided situation that could have snow balled into something else. He introduced himself as Arnav, khushi's husband and not their nephew's employer Arnav Singh Raizada!!! He could have easily had those ppl call his wife 'Khushi Ma'am' instead of accepting her mistake and having ice cream ordered for. This in stark contrast to his behavior to the guests who attended Khushi's Muk Dikayi ceremony and insulted his family and wife' the situation was the same, he could have still behaved the same'he didn't. It wasn't merely about him or his family' there was another family involved' he sobered down.

Yes, he handled it in a business manner... the way he knew best... yet what stood out for me was a glance at the innocent bride before he went about doing what he felt was d best way to set things right. It showed he cared for an innocent person out there... and not his urge to show he was all powerful. He understood that he might be able to avert any trouble today... but would things be better after the wedding? May be not... that is what he set out to correct.

Surely he might not practice what he preached today... but that doesn't mean he doesn't believe in it. Let's not forget he is also a brother whose sister is being cheated upon by her husband...a guy who has realized his brother in law is with is sister only for his wealth and not love' what he said might have stemmed from that experience.

Having said all this... i am in no way defending the wrong Arnav has committed on khushi. He will have to set that right... heal her hurt and win over her love and trust... and i am sure he will put his heart and soul into those efforts... but until then we cannot rob him d right to stop injustice just because he isn't fair on someone else.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I second that! Very well said.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree Tanu... and perhaps ASR did want the guy to amend his wrongs so that his would be bride looks upon him with trust and respect. If ASR had revealed his identity, none of this could have happened...
All in all you said everything well
And while everyone is appreciating ASR, I want to appreciate the efficient Aman😎
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Posted: 13 years ago
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sorry to tell this " But this is Calm before Storm". really bad times ahead for us in IPKKND 😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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He sorted everything out quietly and didn't make a scene.. he took everyone's feelings into account before acting.
If it was the old Arnav he would have helped them but in his way, no consideration of what anyone thinks.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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the best of wat cud hv been written abt today's end dialogue!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well said! And I couldn't agree with you more! It's clear that he learns from his mistakes - and my how he has grown as a character! His humbling attitude has developed consistently over the episodes, I was shocked to see just how much he had changed when I re-watched earlier episodes. Too good!

Kudos x
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very well said ,great post
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said..
He was always showed to be a caring person, just not infront of Kushi...
the temple scene were he bought all the dove for a little girl just because she was crying was shown to us in the first few months itself...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏 👏👏
really liked the way you have interpreted Arnabs way of solving the problem .
I havent seen the episode , when stalking the forum - found out people were bashing Arnav left and right . But your explanation is very logical - why Arnav behaved the way he has .
He cannot drive the baraat away , then the innocent bride will be blasted by everyone . I do not know the details - but Arnav must have taken the right steps .
Please comment more in the forum , we need more posts like yours .

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