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trina2010

@trina2010

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+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Shastradhari
i just hate that terrace scene being flashed again and again..

He is changing and respecting his wife and family now..now he knows them.

but i will definitely expect him to give some advice to his brother aaksash ..so that he can stop mami addressing khoon bhari tang and pahti saree.

he should confidently face khushi and ask her about that gift wrap. Whats going on with shyam?? he does not have courage>...my problem is there.. he si not thinking that shyam was her fiance and may have gifted her..in the past..

this MU is taking all the hairs from us...by the time it will clear we will be mentally completely destroyed to smile

No one can teach that dreadful MAMI anything. She is beyond everything.Akash is very supportive towards Payal and ASR knows that.I think this is the reason he is NOT SAYING much to Akash because he is SURE that his brother cares for his wife.

Just my POV . No offense

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NANDHINI

@hellokitty94

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

ASR has changed a lot and ajusted with gupta famil and their behaviours he never let them or khushi down in front of others even khushi wen he hated a lot after the terrace seen he didnt let her getiing scolding frm others thinking she deseves it he supported b4 everyone...

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Mitrashakti

@Mitrashakti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: trina2010
Srry but I DO NOT agree with you here.
First the incident you mentioned happened long ago and Khushi was NOT Mrs ASR then.I am NOT supporting his behaviour BUT todays dialogue has NOTHING to do with his actions before.
Again according to ASR Khushi is having an affair with his Brother in law and she also asked the said person to leave his Di ( NOT counting ASRs amnesia here regarding Khushis Fiance fiasco because that was done by Cvs ),So dont you think ASR is behaving pretty decent and protective towards Khushi whom he was supposed to HATE and torture for her dids?
ASR was a BIT HARSH with Khushis family regarding the AC incidence and ofcourse he should have asked them before getting the AC but after THAT he is very polite and respectful for them .
Specially today when he found out some more proofs regarding Shyam Khushi relationship instead of going away( he was planning to leave GH today)he decided to help Khushis friend and even made sure that the marriage should happen. Why would he do that for his DIDI KI SAUTS friend?
He was burning in jealousy today when he saw another proof of Shyam Khushi relationship but he chose to help Khushi .
As far as Payash is concerned I think nobody can teach mami anything but ASR knows that Akash loves and supports Payal and DOES NOT need to intervene .
We should not forget no matter how much hatred he has in his heart for Khushi he always kept the matter private NOT only at RM but also at GH . He always supported Khushi in public or in front of his Family. He was MEAN to her whe they are alone and he is going to repent BAD very soon but he is tolerating her each and every antics without doing anything where he STILL BELIEVES that Khushi IS WITH SHYAM AND DOES NOT LOVE HIM .
Just my POV.

Trina, as I said misunderstandings happen in life...but it no way gives him the right to manhandle her. Even if she presumably according to him was having an affair... He had no right to destroy her life forcing a marraige on her. He chose to punish Khushi and not Shyam because he knew she was weak and was a softer target than Shyam. To me his dialogue about respect didn't gel with me because respecting someone as a human being should be a courtesy irrespective of having a misunderstanding or not.

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Mitrashakti
Rima, I saw some parts of the epi today...I interpreted as pure hatred in his eyes...did you see the way he started manhandling her...it's really upsetting to watch her going through this again and again. He is extremely aggressive and I cannot fathom the fact it is portrayed as passion and repeatededly justified because he is under a misunderstanding.

Misunderstandings happens and there should be a limit ...the line shouldn't be crossed. ASR has crossed this line every time.

Did you read about SF police chief Ross Mirkarimi...he manhandled his wife and look what happened...he is suspended and taking anger management classes...why are there no consequences in India for manhandling a woman?

This is not acceptable.

the CVs give out a lot of wrong messages in IPKKND. The Shyam harassment part of Khushi is my pet peeve. When ASR holds Khushi it is in anger, but I wish that they could cut it down. After all the poor girl has been in the receiving end for very long

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appu_arhi

@appu_arhi

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Oh really, think urself in Arnav s position any 1 will be angry...

Inspite of that he is helping and its for a social cause... Kushi is the reason behind ASR becoming Arnav thats d change v saw today from Arnav...

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Priyanka

@AmazingAmy

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Agreed...but a lot of things are out of place in this show...if I start making a list, I will lose my mind.

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trina2010

@trina2010

Rocker

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

@ Mitrashakti ASR was devoid of such feelings from the begining. His actions were never justified and he looked at life on the basis of his past which might be traumatic.

His behaviour before ,during and after his marriage to Khushi was cruel and he is going to repent hard FOR this BUT at this moment with the cloud of MU in his mind for Khushi he is acting pretty decent with her in my POV.

IMO he wants Khushi in his life NOT ONLY FOR HIS DI but for himself also. he did have a contract (not sure whether they have an actual one or just verbal) BUT he is still hoping for Khushi to accept him andf forget Shyamu.

Ofcourse Shyamu is getting all the opportunitunities because of Anjali but ASR is trying his best to do everything from his side to STOP Shyamu. Ofcourse he cant do much since his precious Dis idiotic love and trust for her hubby is preventing him from doing as much as he wants to. ASR is going to suffer for this and even after the MU is cleared Anjalis stupidity is going to create immense problem in ASRs life. Although I MUST SAY ASRs too much affaction for his Di is intolerable for others sometimes and I ABSOLUTELY HATE IT but this is what ASR is. When he loves someone he loves immensely. Now Anjali is there with him all his life and they even faced all the problems together in his life so obviously he is more inclined towards Anji(I HATE IT REALLY) and now he is facing a battle of love and hate both for the same person Khushi. He is loosing it time and time and hence this manhandling and outbursts. Though I DONT SUPPORT such behaviour but it happens TRUST ME. I have seen it many times in real life as well.

Khushi is suffering the burnt of his MU without any fault of her own

but ASR also knows that he is wrong but again loosing control again and again.

I hated the sleeping arrangements after marriage but now Cvs are trying to kinda level it up by making ASR force Khushi to use the Bed while he sleeps in the stupid couch.

Anyway from next week or during the ME we are going to get a shattered Khushi which might kickstart ASRs guilt trip pretty soon. Keeping my fingers crossed for that

Edited by trina2010 - 13 years ago

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music1

@music1

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

For a guy who believes that his wife is having an affair with his sister's husband and to prove that they even showed that she has kept the gift wrapper safe in her chest...I believe he has come a looong way from the ruthless ASR of the past...He is still coping up with her antics and also in his own way trying to adjust with the Gupta lifestyle...give him credit for that atleast ...