how is ASR a hypocrite :S ? !Explain please :S - Page 11

Originally posted by: Nandalala

That promo is something else...get ready for "The Garden of Eden" meets (imaginary) "Psycho"🤣🤣 I won't be around much these next few weeks, but will look out for the Crooner & your threads! Your gifs rule!⭐️

Btw, all the best w/your studies...rock 'n roll, babe!!!😎

Originally posted by: tia.o

Originally posted by: Chasing_Shadows

Well... it hurts me to say this but in yesterday's episode Arnav did come across as a hypocrite to me. 😭 Not because he doesn't treat Khushi with respect ... coz as you said he hates her, thinks she is a cheat etc etc so I don't have any expectations from him as far as his wife Khushi is concerned.

However, what about the way he treated Lavanya? She wasn't his wife but they were in a relationship ... a live in relationship at that ... he brought her home to piss off his nani, he announced his engagement to her to piss off Khushi, he brought her back home after she left his house coz Khushi asked him to, made Khushi jealous using her and then finally he dumped her coz he realized he loves Khushi. Is that the kind of respect you show to a girl ur in a relationship with? Even when they were together he was always rude to her whenever she tried getting romantic he brushed her off ... I know we all loved it then but im just saying that he never had any respect for his girlfriend. He completely used her man 😒

He completely redeemed himself later when he told her that he doesn't feel for her and broke up the engagement for her good. That's the only time he showed her respect. But that doesn't change the fact that he never had any respect for his girlfriend which is a very important relationship. And I am sure he would have continued with the same behavior had he married her. Lavanya changed herself for him .. yeah I know she did love his money too but I think she genuinely loved him too in her own way. No girl would change so much otherwise.

Also, the way Payal is insulted in the house ... has he ever asked Akash to stand up for her? Has he ever given him this lecture on respecting ones wife ... ?

I loved Arnav yesterday ... loved how he handled the situation ... loved the change in him ... loved how humble he has become ... what I didn't like was just this one dialogue "respect ur wife" coz it didn't make sense ... that would be just like Khushi saying respect ur husband... so that dialogue was unecessary ... also Arnav is not the kind of person who would give any bhashans or preach so it came across as a lil weird to me ... otherwise I am good... I am sure once the mu is cleared he's gonna be the best husband ever!!!! oh how i love him!!! ❤️😍

Originally posted by: slanka

I won't call it HYPOCRICY,, it leads me to look in to a different angle of a poor fellow with SHATTERED DREAMS,, HIS WORDS SOUNDED AS IF THOSE CAME FROM HIS DREAM WORLD,,A WORLD OF FANTACY WITH PERFECTION,, but the bitter TRUTH happened to be entangled with the REALITY,, He wishes that everything was fine in his life,,(which never happened) , He wishes there are no Cheaters in the world, he wishes the husbands would love and respect wives and their families,,THAT IS HIS DREAM,, JUST A DREAM ,, HE FEELS WOULD NEVER COME TRUE,, BUT HE ALWAYS WISHES TO BE LIVED IN.

He is the same poor boy who suffered since childhood, the same guy who was aftraid of certain things (marriage,losing his sister,death of near ones) due to his past experiences,,an

d today ,,he is the same man who is at the verge of the ruining of his only dreams,, so it sounds as if those words uttered ( seems as a preach without practising) came out of a pure heart,, as if he blubbered his heart's feeling in his dream-- The way he wishes to be...

He always loved his family , respected his wife in his own way,,

THINK...

he never tolerated anyone insulting her (remember how he spoke to those women who came to give blessings to the newly wed bride) ,

he was always protective and possesive towards her(diwali- when an unknown man was trying to dance with her,,he became very angry and possesive)

he doesn't even bear anyone looking at her (Nk looking at her loosen outfit)

he cannot see her tears,, he would go beyond his principles to make her happy (saying sorry)

he always cares of her public reputation (Heer-Ranjha)

he is not ready to accept any insult towards his in-laws (Does recent GH track prove that although he is not ready to forgive her and make her his wife, but he has already believes in the relationship that he has become the son in law of GH?)

He couldn't stand the groom's party insulting his in laws and their kith and kin.

IT SEEMS,,

HE may be believing in his words..but something (MU) drags him back and prevent him from practicing this preach..he is repenting time to time as he is not able to put this in to practice,,,as if it reflects ---if there had been no MU, he would have easily practiced this preach..

On the other hand , this may be the scars of his old wound,, what he wished his brother in law would be,, what he wished every husband would be ,after undergoing the unbearable sorrow of mishap with his only world- Anjali di & Kushi

If there comes a day he realizes his MU, then ther will be no hurdles or boundaries for him to show how to respect her ( and her family),but alas!! till he cleares this MU his heart will keep fighting over the practice and preach.

All these are because of love,, hate is also playing one aspect of this love-- embraced with jealousy of not letting anyone owe which he believes is his!!

Even he knows (due to MU) what sort of a destrution his wife has created , what sort of face he is believing she has, he still can't stop himself caring and being softened towards her. That is what he wishes ,but when he faces the bitter truth, the prince turns to be a beast.

He tries his best to avoid disrespecting her, see how he asks her to come out, instead of talking about the theft of his vehicle's spare parts.

It's not what I mean : that she is totally innocent and not desereve to be treated in this harsh manner,, but yet from his angle he is desperate as much as she is!!

Remeber his own wors (Heer -Ranjha)

He says THERE IS SOME OTHER WORLD WHERE THEY CAN BE UNITED.

Isn't this what he always wishes??

ISN'T THIS HIS DREAM WORLD, WHICH HE LONGS TO LIVE IN??