An open letter to KKG - Page 2

I am really confused bt what the CVs r trying 2 prove 😕 No wonder the TRPs are down!

I don't get why should Khushi give him Silent treatment is it norm for punishment in any case he likes silence he will hardly be bothered!!!!

Originally posted by: uniquebluerose

I don't get why should Khushi give him Silent treatment is it norm for punishment in any case he likes silence he will hardly be bothered!!!!

I don't like the drag they showing but why should she wait for six month contract and then walk out!!!!

Let her do what she wants or feels like to make him get exasperated and throw her out!!!!

He is the coward here who can't confront her...and he has proved it not one but twice...I will be very happy the day he throws her our...why should she wait for his stupid six months and then walk out...

She want to thrown out and and however OTT it is let her do it her own way her own loud way!!!!

Just like he doesn't clarify MU or confront her for mistakes and not even bother to explain her...what wifely duty are for wife of six months...i would like to know!!!!

so well i guess before we advice oh on being dutiful wife let him first learn at least to respect and protect his wife...

I am sorry to say this but Rose u r not understanding what many of us are trying to tell. I dont mind if she even hired assassins to kill arnav. Shyam hates anji & wants 2 marry Kushi so his idiotic schemes 2 kill Anji makes sense though they r juvenile. Similarly ASR wants 2 punish Kushi for 1st breaking his heart & then 2nd breaking his Di's marriage. So he is cruel to her so his actions make sense. Wat we are saying is Kushi's actions dont make sense.

WHAT DOES SHE WANT? REALLY WANT?

If she really HATES ASR & wants him 2 break this marriage y did she feel bad that the same guy showers love on his Di but hatred on her. She hates him right & wants 2 leave RM right? then y bother if he hates her.

So she LOVED (note the past tense) him & her heart was cruelly broken. Let me tell u something Rose. Mine is an arranged marriage. I loved my hubby but he loved his mom more who created lots of issues between us. There ve been times when he has hurt me really hurt me a lot.

Like KKG even i thought i ll walk out of this marriage. But then i sat & introspected. Do i really love this guy. Will i b happy if i leave him. The honest answer was NO. So i decided to find out wat was wrong in this relationship.

Like ASR even my hubby refused 2 answer my questions. MEN ALWAYS DO THAT. DODGE QUESTIONS. So i tried to find out the answers myself. How? By trying to understand more bt him. I found out that basically his mom never showed love or responsibility within the family. Only thing was she cooked well & also was showy when it came 2 her so-called love.

So i learned 2 cook all his favourite dishes. He doesnt like loud female who argue, fight, create spectacle or cry. I was never loud but i am v argumentative. I curbed that as well. I stopped arguing with him. I w'd say yeah u r right, i am wrong & simply leave. I used 2 do all the work & ignore him. If he speaks 2 me i ll answer. He simply went mad. Then slowly he started changing. Now aft having a kid i can c lot of drastic changes in him.

I know u ll again argue y s'd Kushi do all this for ASR. For the simple reason y she did all this 4 her ungrateful family. She cherishes relationships & tries hard to make them work.

Has ASR not shown his concern to her in his gestures. He even became a waiter in her house for all her guests. Removed all those soiled plates. Again Heer Ranjha episode.

He has shown he cares but 4 some reason he seems 2 b angry with her. Is she not even curious. She apparently understands his body language & can read his lips. Then y the hell couldn't she c the tension bet him & Shyam & y is she spending her efforts in exposing/thwarting Shyam & find out wats wrong in her relationship with ASR?

They truly have butchered both the characters. There is no consistency whatsoever in the plot now and it defies common sense.

Originally posted by: Angels11

I am sorry to say this but Rose u r not understanding what many of us are trying to tell. I dont mind if she even hired assassins to kill arnav. Shyam hates anji & wants 2 marry Kushi so his idiotic schemes 2 kill Anji makes sense though they r juvenile. Similarly ASR wants 2 punish Kushi for 1st breaking his heart & then 2nd breaking his Di's marriage. So he is cruel to her so his actions make sense. Wat we are saying is Kushi's actions dont make sense.

WHAT DOES SHE WANT? REALLY WANT?

If she really HATES ASR & wants him 2 break this marriage y did she feel bad that the same guy showers love on his Di but hatred on her. She hates him right & wants 2 leave RM right? then y bother if he hates her.

So she LOVED (note the past tense) him & her heart was cruelly broken. Let me tell u something Rose. Mine is an arranged marriage. I loved my hubby but he loved his mom more who created lots of issues between us. There ve been times when he has hurt me really hurt me a lot.

Like KKG even i thought i ll walk out of this marriage. But then i sat & introspected. Do i really love this guy. Will i b happy if i leave him. The honest answer was NO. So i decided to find out wat was wrong in this relationship.

Like ASR even my hubby refused 2 answer my questions. MEN ALWAYS DO THAT. DODGE QUESTIONS. So i tried to find out the answers myself. How? By trying to understand more bt him. I found out that basically his mom never showed love or responsibility within the family. Only thing was she cooked well & also was showy when it came 2 her so-called love.

So i learned 2 cook all his favourite dishes. He doesnt like loud female who argue, fight, create spectacle or cry. I was never loud but i am v argumentative. I curbed that as well. I stopped arguing with him. I w'd say yeah u r right, i am wrong & simply leave. I used 2 do all the work & ignore him. If he speaks 2 me i ll answer. He simply went mad. Then slowly he started changing. Now aft having a kid i can c lot of drastic changes in him.

I know u ll again argue y s'd Kushi do all this for ASR. For the simple reason y she did all this 4 her ungrateful family. She cherishes relationships & tries hard to make them work.

Has ASR not shown his concern to her in his gestures. He even became a waiter in her house for all her guests. Removed all those soiled plates. Again Heer Ranjha episode.

He has shown he cares but 4 some reason he seems 2 b angry with her. Is she not even curious. She apparently understands his body language & can read his lips. Then y the hell couldn't she c the tension bet him & Shyam & y is she spending her efforts in exposing/thwarting Shyam & find out wats wrong in her relationship with ASR?

Hi Angels!

Originally posted by: uniquebluerose

well probably i don't even want to understand!!!!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> That is precisely the prob with KKG as well. Like u even she is not putting any effort to find out. Yes she asked/demanded questions frm him & he never answered. I ve already written that men r like that. u try asking them emotional questions. u ll never get a straight answer. So its 4 the girl 2 try & understand her guy. Why the hell is the question being asked by the feminist in u & me. Then tell me something y do women cry more than men. Do u ve an answer for that. Men & women r different & the way they react to the same situation is different.

What she wants...

I keep wondering what ARnv wants...does he ant love from Khusi...does he want hate from Khushi...what does he want...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Men want only tasty food on their plate, TV remote in their hand, a warm bed to sleep & once in a while good sex.

You may b shocked honey but this is wat men want. Bluntly put this is wat Arnav the man wants. He hates her not coz of her so called betrayal but coz despite her betrayal he still loves her. Hence the fury & anger.

Please tell me...Why did he marry her what sense does it make in marrying a girl you hate or think borke your sister marraige and bringing her to live along with your sister in the same home!!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> He thinks that he married 2 save his Di's life. But believe me men always love to pretend that they r blind or asleep. In reality he married her 4 the simple fact that he couldnt stand the thought of her with another man. Believe me even if she IS a tart he loves her so even aft the so called 6 mths he ll not let her go. My hubby keeps hurting me asking me 2 leave the house. But even if i come & sleep in the hall he ll come & blackmail me into sleeping inside. Not coz he wants 2 boss over me coz he knows that i cant sleep alone without a bed & wen i am uncomfy he cant sleep peacefully.

yeah yeah now u ll say that he made her sleep near the poolside but she now sleeps on the bed & he on the recliner. Its pure apple sauce that he did it 4 his Di. No1 can make a guy like ASR do anything unless he wants 2 do it.

He was feeling guilty but his ego prevented him frm asking her 2 sleep inside. So the moment Kushi & Anji hijacked his room he simply used that as an excuse 2 let her sleep inside. Believe me thats how a man's mind works.

No probably she is still not sure of her feelings and yes nor is she sure of his feeling anymore!!!

so she acting all rebellious just like many teenagers do...

Sad to know about your issue in marriage but ...and will not comment on that as my boat is also a bit rocking and my view are bit different!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Believe me all other methods failed. If the hubby is not a psycho but a normal, decent human being then let me tell u that my method is the only method that works.

u go & tell a man 2 do something he ll dig his heel in like a dense ass & refuse 2 accept. leave them alone & automatically they ll toe ur line.

She cherishes relationsship who gave her love...not those who gave her hate!!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Yeah i sincerely believe u wen u say that Buaji, Garima & Payal showered her with selfless love. The only person who truely loved her is Shashi.

and sorry showing love for person who has contract marriage with me or doesn't even treat me like human being even if i love him to death doesn't work for me!!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Fine simply ignore him. The truth is KKG just wants an excuse to see him, talk to him, fight with him. Its her idea of foreplay.

I believe in living in dignified way...as of now she want to thrown out by him without the silly blackmail about her sister marriage and yes wants to know why the hell he married her!!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Dignified is not barging into a conference, shutting other people's laptops without their consent, bringing dabbas & making a spectacle before strangers.

No she will not understand...she is only 18 and has seen only so much of life...He needs to spell it out...and if he can't and she leaves...may she will be miserable but she will learn to ignore it and make other happy like always...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> You cant make ppl happy all the time. Sometimes others simply need their own personal space & solitude. Something which KKG ll never understand & Payal understands.

He is the man who never smiled till she cam...let him lead his lonely life... good for him...the so called Banshee wife goes away...as you guys says ...he deserves much better right!!!!

So yes i seriously do not mind then...

and as for her finding our the tension between ASR and Shyam...I ask you is he blind..can't he see how she ran away when Shyam came to apply colours first and cringed when he came in front of others!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Men r blind wen they r hit by the green eyed monster. My hubby actually gets annoyed if i spend time on the ph with my sister & dad even wen he royally ignores me. They like 2 think that only they ve a right over their girl.

Can't he think if the women for whom marriage is so important will she break another marriage...can't he see the care Khushi has for Anjali and think if she cares ofr Anjali why she wants to break Anjali marriage...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Currently KKG is mocking that relationship dear.

can't he see the idiot Jeejaji has not reformed even after giving a second chance so he should try to give second chance to Khushi his love and not to that creep!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> He has given her a 2nd chance. y else do u think he has her in his house. if he just wanted 2 ruin her life he c'd ve given some excuse & dumped KKG in her parents' house & c'd ve gone on business tour.

I suggest you better write letter to Arnav as far as i see losing Khushi for him will be greater pain...than Khushi losing Arnav ...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Both ll b in pain dear.

Unfortunately u seem 2 b on the same boat as Kushi. I repeat in Marriage An eye for eye makes only both the people blind. i ve written my responses 2 each of ur question in ur post.

Originally posted by: aath

They truly have butchered both the characters. There is no consistency whatsoever in the plot now and it defies common sense.

i still feel that ASR's character is still intact & consistent. they beautifully show the progress/growth in his character.

Very sorry should never have come to your post at all...

Originally posted by: Angels11

i still feel that ASR's character is still intact & consistent. they beautifully show the progress/growth in his character.