Today's post on good and bad - page 40 - Page 28

Originally posted by: AR-ARHI_naila

Anna, I dont know why u feel that there might be a fight between us. I was quite decent in my posts I believe. I didnt know that u would be offended by me for just saying" didnt expect khushi being called inhuman for her not feeling Arnavs pain from a sensible member like u". its not like personal attack. its just that I was amused that u called her inhumane for that. thats all. anyway, will be more careful about my writing in the future.

Im not saying khushi was right for not feeling the pain. I was also pissed of at her. but I cant call her inhumane for it. When I was young, my lil sis had mams and her face looked like a big football. I felt her pain, but also sometimes couldnt help
laughing seeing her like this.I dont think I was being inhumane then. My point she should feel pain, I was also pissed of at her for that. but couldnt call her inhumane or didnt hate her.

anyway, as u r getting offended by my response, I wont post here anymore. It is really a pleasure to go through ur threads and know different POVs. Hope to c u in another thread. 😊

Originally posted by: prathikri

Anna dear there is really no point in trying so hard in convincing Kushi's supporters that we are not her bashers & all we did not like was the fact that she mocked at his sprain...which is so not her... Even in Sathya's and Suspective post i have read a majority of them did not like what she did..

It like what ever Kushi does is so what ?? she has gone through a lot so she can be immature behave like a 5 yr old and laugh at the peron who she is in love (still not convinced) with .. 😆

Originally posted by: riti4u

Read a lot of views here I think ppl have misunderstood what topic meant to say..it is not about khushi bashing..it is just about lack of concern in khushi for Arnie's pain..No one is blaming her..but fault lies with CVs here..when they portray her as full of heart and all goodness ,why she cudnt feel a slight pain with arnie's pain..when she is supposedly in love with him..-subconciously she is shown to be in love..why this love cums on and off..thats all...I love khushi a lot too...but in this show..it seems that arnav's love is more than khushi...even when he thinks she cheated his sister..

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Okay Naila I was not offended by that comment. I was offended when you said you did not think that I being sensible would do this so Relax!! :)) No fights and I know you would not so sorry if gave that impression.

Naila - frankly for me also - it was not inhumane - but the way I have been made to believe after the whole Arnav letting Khushi sleep outside was inhumane - I said the same thing! Pinched right!? That is what I wanted to say - What Arnav did was not inhumane at that time - yet people did certifu him with that - made me to believe - thanks to the femisnits - that inhumane is when you treat another person like crap and I felt the same about Khushi so in the forum's language 'inhumane'.

I do not want to stop you from commenting here - U are welcome here and discuss and I would not be offended just do not talk about me only being an Arnav fan and not seeing Khushi's POV - I do - I juts do not find the need to post about it since there are more than enough! I have no qualms with Khushi except the feeling part and this was what the whole post was about! So if you were pissed - I guess we are on the same wave length :)

Originally posted by: --Anna--

[B] Hahaha! Praths I did not get sleep last night because so many people pmed me saying they loved my post but were scared to post here since it would be considered bashing! Even I do not get is why the post is being seen as a Khushi bashing post or something on the grounds on Arnav slept outside that is why - its simple - the lack of concern was the only problem.

I generally reply to Tanthya's post but I was scared to vomit everything out there. When I read it - I was happy because she felt the same thing - Khushi is not Arnav - she can feel and she should have even if for a micro second. She said the same things I said (in a much better way ofcourse and that made me content) - Why is it so difficult to understand that we do not hate Khushi or her antics - it was the lack of concern that bothered me and I vented out! Too much to ask!?

I was not planning to reply - but Nabs and Naila are old friends and that is why I did :))

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Hi Anna, if I may dare to say so- the difference between yours' and Sathya's posts are very clear to a neutral person. That is why I commented on the second page that this post is going to be hugely popular and predited that it will turn into a bashing post.. It is your language..there is a some difference between the way you and she expressed views... Just replying as a friendly forum friend...When you are calm, and read both of the posts again, you will also understand...I was also little concerned by the way Khushi behaved y'day. But if you loved Khushi as you had said last time in our convo. you would not have been this critical... You would have shown the same patience that you showed towards Arnav and defended her intead of making a post few minutes after the epi was aired. it was like you were waiting for khushi to do something to jump at her... 😉

Originally posted by: binsur

Completely agree with you!! I know where my post and Tanthya's post differs! I know I vented out my frustration yesterday a bit OTT! I know that and I did say that - Tanthya wrote it in a more matured way than me! It was not like I was waiting to jump on Khushi - what frustrated me was comments like ' Arnav deserved it and we do not feel sorry for him' - that piSsed me off even more - and I did jump out angered - U did not have to tell me that - I did realize that after I cooled down after an hour. :))) And that is why I did say above that maybe I wrote it in a wrong way!

See - when I know I got rude - I do not mind accepting it. My post was a bit OTT but the intention was Not to bash Khushi like it seemed - and we did not - infact we did have only constructive criticism and Yet Arnav was the one who was made bali ka bakra!

So no offense taken :))

Edited by --Anna-- - 13 years ago