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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: smitar

If we look at the entire story right from the beginning to the present point, a few things stand out.

We have been given a clear picture of the main characters.

We know the other characters, and what they are capable of.

All extraneous elements have been distanced from the lives of the leads, leaving them to concentrate on one another. La is out of the picture. Shyam's true nature is known by the leads. Both Arnav & Khushi are being isolated by both families.

ArHi have to live beneath one roof, in one room. They have to contain their problems to themselves & their room. They have no other choice for 6 months.

Regardless of how Arnav acts & Khushi reacts now, things can only get better between them. There is no story otherwise. Moreover there is a villain waiting for them to do something about him. In this process, they will learn more about themselves & each other.

I Hope!

oh can I hug you for the lines in black...it is all about the journey to learn ...the depths of love one is capable of..the testing times of that love ..and truly to put in perspective the wedding vows in place..
The path of true love is never smooth ..and as I said ..if we wanted to see a happy wedding the show would have been over..the premise of the show demands this track..but it is all about growing up..for KKG to gorw up and smell the coffee..to put a word to the DHAK DHAK..for ASR to put a meaning to the word marriage..at least that is what I would like to believe..
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ZJ... humko tumseee hogaya hai pyaaar kya kare...chaahee toh jiye chaahe...marjaaaye...humko tumsee...*this is displaying my lub for u...nowadays that mellow is not there..u can be my lobe :P*

ive been one who has always been against the marriage track...sole reason being it would just bring too much bahu drama, matrydom and would then become a dhrona fest around how to win my wife cos shes so awesomely awesome and im a twit...

i hate asr and love arnav at the same time...i feel his pain and i feel his anguish...the thought of his love betryaing him and more importantly his sister ki thali being threatened...the double betrayal has all but pushed him to his previous self...the asr takes over for most times...but his interactions with khushi in the last 8 months has made sure that the arnav is somewhere alive and jabs him each time he completely does the transformation...the arnav is what doesnt send him into a murderous rage..frankly had he seen thsi shyam kkg interaction on day 1...im sure she and shyam would be in some unknown prison not seeing the light of day...
ive always said that arnav/asr is very reminiscent of snape...hes a demon and a good guy at the same time...snape came back to the good when he realized his love was being threatened with death...he tried everything in his power to stop that but failed...on that day he donned the role of protector and never let it go, but never dispalyed it to the world...arnav/asr still has to realize his love and then cross over...im sure even then he will do things like today...from the bleachers and never show his true good self to the world or her...i dont know if im making sense here !!

khushi's character : now she needs to realize one day, that hiding the truth about shyam (whtever good intention it was) has somewhere caused harm...even unwittingly...when she hears him say she hurt him...its the first time i see her have that expression of how could i have ever hurt him...the thought of maybe shes in the wrong has struck her for the first time in so many months...and i want to see it developed rather tha be squished...
if she does realize that the wedding was due to shyam, it woudl be sort of interesting to see how she gets it out to arnav...though i much rather avoid more drama and leave out antoehr random vague agniparkisha to get there !!!

i wanted to marriage to be a fake one...cos when they married i wanted it to be for love...nevertheless...that epi where they show the sharing the room and her bangles irritating him...it seems like the most natural thing that they are under one roof, and they are together...
im waiting to see how th CVs take it further, cos there is still hope for absolute brilliance and the rise of the dark knight...now that the SPA and other parivar awards are done...i just want them to stob the drama sob fest and remove all the buas and the dis and maa's and focus on these two...

no one paid me either...but im sure renu and shamika will give us athhanies (50p) for it...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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How many of us feel that getting married was necessary...that it was the only way out... The current situation is a mockery of the institution of marriage..but was it necessary??
It started off on a wrong note to begin with..a note of mistrust..misunderstanding..coercion with black mail and a means to an end. ..So much in character with the businessman cutting a deal ..but done in the heat of moment of blind rage..that simmered down to a cold blooded decision resorting to any lengths to get the desired objective..
We as the viewers had been given adequate warnings..that Arnav will go to any lengths..that he is ruthless and relentless to safeguard the happiness of the only person in his life he loves..So why are we soo suprised at the current handling ..at his callousness..at his brutality and mercilessness at the treatment of Khushi...at the way he has been in charge of it all..He has in fact been quite unlike the cruel man who has been pushing off Khushi Kumari gupta from his office window..making her stand in the rain..you name it ..he has done it all..Infact I think currently nothing short of marital rape would have been enough in keeping with his character...Although I do think the poolside sleeping arrangements are uncalled for but then he has always left her to the mercy of the elements..to the rain..to the darkness of the night..to the strange surroundings..to the jungle ..He has never shirked from putting her at risk..but then he has in the end turned out to be her knight too...a dark knight never the less..
Presently We hate ASR and his guts..We hate the fact that he has made Khushi a caricature of her past self..We hate him for all his barbs..We hate him for her tears..But then he has always been an all or none ...give it all or give it nothing..Yet he has changed...He is no longer the immune impervious man who thought she was a woman of low aukad..He felt for her when Buaji left her ..He felt when she cried..He felt when he threw her out to the pool..Yet it does not mitigate what he has done..it doesnot condone his treatment..but then a spade is a spade not anything less or more..
I think Khushi though had been made a caricature but is on the way to redemption of her former feisty self...call it the whim of the CV's ..the TRP demands..the way the wind blows currently is not in her favour ..Granted she has started to question him..but then she has also been equally at fault ...to be a part y to this sham called a marriage..Where was her inner persistent sense to delve to the bottom of things when he emotionally black mailed her into getting married..She did not have to do it...She could have backed off..The result ..no marriage of her sister for WHICH she could have not been blamed...Who would have taken her to task for running and eloping to get married with ASR..If she had stood her ground and yes demended back the reason for ASR taking a 360 turn ..then we would have been spared this I hate ASR...spiel today..Khushi Kumari Gupta has been a woman of substance at least ..that is what the CV's have projected her to be..the one who could launch a mithai business to fall asunder and give up totally..Where was her fighting spirit then ??
So now if the marriage had not happened..what would have been the fall out..the declaration of FARAK from ASR..the acceptance on Khushi's part..Shyam would have had to accept his fate and the show would have ended..I cannot see how they could have turned it around any other way..although then the situation would still be marriage but a happily married one..so I believe we still have a lot to look forward to and to forgive the idiosyncrasies of the CV's and have faith in the show..
The reason is ARHI make it a treat to watch..to be the two halves of a whole ..and they truly are meant for each other..
Disclaimer..I am not being paid for this positive post..

O la la...a balanced positive post at long last...and from none other than my darling Zainuwa🤗 *hugs and then thumps Z on the back*😃 Lovely post!!!
Achcha vaise, I agree with all except the marital rape and Khushi's choices. The former because I don't want to think of ODB in such a negative light...I mean even he has to draw the line somewhere...at least I think he has to...😕
About Khushi being a caricature of her real self in the marriage episodes...I think she was being exactly what she always was...you have to think of the decision she made to play along with Arnav's proposition, in the light of her past experience. She has already been blamed once for her Jiji's broken marriage...for the baraat having left without the dulhan in Lucknow...that is where it all started. That was a nightmare she was not willing to repeat...the emotional scars from that first incident are enough to fundamentally alter her decision-making process forever. That is the main reason she has not told the Raizadas and Arnav about Shyam's asliyat. Arnav had used the most powerful weapon he has against Khushi, when he threatened to derail Payal Akash wedding. Khushi finds herself defenceless against that ...she will move heaven and earth to prevent anything happening to Payal's married life.
@Bold: Could not agree more😃
Love you, my friend.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mommy2000

Zainab!!!!! Writing from u know where...

er mommy loo 🤣 ..that was a no brainer..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Zain!!! Res - but for now, why do we share the same brain?

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WHAT! I am utterly shocked to think that ASR is callous, ruthless and vindictive. So freaking NOT.

Marriage is a new beginning of not being able to get away from each other. Of facing up to your enemy and love all in one. For ASR this marriage is going to make him face his demons. He so needed someone to unburden himself to. And for Khushi, through this marriage finally - and I don't care if it is for 6 months or 6 minutes - has someone she can call her own. He freaking admitted it in front of god. She is his. Devi Maiyya sent us the signals. They were going to get married. And quite frankly, I am glad it is under these circumstances - because I am a sick puppy - and because if they were not tied to each other, this misunderstanding was perfect fodder for Khushi to run from ASR, as she always did and for ASR to cut her out of her life. Now you can't run and you can't hide - just go to the pool side.

I am with you Zain - marriage was on the cards so they could finally get it all out. As I say in the AT, raging bull and quivering pom poms stuck in the same room. GAME ON.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: current

So now if the marriage had not happened..what would have been the fall out..the declaration of FARAK from ASR..the acceptance on Khushi's part..Shyam would have had to accept his fate and the show would have ended..I cannot see how they could have turned it around any other way..although then the situation would still be marriage but a happily married one..so I believe we still have a lot to look forward to and to forgive the idiosyncrasies of the CV's and have faith in the show..
The reason is ARHI make it a treat to watch..to be the two halves of a whole ..and they truly are meant for each other..
Disclaimer..I am not being paid for this positive post..

@Zainab: Very balanced post..
The blackmail scene could have been done much better.. CVs did stretch Khushi's character at the blackmail scene, that it eventually lead me to think that she is equally responsible for agreeing to the wedding.. The 6 month edit also seems to ring no bells of comprehension..

@bold: True that.. We watch them for Arhi magic - to be halves of a whole.. and we tend to forgive the inconsistencies and the idiosyncranies.. Brilliantly said..

-Shubha

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priya_128

ZJ... humko tumseee hogaya hai pyaaar kya kare...chaahee toh jiye chaahe...marjaaaye...humko tumsee...*this is displaying my lub for u...nowadays that mellow is not there..u can be my lobe :P*


ive been one who has always been against the marriage track...sole reason being it would just bring too much bahu drama, matrydom and would then become a dhrona fest around how to win my wife cos shes so awesomely awesome and im a twit...

ive always said that arnav/asr is very reminiscent of snape...hes a demon and a good guy at the same time...snape came back to the good when he realized his love was being threatened with death...he tried everything in his power to stop that but failed...on that day he donned the role of protector and never let it go, but never dispalyed it to the world...arnav/asr still has to realize his love and then cross over...im sure even then he will do things like today...from the bleachers and never show his true good self to the world or her...i dont know if im making sense here !!

khushi's character : now she needs to realize one day, that hiding the truth about shyam (whtever good intention it was) has somewhere caused harm...even unwittingly...when she hears him say she hurt him...its the first time i see her have that expression of how could i have ever hurt him...the thought of maybe shes in the wrong has struck her for the first time in so many months...and i want to see it developed rather tha be squished...
if she does realize that the wedding was due to shyam, it woudl be sort of interesting to see how she gets it out to arnav...though i much rather avoid more drama and leave out antoehr random vague agniparkisha to get there !!!

i wanted to marriage to be a fake one...cos when they married i wanted it to be for love...nevertheless...that epi where they show the sharing the room and her bangles irritating him...it seems like the most natural thing that they are under one roof, and they are together...
im waiting to see how th CVs take it further, cos there is still hope for absolute brilliance and the rise of the dark knight...now that the SPA and other parivar awards are done...i just want them to stob the drama sob fest and remove all the buas and the dis and maa's and focus on these two...

no one paid me either...but im sure renu and shamika will give us athhanies (50p) for it...



Priya..Hum do humarey do...🤣..Now take it any way you want kyon key ..you are my love too..😆
Acha ..LOVED the snape comparasion..Love HP too..and what you really want to say is ..that
ASR is the perfect antihero...the flawed one..but then that is why his character is the most interesting one...I say go beyond the good looks ..and you see the layers of him..
The way he can make us love and hate him completely with a no half way house is the strength of his characterisation..
and now the marriage track..I too was not for it..currently it is hardly a marriage..it is a contract..a sham..that two parties have signed up for..I think I would rather go for this rather than all lovey dovey..that would soo hoo hum..although I see your point about the nok jhok..hahaha
and as far as Khushi and her rona dhona..this is where I have a bone to pick with the CV's ..I mean what happened..did they have their water cut off or what..
Baqi ..as far as atthanis are concerned...🤣...as some one said...I would start paying people to read my posts..kyon key I was sure my post be a dud ...Meri Priyalooo..you are going to get richer...so hang on to your purse..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: showstruck

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You said it yourself and I could not agree more...I wish someone paid you...you took your time to write this...

@ Bold..Oh I wish there were more such clones of you..🤣..Aw thanks much..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@zain : here is the athanni...complete with the fist

EDIT : ooo its not visible...

will give u another one

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Originally posted by: Priya_128

ive always said that arnav/asr is very reminiscent of snape...hes a demon and a good guy at the same time...snape came back to the good when he realized his love was being threatened with death...he tried everything in his power to stop that but failed...on that day he donned the role of protector and never let it go, but never dispalyed it to the world...arnav/asr still has to realize his love and then cross over...im sure even then he will do things like today...from the bleachers and never show his true good self to the world or her...i dont know if im making sense here !!
Complete sense...Hugs to you Priye Praneshwari for this...loved the comparison...yep, Snape was one flawed hero...thank God he got his due, even if post mortem.
khushi's character : now she needs to realize one day, that hiding the truth about shyam (whtever good intention it was) has somewhere caused harm...even unwittingly...when she hears him say she hurt him...its the first time i see her have that expression of how could i have ever hurt him...the thought of maybe shes in the wrong has struck her for the first time in so many months...and i want to see it developed rather tha be squished...That immediate realization and acceptance, by simply hearing his bitten out words and seeing the pain in his eyes, gives me real hope...she never once questioned the legitimacy of his accusation...she wanted the explanation yes, why he thought that she had hurt him...but she didn't question for a minute that he was hurt...that gives me hope...and should tell anyone who doubts that there is nothing but the deepest love between these two.
if she does realize that the wedding was due to shyam, it woudl be sort of interesting to see how she gets it out to arnav...though i much rather avoid more drama and leave out antoehr random vague agniparkisha to get there !!! True that.😊




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