Big Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - Aug 29, 2025
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Hi Ana,
Brilliant point.[I really need to ask you for your name, so that we can address each other as other than Elysia and misclog in the forum. I'm Ana.] 😳I am currently working on an analysis on Anjali's character. Working on it as in pondering. I haven't gotten to the writing phase yet. But I do agree that she is capable of handling shock such as these without breaking down in pieces. For a woman with a disability and paranoid tendencies, traumatic past and dependent demeanor in relation to her husband and brother, she has endured a lot and managed to make a life for herself.However, I also believe that there's the chance of her shattering if the foundation of her happiness dissolves. If Shyam betrays her, it will break her. I don't believe that she will end up in some psych ward, but the betrayal might damage her irrevocably - she might move forward because she has to, but she won't forget and the issues that she has with seeing bad signs everywhere, being paranoid and afraid of losing Arnav - might become worse.I think that Anjali has invoked an overprotective instinct in Arnav since his teen years and it has convinced him that his sister needs to be sheltered rather than confronted. I think - more than the question whether Anjali can handle the truth or not - it's Arnav's own weakness keeping him from telling her the truth. The fear of losing her. The fear of watching her break. Perhaps even the fear of her choosing Shyam over him.You see, there's something very possessive about the way Arnav hugs Anjali and vice versa. This possesiveness became clearest to me in the scene when he put his arms around her while glaring at Shyam. His eyes did more than warn Shyam to stay away - his eyes said "she's mine and you don't get to hurt what's mine".He reclaimed her, though he had never even let her go. He had never, really, allowed Shyam to have her and Anjali had never let go of Arnav either.Anjali is just as complex as Arnav - if not more, in certain ways. She seems strong, and she can be. But in some areas of her life, she has become so emotionally attached and dependent on certain people that their betrayal would break her. Shyam and Arnav are the two people with the absolute power of ruining her for life. I really believe that.She wouldn't die. But she wouldn't live either. What's worse?In the end, I do believe that Arnav should tell her the truth as soon as her condition is stabilized. No amount of love and affection in the world should be a reason for keeping the truth from someone. There's no point in betraying them - and though I understand the reasoning behind Arnav's choices, I also disagree with them. In his place, I would tell her the truth and let her decide if she wanted to give Shyam a second chance.But Arnav's love for her, his protectiveness and personal fears, are blinding him. He is making a mistake by continuing to keep it a secret (if that's what he does). I only hope that when the truth is out, it won't put a permanent dent in their relationship and that he will come to understand that you can't make choices for other people's lives - no matter how much you love them.This is another beautiful part of his character - the constant growth. The flaws. And the moments in which he realizes his errors and attempts to redeem himself.
Originally posted by: misclog2003
Hi Ana,
I did update my profile with my name and wanted to change my username. But I need to have 200 posts before I can do that. Sudha here. I guess I will need to spam the forum to get to 200.All what you said of Anjali might be true. Obviously you and I look at things differently, because this world is full of probablities and possibilities so no ones thinking is restricted to the same line of thought. That is beauty of it.For me the fear is not Anjali breaking and getting damaged irrevocably if the truth is out now. I think she will become that when the truth comes out later on and the entire truth. (it will come out eventually as we all know).What will hurt her more is that her precious brother in her name has ruined a sweet girls life based on what he saw and thought and hid such a truth from her. How will she handle, her husbnads truth but more importantly her brothers truth the he knew, didn't tell and also in her name blackmailed an innocent young girl. Which of the two will be more devastating to her you think. Telling her the truth now or later when the entire truth comes out - from a story pespective.
... so i agree payal will come around, but it was another blow that khushi didnt really need at that moment in time, i would rather have had payal just sit with her, sometimes words are not necessary and i think that was one of those moments. oh well just sayin...
I really thought the direction was amazing in this episode.I actually thought shyam did a way better job then arnav today (yes go ahead and disagree no worries ) but i felt shyam's intial hatred towards arnav his inner beast was showing loud and clear, Infact when arnav said i'm giving you another chance Shyam's facial features spoke loudly that he doesnt want another chance, and the look shyam gave arnav when arnav was back in the car, made be think that windshield is about to crack 😆 yeah the is no love lost between these two, I'm looking forward to what shyam's next moves will be i'm sure they will be as creepy as he is... got to love to hate this guy, for he evokes exactly the feeling the director wants us to feel for his character..hats off the the guy playing his character, villian are always so much harder to portray i think..looks like anjali is about to be dropped on arnav's totem pole of importance i'm looking forward to that scene tomorrow...its bout bloody time...always thought that sibling codependence has been going on far to long, time to cut the umbilical cord anajali jeee