Guptas members reaction was normal!

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Alia

@.A.l.i.a.

Dazzler

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

Hi ..

there are a lot of post blaming Amaaji, Buaji, and Payal for their attitude towards Khushi ..😭
But I feel that they did the thing that any one in their place will do !

Don't misunderstand me .. I know Khushi do all this for his sister .. while they say she don't think about them .. But did they Know Why Khushi do that ?!
They ask her and she didn't answer ..

I know what they said to her "you are not our daughter , you are not my sister " is very hurtful for 18 years old who did every thing for her family ..

But still what she did "regardless of the reason" is wrong in any family POV .. and any family will do the same with their daughter ..

My mother many time said to me "you don't consider me as your mother / you don't think about us 😭" although I did a small mistakes..
But did my mother really mean it 😆?! of course no .. she said that to just make me feel how wrong what I did😆 ..

The same in Guptas family .. they are under shock .. they didn't know the reason behind what she did .. so their reaction is very normal ..

Don't forget that Mamiji speech also affect them a lot .. she Insult them because what Khushi did ..

and about Payal .. I feel that she said that to force and Provoke Khushi to tell her the reason why she did this .. 😲

some time .. we said to our friends if they refuse to tell us something we want to know " I'm not your friend ?! / I was think that you consider me as a friend but I was wrong " we dont really mean it .. but we said it just to force and provoke them to tell us .. ( at least , I do this with my friends 😆)

And also we Know that people who are under shock and anger don't know what they are saying ..
but after they think about it .. they will regret what they said ..

So don't blame them .. I feel it real reaction under this situation

I don't say that Khushi deserve what happens to her .. no .. she is a girl who scarifies her future to her family .. I really feel bad to her ..
and her family don't know any thing about why she did this .. so their reaction was normal under the shock and anger ..
and I'm sure that they even before Knowing why she did that , they will regret about a hurtful thing that they said to her😉 ..

Sorry for mistakes .. and I'm waiting for your POV 😊

Edited by Meenoo1990 - 13 years ago

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a.kaur

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree with you. Their reactions were completely normal bcuz khushi couldnt say anything to them. If they knew the reason they wouldnt do that. My parents call me a bad daughter for little things i do everyday. 😆 if i did what khushi did...cant even imagine what would happen!

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Posted: 13 years ago

A childhood friend of mine ran away with her boyfriend and got married. Trust me the reactions the Gupta parivaar and the Raizada Parivaars had are totally normal as it is an embarassing situation to be in. The only person to be blamed in this is ASR who hid in his room while Khushi bore the brunt of the families anger :P

Even Payals reaction today is normal, as her sister wasnt confiding in her. Ofcourse we're all on Khushis side but the Guptas arent evil or anything. just misinformed :P

As much as I love ASR - and I love him the most on this show... but the boy really has a lot of grovelling to do once the truth comes out.

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InvisibleSmile

@InvisibleSmile

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Posted: 13 years ago

I don't think it was normal, a family is your support without even knowing half of the truth they disown her? throw that she is a step - hence she took this step without caring about their family? Do they not know khushi, she has at every step done all she can for her family, so why today they became blind to her tears?

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sbk2

@sbk2

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: InvisibleSmile
I don't think it was normal, a family is your support without even knowing half of the truth they disown her? throw that she is a step - hence she took this step without caring about their family? Do they not know khushi, she has at every step done all she can for her family, so why today they became blind to her tears?

Exactly!

I can understand that the Guptas have conservative values and 'Samaj' and Izzat means a lot to them...but then they know Khushi's nature too.

If she was a wayward child, spoilt and giving nothing but trouble to the family, I could understand them behaving like this with her.

But Khushi is the same girl who was the sole breadwinner of the family, did all the dirty work for them while they sat at their cozy homes...went through all that stress and trying times, without any real support from them. All the time running here and there all by herself, trying to bring home money, running a business, and later helping Payash's alliance come through.

They forced her to almost get married to Shyam and never really made up for it...no comforting her, no apologizing...all the time berating and treating her like a silly child...And now this...

How could they disown her like that? Getting angry and shocked is natural...but telling her that she is not their blood and all that?!

Sorry..but I think they are selfish and self absorbed. Didn't they see Khushi's tears? They humiliated her in front of her in-laws...which is a big no-no...

I have read about incidents like this in the news a lot, and it is the sad reality of a lot of parts in India.

Edited by sbk2 - 13 years ago

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556195

Hibernated

Posted: 13 years ago

NORMAL????😲

A family is the biggest support for any human! thats why they are called family..if family will react like this and leave you alone like you never existed for them what would you do? they asked her..she didnt tell them and bravo!! "you are not our blood" sorry to say but if this was normal then i think no one should have such a family! an ya khushi was never their blood! she cant be.. because she isnt selfish like them...every time she needed a support that useless family showed her their back! she was an orphan but now she isnt..she has a husband! she doesnt need them..i so wish that after today she should NEVER do anything in fact forget those families who couldnt give her a hand of support when she needed it! just because she did one thing.. they forgot all the things she did them in past??? if this was normal then probably its me who is abnormal!

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teena1717

@teena1717

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Posted: 13 years ago

I don't think it's normal either. Maybe khushi would have told them the truth first time, had they confronted khushi in private. When Payal confronted her after, she was heartbroken from with conversation she had with her 'adopted' family. I still felt it was a little too harsh towards khushi. I would have sympathized if Garima was sad but had told khushi that she would wait when khushi tells her the truth. That she knows khushi must have taken this step for a reason. Would Gupta family have sympathized with khushi had they had known that Shyam was still harassing khushi, I don't know...the Gupta family reaction was like,,,"khushi, we are very disappointed in you. You are not part of our family and don't talk to us again" . Arnav was ready to forgive Shyam if he accepts that Anjali and the unborn child is his family now. He has known Shyam for 3 years. Gupta family has known khushi since her childhood, but still??? (no offense intended towards anyone else, just my personal opinion.)

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Blue Rose

@uniquebluerose

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Posted: 13 years ago

with any normal family in the normal world were the parents are protective of their daughters and never let harm come daughters way and then provide the daughter with every comfort and sister sacrifices for younger ones happiness and is always worried about her sister i can understand!!!

this family was never normal was it???????

1) They decided to engage Khushi to man with no proper house or family who would have ghar jamai and worst is almost twice as old as her!!!!

2) She bears insults of Arnav and Lavnaya and works in office while Payal whiles away her time doing laundry then Khushi goes to work in RM and Payal couldn't even survive one day there when she went to teach La chicankari work!!!!!

3) Even to express he rown love even when Aaksh came forward the spineless Payal needed Khushi to plan everything and only after assurance of Arnav that he will handle the family she agrees to love Aakash come on girl be a woman its your loves try and learn to have spine!!!!

4) Even after knowing that Shyam is there in RM they never seemed to hesitate in sending Khushi there or at least enquire if she will alright there and if its safe for her there!!!

5) After the Shyam fiasco they let Khushi go and reveal the truth...while some senior person like Buaji or Garima should have handled it!!!!! What s worse all they worried about is Payal marriage will be stopped they never thought about Anjali or still worse about Khushi!!!!! Never even asked her if she is alright!!!!

6) I still remember how Buaji literally pushed Khushi into engagement with Shyam and Garima and Payal were mutely watching and still wrose after Khushi agree ...Oayl enquires if Khushi is happy...as if she would so something if Khushi says she is not happy!!!!

So technically Garima never behaved like Khushi's mother in the past six months!!!!...Buaji never behaved like caring Buaji nor did Payal ever behave like...in shor the y were all treating her like a servant or slave who would also bear insults for them and earn for them feed them!!!!!

So as they were never normal...they lost their right to behave like a normal family!!!!

Sorry but Garima had no right to slap Khushi!!!!!! ASR and elopement with him was much better than the life Garima gave

Khushi!!!!

Buaji shouldn't even open her mouth had she forgotten how she was eager to get Khushi married off to that homelss and old idiot.pervert Shyam...she pushed Khushi into it...never thought about her happiness once..then why should Khushi worry about he happiness or her respect...with two girls in home the greedy lady kept a so called bachelor at home...she talks about self respect!!!!! funny

Payal well she should have waited for Khushi to open up rather thatn forcing her...if not for Khushi she would not have been even engaged to Aakash i remember how she threw the proposal back in his face...its only ARnav and Khushi effort which made Payal agree to it...she would still have sat and home doing laundry ...and any elder sister who mopes at home...while younger one works and gets engaged to a perverted oldie and does all the dirty work is not even elder sister...I am elder in my home and i would never be like her!!!

So as far as i can see these abnormal people giving normal reaction is wrong

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Alia

@.A.l.i.a.

Dazzler

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

Thanks for sharing yours opinion .. 👍🏼

I'm not saying they are right for what they did .. but its normal under anger and shock ..

People who are under shock .. cannot think normally and logically as when they in normal situation ..
and when they remember what they said , they wish that they don't so that ..

Maybe I feel its natural because I face some similar situation in which the most close people to you say and do tough thing , but not Stems from hate but from love ..👍🏼
and for Sure they will regret even before Knowing the truth ..

I give an example for my life .. when we do even small mistakes , our close people being tough with us .. but that not mean that they hate us ..

Yah what they did is unfair to Khushi and if they say that .. But I think its normal reaction under shock ..

I wondered how people can say that Payal and Garima are jealous from Khushi..etc !!!

I said before , Khushi didn't deserve what happens to her ,, but in same time I cannot blame her family who are under shock !!

Thanks 😊

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