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oh.petite.one

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: my1name
They aren't angry cuz arnav and khushi got married. They are angry cuz arhi got married without their permision.

All they wanted was a good explanation.

Sure they were angry and disappointed, but they could have waited for a good explantion a bit more maturely i think, they just went a bit over board with their reactions... i understand that this is shocking for them, but they always wanted ArHi to hook up eventually... so in light of that and considering that this is no live in realtionship and a proper marriage according to them i think they over reacted...

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oh.petite.one

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: saya2012

i had same feeling Nani and Anjali were planning to marry her to Arnav after marriage they got angry logic is missing they cant ask kushi because she is not their family member Anjali is saying my chote not marry then sad face crying actually she should be happy but she never understsnd anyone Dirctor is lostt some logics in the story

i thought they would get over the shock pretty quickly and just demand ArHi to marry again properly...or something along those lines... but what we got was dramatic hysteria that was a bit OTT 😆

Edited by oh.petite.one - 13 years ago

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oh.petite.one

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: sweet.nisha25

There is a way to ask for an explanation. Woman-handling is not included in that way. They were seriously over over over reacting. I wanted to smack their faces. ☢️

I would have thought that Nani of all people would be calm, cool and collected despite being angry... but we got something else altogether...

and i know Anjali likes to cry alot... but come on! There's just such a huge difference in the way she reacted to AL's live in situation and AK's marriage scenario...

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oh.petite.one

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: CDlove
I was thinkng the same thing. It was really OTT in my opinion. But then again this is a drama and they need drama to well make it a drama.

True, but I kinda thought they would be relieved it a bit since they were playing cupid for ArHi, so their OTT reactions made me go a bit 😲

I tried to put myself in Kushi's position and I wondered how my mom would react to this. I am pretty certain she would know instantly that something is wrong beacuse it's simple. She trusts me and she knows I would not elope and marry. How come Kushi's so called amma and buaji didn't consider the fact Kushi could have been forced into this? They know Kushi very well. SHe would not have done this on her own accord.

Ditto, when she didn't say anything at first they jumped to conclusions and when she tried to say something in the end, they disowned her without even waiting to hear her side of the story... that was just appalling!!! I'm glad Shashi showed the poor thing at least some support...

They also know how Arnav is. Especially Buaji knows how Arnav works (she was there when ASR forced money on them to make Kushi come to work in RM. She knows how abrupt Arnav is) How come she didn't think that something was fishy. How come they didn't get SCARED for their daughter? My mother would have freaked out thinking he actually did something to me so that I was foced to marry him. She would have taken me home instead of leaving me there and disowning me.

I dont understand how these people's minds work. It beats me.

The only grateful thing thats's going in my head right now is my mom and dad would have never reacted like this.

Buaji really pissed me off, particularly at the end! Half the things this woman says just make no sense!!! If it were my mother she would have gotten her belen out and beaten the crap of him no matter how scary he looked 😆 (i would have thought that was something Buaji was more than capable off !!!)

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SounSoun

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

I was not expected that from nani and anjali at least !

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shybabe

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

for the life of me darling...i keep asking that question to myself...why so much melodrama...

they god married for god sake...they didn't just runaway and OMG next time I see Anjali and Naani freaking out on khushi...i swear i will go insane...

Anjali and Naani lecturing Khushi about the importance of mangalsutra and sin door today was so bloody unnecessary...😕

it a raizada circus...and gupta paagal niwaas...never liked the guptas from the beginning..and now i have begin to have my doubts about anjali and naani

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Subha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: oh.petite.one

No offense taken at all 😆

1) if Anjali and Nani just showed disbelief at ArHi's rushed marriage then it would have made sense, but i felt they went a little overboard with all the woman-handling and prolonged lectures... i knew they would be disappointed but i thought they'd get over it, seeing as they wanted ArHi to hitch up anyway and would instead demand them to do it properly with all the ceremonies...

2) and knowing that Khushi was an epitome of sansrkritis and rituals I would have thought that they would have patiently waited for an explanation knowing that there might be a good reason for what ArHi did... but they just jumped down the poor girl's throat 😲

3)Nani and Anjali themselves can rarely ever get Arnav to do what they want particularly when he is dertermined about something or in a stubborn mood as demonstrated today when Arnav locked himself in his room instead of answering their questions... yet they expect Khushi to control him?

I admit that Khushi's silence was a lil bit annoying... but not annoying enough for them to over react the way they did...

Agree.. but, for a second if we forget the fact that Khushi was actually blackmailed for her wedding, which the family does'nt know, then their actions 'can' be justified.. Typically one bangs their head on the person they can't believe will ever let them down, not on the person who perpetually lets them down.. It was an emotional outburst... They can't accept it immediately, though eventually they will and also ask the couple to do all the ceremonies.. On your point on Arnav, whenever the family has faced a brick wall with Arnav, Khushi was the person who could change his mind.. That's why the expectation on Khushi was so high, from the family..

I am not justifying what Khushi went through is right or wrong, I feel bad for Khushi, but just looking at the whole picture..

Do take my reply with a pinch of salt.. Lately the forum is very emotional.. So no offence meant...

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Dark-Hues

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Honestly, Guptas proved how nastiest culprit they're man! And Nani-Anjali seems they haven't done a marriage though actually they have robbed their jewels- gold & forever! 😳 Is this the Gupta's faith over Khushi which flew away in a moment of crisis ? 😳

Damn it!

I mean what the hell man ? Is this the way treat in such a werwolves style! 😳 Both families have much much over-reacted lot , i realize that they got dumbstruck to receive such an abrupt volcanoic eruption. Though , things wouldn't get deal in this most horrible way! 🤢

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oh.petite.one

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Raha26
I think is hard to be in their place..
Anjali's dream was to see Arnav get married.
Nani is just disappointed at Khushi, when she was impressed by Khushi's knowledge about the cultur and marriage.

Perhaps... but i thought that Nani would have been wise enough to recognise at that moment Khushi was too scared to say anything, she should have backed off and given Khushi some space... not hold her by the shoulders and shake the poor thing...