Was it such a huge crime to get married...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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... without consent???


I can understand why Buaji and Garima reacted the way they did, frankly they have always cared more about Payal than Khushi and I expected no better from them. Instead of showing concern for their youngest daughter, whom they have known since she was a child, and trying to understand that there must be a very good reason for her silence... they instead go and disown her not surprising at all!!!


But I didn't really understand why Nani and Anjali created such a fuss today! When Arnav and Lavanya were having a live in relationship I did not see them create such a hoo haa then... yes Nani didn't approve of Lavanya at first and the concept of a live in relationship, but I didn't see her woman-handling Lavanya as a result of it... yet now when Arnav and Khushi have according to them married.. they creating such a huge fuss?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Completely agree with you on the Lavanya bit! They blew the whole situation out of proportion!

To be honest Payal is the one that made me angry today more than anyone else. If something like this had happened to Payal, Khushi wouldn't have thought twice before defending her, but she just stood there and watched everyone throw words at Khushi one by one.

I wish Shashi could talk. He would've definitely said something today to Garima and that Bua ji. 😡

Not to mention, I'm really disappointed in Arnav. He just left her there all alone to face everyone's wrath and get questions thrown at her when she herself doesn't even know the actual reason of the marriage.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I thought the exact same. They disowned Khushi because of this? That was far fetched. Why didnt Anjali say anything? yes she is upset because Arnav had not told her anything but she should be happy that he finally got married and to a girl she approves greatly of. So why didnt she stop Khushi from getting so humiliated?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: reyabear

Completely agree with you on the Lavanya bit! They blew the whole situation out of proportion!


To be honest Payal is the one that made me angry today more than anyone else. If something like this had happened to Payal, Khushi wouldn't have thought twice before defending her, but she just stood there and watched everyone throw words at Khushi one by one.

I wish Shashi could talk. He would've definitely said something today to Garima and that Bua ji. 😡

Not to mention, I'm really disappointed in Arnav. He just left her there all alone to face everyone's wrath and get questions thrown at her when she herself doesn't even know the actual reason of the marriage.


i was waiting for payal to speak up like say something when manorama was taunting khushi on why did she got married n all that. they have been sisters for a long time n i thought payal understands khushi the most but i was suprised by payal's reaction like khushi is her littler sis who has done soo much of her but when it come to payal she just stood there n watched her little sis getting torture. i loved shashi today even tho he can't speak but at the end when khushi was talking to him n he putted his hand on khushi showing that he cares it was heart touching atleast one person understands khushi. khushi became bali ka bakra for no reason.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@oh.petite.one: This is something, I am missing, and maybe need to watch the episode one more time.. I thought Nani and Anjali's reaction were more due to the disbelief that Khushi who was always an epitome of sansrkritis and rituals, actually agreed to Arnav. Again and again they were questioning her, why she agreed... Why did she not wait.. Why did she not stop Arnav from doing it..
They wanted to know the reason for the rushed wedding, rather than the wedding itself.. I could be wrong.. No offence intended...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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They aren't angry cuz arnav and khushi got married. They are angry cuz arhi got married without their permision.

All they wanted was a good explanation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: oh.petite.one

<div align="center">without consent???


I can understand why Buaji and Garima reacted the way they did, frankly they have always cared more about Payal than Khushi and I
expected no better from them. Instead of showing concern for their youngest daughter, whom they have known since she was a child, and trying to understand that there must be a very good reason for her silence... they instead
go and disown her not surprising at all!!!


But I didn't really understand why Nani and Anjali created such a fuss today! When Arnav and Lavanya were having a live in relationship I did not see them create such a hoo haa then... yes Nani didn't approve of Lavanya at first and the concept of a live in relationship, but I didn't see her woman-handling Lavanya as a result of it... yet now when Arnav and Khushi have according to them married.. they creating such a huge fuss?

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i had same feeling Nani and Anjali were planning to marry her to Arnav after marriage they got angry logic is missing they cant ask kushi because she is not their family member Anjali is saying my chote not marry then sad face crying actually she should be happy but she never understsnd anyone Dirctor is lostt some logics in the story
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Posted: 13 years ago
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absolutely agree with you, nani and anjali really shocked me today (never expected anythig from garima, bua and payal...they always treat khushi as "shotela")
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: my1name

They aren't angry cuz arnav and khushi got married. They are angry cuz arhi got married without their permision.


All they wanted was a good explanation.

There is a way to ask for an explanation. Woman-handling is not included in that way. They were seriously over over over reacting. I wanted to smack their faces. ☢️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was thinkng the same thing. It was really OTT in my opinion. But then again this is a drama and they need drama to well make it a drama.
I tried to put myself in Kushi's position and I wondered how my mom would react to this. I am pretty certain she would know instantly that something is wrong beacuse it's simple. She trusts me and she knows I would not elope and marry. How come Kushi's so called amma and buaji didn't consider the fact Kushi could have been forced into this? They know Kushi very well. SHe would not have done this on her own accord.
They also know how Arnav is. Especially Buaji knows how Arnav works (she was there when ASR forced money on them to make Kushi come to work in RM. She knows how abrupt Arnav is) How come she didn't think that something was fishy. How come they didn't get SCARED for their daughter? My mother would have freaked out thinking he actually did something to me so that I was foced to marry him. She would have taken me home instead of leaving me there and disowning me.
I dont understand how these people's minds work. It beats me.
The only grateful thing thats's going in my head right now is my mom and dad would have never reacted like this.

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