A few things that left me confused today

Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I watched todays episode (and once was enough...too much rona dhona) but a few things left me really confused....

1) Why did Payal cry...she should have come to stand up for her sister or just support her silently...why cry...was she crying because...Khushi you stole my thunder??

2) If Arnav believes Khushi is involved with Shyam then why did he mention it to her that she is his bride for 6 months and that too in front of the world only...shouldn't he have thought that no matter how much she values mangal sutra or sindoor if she is a lose character and wants shyam she can easily tell him and share the info with him...so even if he warns shyam to stay away from his wife what guarantee does he have that will happen..

3) Why couldn't Bua and Garima give the girl a chance to explain...every time she opened her mouth they taunted her and made her shut up...and Garima's taunt that she is not worth being called her daughter...well she forgot to mention that Khushi is like a son because she has been providing the family with food, clothing and medicines with the money she has earned working for ASR group and later RM.

4)Bua and Garima were hell bent on pleasing Babuji when they wanted Khushi to get engaged to Shyam..saying he wanted it...now what happened..couldn't they see babuji held her hand and wanted to console her...couldn't they also give her a chance...she is a part of their family for so long...that's all the trust they could build on her over the years...didn't they remember that the poor soul never complained to them about the Shyam fiasco...even though it was their fault...

5) Why were anjali and nani being rude to Khushi after the initial shock and no answer from ASR they should have mellowed down a bit with Khushi...they know the girl inside out...couldn't anjali or for that matter anyone see how distraught Khushi was...she did not seem like a bride who had married on impulse to fulfill her fantasies...if Anjali couldn't get answers from Arnav too bad why take it out on khushi...

Sorry for the long rant but just a few questions that keep popping in my mind so I thought I would share and take input from you all...And I know that this track is important to move on and so on...my point is not to bash the track or anyone...just how it is being presented...

Peace...XX

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smileyhug7679

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Posted: 13 years ago

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we only have to wait and watch
when they all know the truth they have to beg forgiveness from kushi
and she should say they r not worth it...

i would really love to see that happen...

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hina

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Posted: 13 years ago

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i know i havnot expected all this too and same questions are in my mind

no one is there to stand by khushi. how poor was it😔

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Posted: 13 years ago

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This is regarding Buaji and Garima's reaction.

Somewhere I feel their reactions are justified. If you observe from their point of view, it seems like Khushi eloped with her lover and got married without their consent. But by coincidence the groom was someone they knew. But still with Mami's taunts and all that, it is natural they would feel betrayed by their daughter becoz receiving taunts from in-laws side is considered to be a big insult to the family.

I mean majority of the parents in India would have similar reaction if their daughter married someone without them knowing about it. (ofcourse there are exceptions to this) But this would be their initial reactions. then maybe later on, they would understand the circumstances and forgive their daughter.

It was at the heat of that moment that they said such things. I'm sure later on they would understand Khushi's decision.

Just my POV. 😃

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Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: smileyhug7679
we only have to wait and watch
when they all know the truth they have to beg forgiveness from kushi
and she should say they r not worth it...

i would really love to see that happen...

Absolutely...but unfortunately she will be sanskari and say no worries with happy tears...

I would love it if she walks out on all of them after 6 months...and make everyone grovel to bring her back...

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sorcha

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Posted: 13 years ago

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The only thing that proves from today's episode is that the garima and buaji are brainless idiots who are not only pathetic, but also selfish cows. Like before during the whole snake engagement track, their tiny close-minded brains didn't let them see Babuji feelings... So of course today they were AGAIN acting high and mighty without letting Khushi speak. man i am 😡😡 at them...hope Khushi doesn't forgive them easily!

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Manju

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I echo your sentiments. Why didnt a single soul ask Khushi why she was so unhappy and crying? Especially Mamiji as she believes it is a conspiracy. Ridiculous!!

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Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: molten_lava
This is regarding Buaji and Garima's reaction.

Somewhere I feel their reactions are justified. If you observe from their point of view, it seems like Khushi eloped with her lover and got married without their consent. But by coincidence the groom was someone they knew. But still with Mami's taunts and all that, it is natural they would feel betrayed by their daughter becoz receiving taunts from in-laws side is considered to be a big insult to the family.
I mean majority of the parents in India would have similar reaction if their daughter married someone without them knowing about it. (ofcourse there are exceptions to this) But this would be their initial reactions. then maybe later on, they would understand the circumstances and forgive their daughter.
It was at the heat of that moment that they said such things. I'm sure later on they would understand Khushi's decision.
Just my POV. 😃

If I would have been Khushi's mom...I would have made everyone shut up take her to the side alone...and asked her the reasons for her actions...asked her to confide rather than scream at her...but then I am not an old fashioned mom...

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molten_lava

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Arhimaniac

If I would have been Khushi's mom...I would have made everyone shut up take her to the side alone...and asked her the reasons for her actions...asked her to confide rather than scream at her...but then I am not an old fashioned mom...

See like I said People like U and me would have done something similar to what you have mentioned. But I do know so many mothers who have reacted just like Garima coz somewhere for them the honour of ur family is more important than the feelings and emotions of their children.😃

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.Ashleydevlin.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I watched todays episode (and once was enough...too much rona dhona) but a few things left me really confused....

1) Why did Payal cry...she should have come to stand up for her sister or just support her silently...why cry...was she crying because...Khushi you stole my thunder??

Answer: she cried for her sister/best friend because she can feel khushi's pain but is in shock. she is confused at what is happening and its like her worst fear came true. Before the wedding she told khushi that I feel very worried. I believe she will be the only one who will support khushi later on.

2) If Arnav believes Khushi is involved with Shyam then why did he mention it to her that she is his bride for 6 months and that too in front of the world only...shouldn't he have thought that no matter how much she values mangal sutra or sindoor if she is a lose character and wants shyam she can easily tell him and share the info with him...so even if he warns shyam to stay away from his wife what guarantee does he have that will happen..

Answer:- No answer😆 you are totally right

3) Why couldn't Bua and Garima give the girl a chance to explain...every time she opened her mouth they taunted her and made her shut up...and Garima's taunt that she is not worth being called her daughter...well she forgot to mention that Khushi is like a son because she has been providing the family with food, clothing and medicines with the money she has earned working for ASR group and later RM.

Answer:- Khushi couldn't reply in begining when she had chance, now i don't think anyone will listen to her. still i felt like shouting at bua ji and everyone that let khushi speak😡. It felt to me that nobody could get answer from ASr and they all used khushi as their punching bag

4)Bua and Garima were hell bent on pleasing Babuji when they wanted Khushi to get engaged to Shyam..saying he wanted it...now what happened..couldn't they see babuji held her hand and wanted to console her...couldn't they also give her a chance...she is a part of their family for so long...that's all the trust they could build on her over the years...didn't they remember that the poor soul never complained to them about the Shyam fiasco...even though it was their fault...

Answer:- So, true nah. When she does everything for them they never praise her as openly as they are insulting her😡

5) Why were anjali and nani being rude to Khushi after the initial shock and no answer from ASR they should have mellowed down a bit with Khushi...they know the girl inside out...couldn't anjali or for that matter anyone see how distraught Khushi was...she did not seem like a bride who had married on impulse to fulfill her fantasies...if Anjali couldn't get answers from Arnav too bad why take it out on khushi...

Answer:- like i said, they can't control their own Arnav and they are venting their frustation at khushi😡😡.

Sorry for the long rant but just a few questions that keep popping in my mind so I thought I would share and take input from you all...And I know that this track is important to move on and so on...my point is not to bash the track or anyone...just how it is being presented...

Peace...XX

'''no dear excellent post, you asked the question which everyone is thinking.

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