The Week that Was - Page 3

Originally posted by: zooni.blue

nicely summed up... too much of depth agony n emotions involved ! guess next week will be the same

Originally posted by: neverbefore

Barun and Sanaya acted their socks off but you wrote your socks off!!! That post was breathtaking in itself. Brilliant...worth a standing ovation in it's own right. Loved your analysis and explanations...and totally agree with you...he didn't think with this head...it was heart all the way.

Originally posted by: adeeti10

One of the best ever analysis posts I've read on this forum! Love the way you addressed every nuance without bias for any character..

Look forward to the next week's update.

I agree with almost everything here... except I doubt Arnav would have said anything back to Garima for that slap... what he could have done was address it to the family in general... saying...

"Hum dono ne shaadi kar li hai... and the sooner you get used to it, the better" or stood up for her as well and said "yeh mera phaisla tha... uski koi galti nahin hai"

👏

Originally posted by: passionalive

A very nice way of summing up the whole week...👏

BS and SI were fabulous this week...this was really an intense week..and they did extremely well..actually the tough test is coming ahead in this new track...

You are right about Arnav taking decisions from his heart...He knows where Khushi has hurt him (his POV), so he has no option other than to punish her and keep her with himself...And like as always, he has the right to hurt Khushi..no one else...

He has been so much in rage, hurt and lost that he has not even given a second thought about his decision of getting married...what implications it will bring to his family, her family...and above all on KHUSHI...

The moment he entered the house, he had a faint idea that he has done something wrong which made him look little burdened...But after seeing the reaction (more on Khushi) of family, the actual realization had hit upon him...He has taken a decision in haste as he could not find any feasible solution to the problems rained upon him instantly...where he lost trust, love in his 2 most valuable relations...after all what choices was left with him in such shattered state of mind..

really felt bad for him...😭

Obviously Arnie boy has not done correct thing by putting this innocent gal in trouble, his redemption path will be longer than usual...We as a lover of ARHI knows that this marriage is good for them in long-term, but this short-term allegations, misunderstanding will leave an imprint on their tattered souls...more on Khushi...this is a tough time for both of them..

.Hope this all will get clear as early as possible , Khushi gets her deserving respect back, Arnav learns the truth and trust gets build-ed up..😃

Originally posted by: DiyaS

And then comes the calm ' his moments with Khushi ' Khushi in the rain, tangled in the lights, facing him in the guesthouse, the way she absorbed both the pain and the passion he gave her on Diwali ' Khushi, only Khushi ' his Khushi ' his love, his life ' who brought him back to life, who taught him to live again '

But the way his mother betrayed him, abandoned him and left him all alone, so has Khushi ' when he needed her, the one he loved has left him ' what he always feared has come to pass. His inherent insecurities, his ever-present fear of abandonment - the reason for his lack of trust ' so quick to accept that yes, Khushi has left him ' because he always feared that she would. And accepting that his fear has come to pass is easier than living in hopethat it hasn't, and being crushed yet again ' it's easier to condemn her and leave her, than wait for her to leave him ' it's even easier to condemn her unheard, rather than face her and hear it from her own mouth.

This is the point at which Arnav really realized what Khushi was to him ' the point when he realised how much he loved this girl ' and hated her for what he thought she had done to his sister ' when he thought he had lost her ' when he determined that he wouldn't ... that he wouldn't let her go out of his life, he would keep her with him, and punish her for what she had done ' love and hate two sides of the same coin '

I wanted the ArHi marriage to be about ArHi ' and it is. The conscious given reason for Arnav marrying Khushi is his need to safeguard Anjali's pregnancy, her health and her marriage ' his justification, as it were ' but that is a cover, an excuse ' he was willing to break that very marriage when he found her husband was a lying, two-timing cheat ' Anjali's pregnancy has merely postponed the break, delayed the inevitable, till he can find a way of doing it which his sister can stand. Because he knows now ' even more than Khushi, he has seen the ugly side of Shyam, and knows Shyam is beyond redemption.

But marrying Khushi is to punish her ' punish her for betraying hm ' take her to hell and back for abandoning him the way his mother did. And also to keep her close ' because Khushi is his ' she is his own ' she cannot leave him, and he will not let that happen, hate her though he might. And when he realizes he was wrong in judging Khushi, he is going to be the one taking that trip to hell. And Khushi just might not be there with him. But if she is, if she has the courage and the fortitude to stay the course, to love him unconditionally, the way his mother wanted ' that is his only road to redemption.

Originally posted by: slmu

Beautiful recap as usual Diya.👏 Your TWTW makes weekends really bright.

I agree with you. This was an ASR with his much vaunted dimaag in abeyance. He has done something, which will be his salvation, for all the wrong reasons. And yes, any other girl and he would not have done it.

Your take that he did it really for Khushi and not Anjali is interesting. But then Khushi did not do it for him. So at this stage it is an unequal marriage. Another loop which needs closing.

BS and SI were awesome. Abhas was good initially in the week but Friday - maybe they did not focus enough on him.