Akash - a permission guy?

Okay I know right now everyone is feeling bad for Khushi...so am I ..ugh how much I hate ASR, Shyam and added to my hate list now is Akaash.
Why is Payal even marrying Akash? Does she not realize that he will leave her the minute ASR tells Akash to leave Payal (if that ever happens).
First of all Akash character is made so stupid. I mean when he started liking Payal, Did he get Arnav's permission? Did he ask him if he should like Payal? Did he ask Arnav when he first proposed her and told her that he loves her? Did he get permission from Arnav when he started showing her all those dreams? I dont think so!
But now when it was time for him to get married...he needs Arnav to give him permission to even do Jaymala. He needs Arnav's permission to start the Phere. Oh waoo good going!!!
So tomorrow if Arnav tell him to leave Payal because he thinks their whole family is cheating or wtsoever reason, would he leave her then beucase Arnav said so?
He was just standing there dumb founded and waiting for Arnav's permission.
And Khushi saw that and she knew if Arnav says Akash would not marry Payal. Poor Girl. Arnav knew that too, thats why he was able to force Khushi into marrying him.
I understand Akash respects his older brother, everyone does. but that certainly doesnt mean he needs to ask him permission for everything. i remember when he said whatever Arnav says goes in their family and for him. does he have no opinion on his own!
if Khushi told Arnav to go try and stop the marriage, would Akash have backed off? He prob would have left Payal. And that is the whole reason Khushi was forced by Arnav. Come on seriosly!
Ugh i just hate Akash now...hes one of the reasons for Khushi's pitiful situation.