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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

After reading a lot of multicoloured, multi thought posts...I finally watched todays episode...

Well I liked it...😊

First things first ...I loved the facial muscle spasm contest between Shyam and Babuji on the arrival of the newly wed ARHI...😆

NOW the second thing I liked was Payal's slight smile on seeing Arhi...it seemed that she was happy with the idea...it was only after the hoopla created by the rest of the elders that she and Akash started giving silent confused reactions...and most of all she did not cry...so I have a strong feeling she might unravel some truth about whats going on and will be Khushi's support...guys she has time on her hands now to do other things since RM has a washing machine😆...

I felt really sad when poor Khushi agreed to get married one of the reasons being that she thought that ASR will tell mami abt Payal's last broken marriage...little did they know that the cat is already out of the bag...😕

But the scene that caught my eye was when on the poolside ASR caught her hand and pulled her back to ask yes or no...earlier when we had not seen the transformation of ASR to Arnav ..we drooled over such scenes and were wow the way he held her and blah blah...but now when Arnav is turning back to ASR and started to handle her the way he used to (though the eyes betray his love now) why are we suddenly not noticing and busy dissecting ASR's behavior and the story line..

Guys this is the passionate aggressive hero we fell in love with...though the passion is on holidays nowadays with ASR's sense...but remember the sensibility is still there and the passion will come back too...chutti li hi khali...resign thori kiya hai...

Peace to all...XX

EDit

Just came across this photo on facebook fan page (Courtesty...Israt tunazzina)...to emphasize my view...(the first three scenes we drooled...well now...)

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Smriti

@serialjunkie

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Posted: 13 years ago

There is a thin line between passionate aggression and abuse. ASR is dangerously close to crossing that line. When the passionate aggression is welcome and enjoyed by the recipient as in KKG, then its business between two consenting adults. But when the recipient is clearly in distress and feels cornered, it borderlines abuse.

These are strictly my thoughts, I don't care what other think on this matter, truly because the point at which I stop being comfortable with another person in real or as in a fictitious character is totally up to me, not subject to judgment from others.

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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: serialjunkie
There is a thin line between passionate aggression and abuse. ASR is dangerously close to crossing that line. When the passionate aggression is welcome and enjoyed by the recipient as in KKG, then its business between two consenting adults. But when the recipient is clearly in distress and feels cornered, it borderlines abuse.

These are strictly my thoughts, I don't care what other think on this matter, truly because the point at which I stop being comfortable with another person in real or as in a fictitious character is totally up to me, not subject to judgment from others.

Agree with your view points...and as I said passion is on chutti...so we just witnessed abuse like we did in the beginning episodes...remember the sheesh mahal incident...he was out right abusive...and khushi was out right uncomfortable...she did not know him then ...

Now again he is abusive...both know in their hearts they love each other...his eyes show his pain (only when she is not looking) and she is sad and crushed because her expectations went down the drain...but if this increases further...then yes it will be all abusive and the TRPs will go do down the drain or maybe not...we all might be disappointed in the show but unfortunately what is currently ruling in india...is filled with either emotional abuse...(partner) or downright degradation of an educated woman who constantly has to prove to uneducated ones that she is as good as them and is ridiculed for her failed efforts (lamp and wick)...

Lets see what the PH keeps in mind when shaping further storyline...TRP on TVs or internet...

I am a die hard romantic and have enough stress in regular life...so would want to watch a light drama with a little bit of stress not overloads...

Peace...XX🤗

P.S: Its just a healthy debate no offense to you or anyone...

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JustFlameAHolic

@JustFlameAHolic

Voyager

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

he used to handle her just in the same way as he did today..i mean the 1st few episodes since the fashion show scene? he used to REALLLYY hate her and hurt her..but now his intentions are NOT to hurt her andd he can NOT truly hate her anymore..yes he feels betrayed but he still loves her. he will regret obvo later but for now, he's all the business tycoon ASR from outside, just a little changed one who loves khushi from the inside. and khushi was in distress and uncomfortable before when he used to handle her like that, however, THAT is what made them fall for each other and THAT is what turned all romantic and intense!..but for how long will she keep quiet? all she could handle was the lighthouse scene and she got all fiesty on arnav (i loved that part)..so it's only a matter of time before we get to see KKG in KASR.

and i agree, payal may be the one to tell akash and he may be the 1st to know the REAL truth? coz previosuly b4 the marriage, when payash were by the poolside and akash said i will never hide anything from u, she had a flashback of khushi's engagemnt with snake! so i think payash may be the one that try to get arshi together, like a little repaying the debt for getting payash together!

#TEAM ARSHI !! <3 (TOGETHER, NOT AS ONLY ARNAV OR ONLY KHUSHI).

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showstruck

@showstruck

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Posted: 13 years ago

these two Arnav and khushi do things wrong in taking turn...sometimes ASR wrong and sometimes khushi.

When ASR does it wrong, team ASR defends him and team khushi bashes. And team IPK does the right thing usually by speaking their minds and when khushi does wrong team khushi defends and vice versa.

I feel ASR's mistakes leave big dent which are almost nonrepairable...he published the fashion show footage hence khushi met Shyam.

Khushi's mistakes are mostly silly...like being nosey, party crashing...

In this turn ASR is wrong big time and IF is doing what it does. But, Arnav makes big mistakes and goes a long distance to make up for it.

I hope when it time for him to regret again...they do it right...I think I don't make sense at all...ok...let me take a break from IF😊

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JustFlameAHolic

@JustFlameAHolic

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: showstruck
these two Arnav and khushi do things wrong in taking turn...sometimes ASR wrong and sometimes khushi.

When ASR does it wrong, team ASR defends him and team khushi bashes. And team IPK does the right thing usually by speaking their minds and when khushi does wrong team khushi defends and vice versa.

I feel ASR's mistakes leave big dent which are almost nonrepairable...he published the fashion show footage hence khushi met Shyam.

Khushi's mistakes are mostly silly...like being nosey, party crashing...

In this turn ASR is wrong big time and IF is doing what it does. But, Arnav makes big mistakes and goes a long distance to make up for it.

I hope when it time for him to regret again...they do it right...I think I don't make sense at all...ok...let me take a break from IF😊

i agree! lol u make sense to me! but i think the arnav bashers have fried my brain so i have given up trying to explain this! ASR will do things wrong but he will regret it to a greater extent than khushi and will make up for it too and like you said will go a long distance to do so!

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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: showstruck
these two Arnav and khushi do things wrong in taking turn...sometimes ASR wrong and sometimes khushi.

When ASR does it wrong, team ASR defends him and team khushi bashes. And team IPK does the right thing usually by speaking their minds and when khushi does wrong team khushi defends and vice versa.

I feel ASR's mistakes leave big dent which are almost nonrepairable...he published the fashion show footage hence khushi met Shyam.

Khushi's mistakes are mostly silly...like being nosey, party crashing...

In this turn ASR is wrong big time and IF is doing what it does. But, Arnav makes big mistakes and goes a long distance to make up for it.

I hope when it time for him to regret again...they do it right...I think I don't make sense at all...ok...let me take a break from IF😊

Oho guys,...is my post coming across as bashing...I am totally team ArHI...and all i want is romance...the sole purpose of this post was to bring some calmness to the forum and our minds...All I meant was lets just enjoy the journey again...as the ASR coming out on realization of truth will turn into Arnav again and with a greater force I am sure...a surer Arnav not a reluctant, hesitant one peeking out from time to time...

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showstruck

@showstruck

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Arhimaniac

Oho guys,...is my post coming across as bashing...I am totally team ArHI...and all i want is romance...the sole purpose of this post was to bring some calmness to the forum and our minds...All I meant was lets just enjoy the journey again...as the ASR coming out on realization of truth will turn into Arnav again and with a greater force I am sure...a surer Arnav not a reluctant, hesitant one peeking out from time to time...

Oh no, i never meant this is a bashing post...I just told what happens here...I am hoping things will turn around and they leave some room for ASR's redemption.

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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: showstruck

Oh no, i never meant this is a bashing post...I just told what happens here...I am hoping things will turn around and they leave some room for ASR's redemption.

I desperately hope so tooo plus I really hope that Khushi get her backbone real quick and stands up to him...I cannot tolerate another distressed vau...if this happens then I might as well cancel my SP subscription as this is the only show I watch...