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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: jpalagrawal

Excellent post, people should see the difference comments made regarding a character and an actress. They should see the difference between an intelligent comment made about dialogue/plot vs.. one made out of hormonal frenzy. You go Anu!


Thanks Jules - My point is people should see before they post all manner of shit as well. And it goes for everyone, Barun fan, Sanaya fan, XYZ fan...for every freaking member on IF. period.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A forum has all kinds...young, old, besotted with the hero,...all types. When we write a post on a public forum like this we must expect all kinds of reactions.
Most of the time I glean from the tone of the 1st 3 lines of the reply which way they are leaning...does it really matter unless ofcourse people are rude...like on the face rude. See...u have ur opinion, they have theirs. There is this saying which comes to mind ..."Never argue with fools, they drag u down to their level & beat u with experience". I in no way am insiniuating tht anybody is a fool out here but keep in mind ur standards & dont bother to react. I mean...whts the difference between u & them otherwise.
Also sometimes what we write can be miscontrued..
Sometimes the person who replies is weak in the language we are conversing in...& u cd be over-reacting.
Like I said there are lot of reasons.
After watching ASR rip into Khushi for everything which was or was not her fault for the past 8 months I cdn't my heart blame her 1 bit for not reacting the way she was supposed to react. She is also running scared. And ASR seriously needs it. All his life he has got everything he wanted easily but his Khushi is something he needs to earn.
I for one am enjoying watching ASR turning into Arnav😍.
Edited by lexaxel - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree wid u...ppl just start shooting u if u support Arnav...wat the heck??🤢...khushi's silly childish pranks r justified...but arnav's concern n worry is ignored...ppl start saying.."ohh yes..he deserves that...esp. after the diwali fiasco" ! 🤢...reallly guyz?????? man they both have moved on frm diwali incident...but ppl here havnt...for everything in khushi's defense...they just come up wid DIWALI...DIWALI...BOOM !!!!...heck...khushi needs to grow a spine n start having a normal conversation wid him first...how many times we have seen wenever arnav talks politely wid her...in a normal way widout shouting or anything...she just runs away????? she makes up silly excuses...fools him...n runs away???????? y does she have to do tht????? cant she grow up for a change???


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with ya Anu,, its absolutely baseless to accuse somebody on their posts putting those 1,2,3,4 reasons! I drool over ASR bigtime, I am crazy abt him n his character, but I was the one who was instantly hurt with his behavior on Diwali night!!!

Although I could reason him out, I was still pissed off at him,,,

Khuhsi might have her own reasoning now, but its not necessary that she does what he did, coz ASR has got depth in his character n he has gone through a lot in life,,he is full of insecurities , he has just learned to smile, n he loves her a looot more that she even knows abt what love is!!!

Arnav , the way he reacted in prev 2 episodes showed that this girl is more than everything to him in his life, if not more than Di, equally imp as her! thats a diff story!

Khuhsi knows he loves her for sure, I m thinking postively abt her that she wants his to open up his feelings so the behavior , then i am happpy with her, other than that, no other reason justifies her behavior! My POV! she might also be scared due to Diwali experience,,but she has seen him changing, she has seen him being possessive and jealous!

damn she knows he loves her!!

I dont know , I am not going against either of them, but simply poinitng at some one with those charges u mentioned above is absolutely insane!!


Edited by UltimateBarun - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lexaxel

A forum has all kinds...young, old, besotted with the hero,...all types. When we write a post on a public forum like this we must expect all kinds of reactions.

Most of the time I glean from the tone of the 1st 3 lines of the reply which way they are leaning...does it really matter unless ofcourse people are rude...like on the face rude. See...u have ur opinion, they have theirs. There is this saying which comes to mind ..."Never argue with fools, they drag u down to their level & beat u with experience". I in no way am inisinuitating tht anybody is a fool out here but keep in mind ur standards & dont bother to react. I mean...whts the difference between u & them otherwise.
Also sometimes what we write can be miscontrued..
Sometimes the person who replies is weak in the language we are conversing in...& u cd be over-reacting.
Like I said there are lot of reasons.
After watching ASR rip into Khushi for everything which was or was not her fault for the past 8 months I cdn't in her my heart blame her 1 bit for not reacting the way she was supposed to react. She is also running scared. And ASR seriously needs it. All his life he has got everything he wanted easily but his Khushi is something he needs to earn.
I for one am enjoying watching ASR turning into Arnav😍.


I have no problem with what you wrote nor your explanation of why you couldn't blame Khushi for what she did. I have my own issues with the CVs and that is what I spoke about today along with many many other members and it always came down to you are a drooler. And that's when I walked away. I did not even bring up language because usually when someone misunderstands me, I have the decency to clarify without jumping on them first.

You are right, there are many people here in the forum, all the more reason to adhere to some decorum and avoid getting in the mud.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jpalagrawal

Excellent post, people should see the difference comments made regarding a character and an actress. They should see the difference between an intelligent comment made about dialogue/plot vs.. one made out of hormonal frenzy. You go Anu!


Jules, thats the problem .. most of the time the line between the character and the artist gets blurred that people take offence for him/her and feel the need to justify.
Anu, great post , and you are right, there is a need to see what is being said , before jumping headlong into the me too wagon. Most of the posts I see start off as a character analysis/deterioration ,or REMINDER TO CV"S TO GET THEIR ACTS STRAIGHT , and then go on a downward spiral because suddenly people take offense and it becomes a free for all
. There is a difference between a discussion and a brawl..so lets refrain from making it a free for all😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: UltimateBarun

I agree with ya Anu,, its absolutely baseless to accuse somebody on their posts putting those 1,2,3,4 reasons! I drool over ASR bigtime, I am crazy abt him n his character, but I was the one who was instantly hurt with his behavior on Diwali night!!!


Although I could reason him out, I was still pissed off at him,,,

Khuhsi might have her own reasoning now, but its not necessary that she does what he did, coz ASR has got depth in his character n he has gone through a lot in life,,he is full of insecurities , he has just learned to smile, n he loves her a looot more that she even knows abt what love is!!!

Arnav , the way he reacted in prev 2 episodes showed that this girl is more than everything to him in his life, if not more than Di, equally imp as her! thats a diff story!

Khuhsi knows he loves her for sure, I m thinking postively abt her that she wants his to open up his feelings so the behavior , then i am happpy with her, other than that, no other reason justifies her behavior! My POV! she might also be scared due to Diwali experience,,but she has seen him changing, she has seen him being possessive and jealous!

damn she knows he loves her!!

I dont know , I am not going against either of them, but simply poinitng at some one with those charges u mentioned above is absolutely insane!!



@Zoha - this is what I am saying - why is it that someone who thinks exactly the same way and view as you in the episode has to hide from this view. It is valid and if someone thinks otherwise, fine - let's discuss. But, just to cut someone off as drooler, you are of no use, it's ridiculous.

And let's add, that if you mention a flaw in characterization - you are Bashing. Why so quick with this word?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pieperr


Jules, thats the problem .. most of the time the line between the character and the artist gets blurred that people take offence for him/her and feel the need to justify.
Anu, great post , and you are right, there is a need to see what is being said , before jumping headlong into the me too wagon. Most of the posts I see start off as a character analysis/deterioration ,or REMINDER TO CV"S TO GET THEIR ACTS STRAIGHT , and then go on a downward spiral because suddenly people take offense and it becomes a free for all
. There is a difference between a discussion and a brawl..so lets refrain from making it a free for all😛


I am hallucinating - are you out and about in the forum?!?! *rubs eyes*
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: momma1128


I am hallucinating - are you out and about in the forum?!?! *rubs eyes*


ONLY FOR THE LUB OF YOU ,BIG MOMMA😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well I have made posts for ASR and sometimes against ASR. I did the same with KKG. I am not biased and I should not be . This is a forum and we all have freedom to express our views. If someone does not like a certain post Just ignore it.Thats it.
Well said Anu . This post was really needed. Thanks

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