My first long post about Khushi being a flirt :D - Page 8

FInally finally.. someone came up with a topic like this =) ! Seriously i don't get why everyone is against khushi at this point ?! Arnav has done similar things with La to make khushi jelous just to hear "farak padta hai"😆

Thank You Somzz for this much needed post! I was a bit taken aback by people writing about how Khushi needs to realize that there will be consequences for her flirting and all..Seriously?? Why must women always be pure, and chaste, who cannot even think about, let alone look at any other man but the one they are destined to be with? Why must she take the blame for Shyaam's obsession or for NK's crush on her? And why are we forgetting that she was flirting with NK to rile ASR up? All her actions are somehow related to him only..

All I know is that both Khushi and Arnav have their own share of flaws and not one of them is doodh ka dhula..Both are guilty for using someone else to make the other one jealous, both have hurt the other both physically and mentally on a number of instances..And yet,they love each other with despite those flaws and shortcomings..I wonder why we are stressing so much over the littlest of slip ups where as ArHi themselves are all chilled out!😆

Originally posted by: sbk2

Where was this fiesty Nitzy all these days?!

In the closet?? 😉 😛 Payback time... 😈

Originally posted by: somzz007

Look at you using Italics and bold and Red!!!😆

Samajdhar ko ishara kaafi hai... Unfortunately that is not the case here. So just hoping that bold and red might catch some attention... 😛 😆

Originally posted by: sunflower52

Yes she was not flirting with Nk in last night episode, but she was before.

The thing is men respond to women flirting in different way then the women responding to a man.

There was this english movie I saw once, a young girl went to a bar and thought lets have fun and she started to flirt with a guy, according to her it was fun and then afterwards that guy r*** her.

No matter how much progressive or modern you become the basic nature or in born nature of a man and women do not change.

We women have a basic instinct when it come to men, but men dont.

so I just want Khushi to be careful around guys, as she really does not know Nk that well.

About La and Asr relationship, when they 1st broke up if Khushi had not interfered in their life that diwali night and after what happened would have not happened. La's heartbreak all 3 of them were involved.

So why blame ASR only, to me La and Khushi were as much responsible.

Khushi is in a stage where all of us are, she see's life in rose tinted glasses. She has no idea how men think, that's what ASR was trying to say to her. To be careful and be alert, the world is notrosy and not all people are good, there are some who take advantage of the innocent.

That what Shaym did, he took advantage of her innocence. Shaym is a complete psycho.

Originally posted by: solembaum

Would that still make it Khushi's fault? She is not continuing with the flirting anyway... and if Shyam becomes devious and other people believe him, would that still make it her fault?? and Shyam has not been let loose by her... if she is not aware of what is going on around her...ppl at RM who have known him for more time, are aware of what is going on under their nose?

While she would definitely have been on better grounds with her conscience had she declared it to ppl before ... not that I see anyone believing her at that point... still she would have done her part and couldn't have been blamed later for keeping such a big thing from anjie and ASR... But the very fact that she decided not to means that there is a track coming where this is going to blow up... so the hatred track and blaming is going to happen... But that doesn't mean that ppl here nitpick on her actions anticipatorily and start making posts like she is toying with men and her smile made her father have a near death experience and she still has not learned!!!

Nope certainly not. I was only saying from shows POV that Shyam might bend the truth and make everything go against Khushi. Wouldn't be her fault but she might be misunderstood. I have never said anywhere that she is toying with people.

I think NK has a purpose in this story. Cv's wouldn't keep him for no reason. I was considering a lot of angles and whether NK would stay a loyal friend or would get somehow manipulated or victimized by Shyam. 😳

Kudos Kudos Kodos. I have always been surprised at the double standards for woman by woman. I too raised this issue once. How can you accuse a girl of something while not do the same for the guy? The guy's virginity or lack of it is discussed with gusto while the girl can't even flirt. Give it a break. In fact I am honestly disappointed with all those people who are making an issue of the flirting to morally accuse Khushi. I find it surprising and it irritates me that she uses ASR's weakness but how on earth does it get down to the moralistic view?