past present and future..how to decide?

She has definetly seen the transformation of a ruthless man to a softer Arnav but however, what all she has been put through would make her feet tremble in accepting him as her life partner...a man who has left no chance of showing her down.. left no stone unturned in humiliating her... who would always bring up their status in between... who has physically manhandled her numerous times...who accused her of trapping him for his status...

it would be very difficult for khushi to accept that this man can change for ever... she has seen changes in him... after nanital he changed for her but then after diwali incident we all know what happened...what will give her the assuarance that this change isn't till just for time being?

he has helped her numerous times as well... but has assaulted her mentally more than that...he did help her with payash marriage but then in the restaurant he was the one to say "mujhe mere bhai ko halwai nahi banana" he didn't care for her sister he cared for his brother ... and insulted them in public to which khushi had to reply back...


would any of so many girls here would be able to accept the fact that a man who has done so much harm to our life has now fallen for us... and would we be able to make a decision like marriage with such a person?
you may know he is better than before... you may know he has changed... but wont the past experiences make you scared?! wont they haunt your thoughts? wont you be worried for your future?

please share your views...

thank you all 😊

It's difficult isn't it? Personally, the guys I've fallen hard for (only two! 😊) are the ones who have a tough exterior but I know have a beating, loving heart underneath. But, never have I gone through the insults, manhandling, rejection in the same way as Khushi. I honestly don't know what I would have done if I had. I have enough self respect to walk away no matter how much I feel...which is why, when there was no let up of the tough exterior, I've called it quits. You have to feel that the commitment is as serious and important on both sides.