If lovin ASR was so easy...there is more to Khushi - Page 2

Originally posted by: himabindu05

"'Aap mujse pyaar karte hain...hain na arnav ji???I am sure it will be khushi who will coax the confession out of him one day...irrespective of how it feels that ball is in ASRs court now...it is not!!

The ball is in Khushis court...Aap girne se math dariye...mein aapko sambahalungi!!! this has all the hidden answers...She knew when he regretted and coaxed the sorry out of him...she will do it again and make him confess...only she can do it!!1

Lovin ASR is the most difficult task...I feel sorry for him but i feel sorrier for Khushi...the bubbly chulbuli Khushi...what she has actually seen in life at such a tender age...the way she has handled her life with dignity and devoid of any bitterness...hats off to her!!And her destiny is to get this guy who is full of pessimism to believe in love...what a task her Devimaiyya has chosen for her!!

The main difference is her belief in goodness and divinity which has made her humble and sweet irrespective of her loss at such a young age...She too has been unfortunate in many ways but has kept her optimism alive becoz of her faith in god...And Arnav... what he has witnessed in his life at ayoung age has become an ever enduring thorn in his heart...he is an atheist and so does not believe in the healing power of the creator...so doesnt have anything to fall back on...

The moment he believes that nothing actually is his hands and everything is predestined...he will be totally Khushis in everyway possible...But that awreness can actually be created only by Khushi and no one else...She has fallen in love with this person whom she is going to redeem...coz she was destined to do it...She will sqeeze out every drop of bitterness from his heart...and will drink it up herself coz she has the ability to dilute it to nothingness...

As u rightly said The 4th promo is the best and keeps haunting me...especially when ASR says'mohabbat inme dard banke rehta hai"' A beautiful emotion like love which everyone considers as agift from the almighty resides as a an ugly pain in his heart...What a Pity...This story is full of pathos...and so intense...Its so sad that in the name of TRPs they are diluting and turning it into a mediocre love story...I just hope and pray that the originality should not get go away from this serial..it is really more than that to us!!

mindblowing yaar. u should make a topic out of it. superb writting.

again I request u to make a post out of it.

Originally posted by: AR-ARHI_naila

loved ur post. its a treat to read.

and yes, u have protrayed the reasons behind Khushi and Arnavs behavior lately. we all can guess why Arnav is behaving like this. his ego, fear to fall in love, painfull past etc etc. but Khushis behavior is quite difficult to understand. so many of us are calling it as partial amnesia. but it is also predictable after dhe diwali night. she was heartbroken, devastated like anything. she was dejected/refused by the person she loves even before her realusation of love to
him. so she burried her emotion deep inside, so deep that even she is quite unware of it now. and it was not easy for such a fun-loving girl. so may be she is extra funny nowadays to overcome this. i dont know actually. the CVs must have shown this transformation in a detailed way. and it was better to show her as a more mature person than before due to this. but the cvs ruined the chance.they didnt even show a single scene of her feelings that time. it was so frustating.

anyway, I hope they will lead the storyline to right track very soon.

Thanx dear 😊...I agree to one thing...Khushi has burried it deep inside...CVs should have shown the transformation and the hurt at times...then sm ppl having negativities would hv been easier to relate...even thts the only grudge I have...

I agree with the sentiments expressed on this thread! It is difficult to love a man like ASR! Most women would give up from sheer frustration! I think we are expecting Khushi to act like some sort of "sacrifical lamb" for him! By NO means should she agree to become his whipping boy! The way Khushi is acting now is VERY consistant with her charachter! She is someone who likes to focus on the positive! She does not "dwell" on things that upset her or make her sad! (If she did, then she will still be living under the trauma of her parents death)! We saw from her conversation with ASR in the "sorry" scene, that she DOES think of her parents and DO feel their loss keenly! However... she has got a great foster family, and she loves them and foucuses on being happy with them!After the Diwali jilting, she decided to move on with her life! She took what ASR told her literally! (about her not having any importance in his life, and also him accusing her of being "happy that a rich man held on to her anklet" etc). After that ugly incident, she REFUSED to see him in any romantic sense and buried those feelings! After all, the man said that he was getting engaged etc, so why think of him anymore?His behaviour when he found out about HER engagement really STUMPED her and she didnt know how to react! (Coz as far as SHE was concerned she meant nothing to him and she had resigned to this fact). What was she to do? Go and force him to admit that he DID care? That is not in her nature to do! She is also very young, so she would NEVER have thought of doing that!

@mrdarcyfan: hats off. u hv protrayed Khushi very well. loved ur positivity.
u know what?! I love Arhi so dearly that cant tolerate to see them bashed. Yeah, I also fell annoyed by their behavior
sometime, but if I see someone else saying about
it I feel protective towards them. so I always sound positive about Arhi. Im not saying that criticism is bad. but I feel bad to see negetive remarks about Arnav and Khushi.

so please spread ur positivity across the forum. and Im requesting u to make a topic out of it too. 2nd time requesting it in this thread!!??!! 😲 . but cant help it. 😳

This is a brilliant observation, thanks a lot for this post. hope you have a good sunday. I'm watching all the episode for day 1 again as i missed arnav so much😳

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I agree with the sentiments expressed on this thread! It is difficult to love a man like ASR! Most women would give up from sheer frustration! I think we are expecting Khushi to act like some sort of "sacrifical lamb" for him! By NO means should she agree to become his whipping boy!

That scene in the dressing room summed it all up! She agreed that a "dream world" is better than the "real world" as in the Real world hearts only break! This was a profound thruth she just blurted out! THIS was the truth, opon hearing which Arnav decides to "back off" from torturing her! THAT was how "Farak Padata Hain" crashed and burned! (Side note: I STILL feel there was more to come on that track but TRP drama and all the bashing got to the PH and SP and they changed tack a bit)!

Wonderful observations and analysis 👍🏼 Even I feel there was a lot of thought behind the "farak padta hai " track...but watever reason it got halted...but ya ASR saw her tears and couldnt torture her more...he even said SORRY to her while he apparently hugged LA...

Very true n agree with ur post!!
ASR is in love no doubt n he is aware of it but he has a huge ego n i dont find him confessing his love to Khushi at least not in this near future. He is bitter, his heart is full of pain mixed with bitterness. There is only this innocent, pure n bubbly girl who can remove this bitterness in his heart but boy!! would it b easy? This guy can b loving in one second n cruel n violent in another second. This girl knows him too well n she knows wat to expect from him anytime. Me too i feel really bad for Khushi. It is not easy to help n love a person who has a bruised n traumatic childhood with important sequel imprinted in his heart n mind.
IPK... started with a mind blowing n touching story, dunno if it will move to its actual track but i do hope they keep the original essence of the show...
I do hope that this sangeet helps Khushi to understand her Laad Governor better n it would have been nice if CVs have at least made Khushi discover at least the first layer of ASR's complicated past through Anji.
I'm sure something huge in store for us. Hope CVs wont disappoint us. I'll also add i loved when ASR stumbled n Khushi caught his arm n the line - "dont b afraid to fall, i'll b there for u". I just feel it is just wat Khushi will n should do in his life!!

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

but boy!! would it b easy? This guy can b loving in one second n cruel n violent in another second. This girl knows him too well n she knows wat to expect from him anytime. Me too i feel really bad for Khushi. It is not easy to help n love a person who has a bruised n traumatic childhood with important sequel imprinted in his heart n mind.
IPK... started with a mind blowing n touching story, dunno if it will move to its actual track but i do hope they keep the original essence of the show...
I do hope that this sangeet helps Khushi to understand her Laad Governor better n it would have been nice if CVs have at least made Khushi discover at least the first layer of ASR's complicated past through Anji.
I'm sure something huge in store for us. Hope CVs wont disappoint us. I'll also add i loved when ASR stumbled n Khushi caught his arm n the line - "dont b afraid to fall, i'll b there for u". I just feel it is just wat Khushi will n should do in his life!!

Really like wat u saying...even i agree...

Agreed.. ASR is a more complex character and has many layers than we know.. so its going to tough to crack that nut and make arnav come out totally.. once he comes there is no going back..