Arnav-Khushi: An extremely abusive equation. - Page 4

Originally posted by: geet.a

thanks a lot for this!!

wonderfully written and nicely explained.

When repressed emotions are not allowed to be expressed..they lash out in violence or aggressiveness- passion- all this can be seen in both Arnav's and Khushi's case...looking forward to the love-hate track..

Originally posted by: shaheerdiwani

Wow !!! Amazing analysis ...luvd d way u have portrayed d feelings of d two ...very well written !!!

Originally posted by: Opti

Pink Chocolate, yes we do see Khushi in different perspectives. I can well empathise with her because this is how I was when I was young. I had certain fixed ideas about what is right and wrong and anyone whom I found doing things which were considered wrong by me, I would brand them bad. Khushi is like that. Given her age and her lack of experience she cannot tell the difference between a deed and a person.

Each one's value system may be shaped by what one is taught and what one learns from the surroundings or from one's own experience. Now take the instance of Anjali. She too has values which are very similar to Khushi's. She too is highly religious and does not approve of a live-in relationship. But she is able to accept her brother and his live-in status because 1. she loves him and 2.she knows why he opposes marriage.

Right now Khushi does not love Arnav nor does she know what makes the guy shun marriage. She is not mature enough to find out why the guy resents marriage. For her his non-acceptance of marriage means that his character is shaky, meaning he is incapable of making a commitment and standing by it. This is her belief. I don't think there is anything mean about it. Yes, Arnav does not like what she said but that does not make it mean. Being 'mean' is being 'petty' and I doubt Khushi can be termed petty,consciously or unconsciously.

As I said the only times she was acting petty were the times she pulled all those pranks on him and even then she was prompt in tendering her apology because that is not in her character.

For the first time in life Arnav has met his match. His equal. He puts on a facade to hide himself from the world and this girl suddenly shows up and tries to break it down . She makes him feel defenseless. A part of him wants to let her break it and a part of him fights back.

Originally posted by: livelygal

Gosh!!! Whr do find all this sensibility from?
Great post...Every word was oozing "sense"

PS- Is it horlicks, boost or bournvita?😉