What is wrong with you Mr. ASR?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I must be crazy...but what I felt after todays episode is anger aginst ASR...How can he be so inconsiderate? Does he not care about any one but himself...(and his sister, of course...)?

I am talking about Ms. Khushi Kumari Gupta...sure he is smitten and he thinks about her all the time...but why doesn't he ever think about her problems...?What she must be going thorugh...It is not a secret that her famly is hard pressed for money...she tried to tell him that when he held her against her will at Sheesh Mahal...she was crying and told him again and again that she needed to take the papers of her shop to save her sister's marriage...Now does any one do that out of choice? How hard pressed for money they must be to count on the shop titile papers for finanacing a marriage...? Does he not think...does he pay no attention?
Then when she started working with him...he knew that she was desperate for a job...she told him before she knew it was his company...Does he make any attempt to send her pay that she earned by putting hard work for those days when he really exploited her...? No sir...don't expect any of that from ODB...He just does not think about those things...
What is important for him is to take out his anger...to try to force her to listen to him...He breaks her phone and does not think twice about how difficult it must be for her to afford one...He does not try to replace it...I am truly disappointed with Mr. ASR as a person...
If he does not pay her for the Mitahi she is making it will be the last straw... I hope that does not happen...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great post Ms Universe - I have often wondered about the same thing.

Whether he cares for Khushi or not - as a big business tycoon dealing with so many people - it should be second nature for him to realize others (including Khushi's) financial difficulties and how his behavior affects other (including her family).

I too expected him to send the 4-5 days salary she worked for him at the office. Maybe even extra - same as the charges as he paid the other rude model.

Surely ASR can be decent and reasonable even if he is rude and angry -- but he seems to be fighting unfairly than fairly.

Grow up ASR - show that you are growing and not being childish, unfair, and selfish!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Awesome Sushi..
Glad to see ASR is back..because he is one selfish,arrogant ,pighheaded prick who can only fight with his inner demons when KKG is not around..When she is in front..he is all mush..He can't take her tears, he can't give her love and he certainly can't be bothered thinking about her problems on a personal level That will come though..Once he is finished fighting with himself and her and he is ready to listen..
Ahh today was much better..Loved him flinging the pearls away.He is BACK for sure...he has stopped having the FB where he wronged her..He is where he is because he lets nothing get to him..and that is important because if it does it becomes a weakness and ASR hates weaknesses..
Difficult to say whether he will pay her..maybe Anjali might end up interceding on his behalf..When he comes to know it is KKG , he might certainly return the mithai without a second thought..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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awesome post! llove it!!!

one of the best
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I love Arnavs character because I find him really interesting. For me he has this jekyl and Hyde personality. One minute he feels guilty, the next angry with himself. Arnav is the sort if person who doesn't share his feelings. There are so many layers to Arnav's behaviour and personality. This is what I find most appealing about his character. The reason I think he acts all cold towards khushi and others , because he wants to have control, especially with his emotions. His personailty and behaviour have most likely been shaped by his past. One things for sure I loved today's episode because Angry ASR was back! Great post btw!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hiya Sush!

Glad dat after long time v got a gud episode!

When he met her for the first time he din't hav a gud opinion about her! Also wen she was desperate to join the job he accused her! He was thinking her to be an opportunist! So he din't care about her financial status!

When he got know her real character she was no where to be seen... Moreover our jalebi gal is not allowing him to open his mouth! Otherwise he is busy in "Rabba Ve"!

Even if he helps I don't think she wil accept it! He is just fighting with his inner turmoil hoping to win the battle which he has already lost!

Well, he wants to show nothing affects him but everything is out of his control now! ASR shud pay her but its doubtful!

Awesum post!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This is a wrong allegation on ASR. Why is he been blamed for thinking about her? Is he her husband? Lover? or even is he her boss? I ask why should he think about Khushi or her problem? Did Khushi even listen to him when he wanted to talk to her?

You ask about her pay check, but how about 1 lakh that she needs to pay for breaking the bond...? She is lucky that he just let her go...

I say, good ASR made decision not to yield for his emotions...I don't want ASR to act like a puppy dog behind Khushi.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have to disagree with you. ASR doesn't even care for his so called girlfriend La. Now, while he was responsible for putting Khushi through hell like he said he would when she signed the contract, I will tell you first hand from working in corporate America, your boss doesn't care what is happening in your family financially because you go to work and that's all that matters. He's not running social services, he's running a company. She told him that she would pay back the car damages, he did not suggest that.

Now what he did during their encounter when he broke that phone, obviously he wasn't thinking AT ALL. He was desparate for her attention.

ASR thinks about himself and what he finds important only - he even said it today - he does not have time to listen or think about things that don't matter.

Which is why it is so delicious that given this nature - he is actually spending the time to think about Khushi - because as he admits, he only thinks about those things which mean something to him.

If he does not pay the mithai bill, it will be willfully malicious - something I have not seen yet with ASR. Khushi may open her prideful mouth and say I don't want your money, and then he may say fine. That I can see.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: momma1128

I have to disagree with you. ASR doesn't even care for his so called girlfriend La. Now, while he was responsible for putting her through hell like he said he would when she signed the contract, I will tell you first hand from working in corporate America, your boss doesn't care what is happening in your family financially because you go to work and that's all that matters. He's not running social services, he's running a company. She told him that she would pay back the car damages, he did not suggest that.

Yes, he doesn't care for La ...in fact, he doesn't care for anyone other than his sister. But that doesn't mean he is right...And I would imagine if an employee has had a near death experience because of the Boss's pig-headedness and spite, the Boss would and should be a bit on the backfoot. (That he was the one who saved the said employee, is a matter entirely besides the point.) Once such an event has come to pass, there is no longer a regular Boss-employee dynamics at work...it moves into a whole different territory altogether. And this would be true anywhere in the world. Yes, here in America, people tend to keep their personal and professional lives apart, but Arnav and Khushi are in Delhi. The least he should have done was to have paid her for the 5 or however many days she worked for him.
Now what he did during their encounter when he broke that phone, obviously he wasn't thinking AT ALL. He was desparate for her attention.
True.
ASR thinks about himself and what he finds important only - he even said it today - he does not have time to listen or think about things that don't matter.

Which is why it is so delicious that given this nature - he is actually spending the time to think about Khushi - because as he admits, he only thinks about those things which mean something to him.
Very True.😃 Delicious is the word.!
If he does not pay the mithai bill, it will be willfully malicious - something I have not seen yet with ASR. Khushi may open her prideful mouth and say I don't want your money, and then he may say fine. That I can see.

Sorry Anu, can't defend ODB here...Sush has picked on a very cogent point here...this guy is totally self-absorbed...he is reminded of Khushi in every instance where he is involved...when his feelings/conscience have been aroused (red sari), challenged ("hum Lucknow jaa rahen hai", speech), pricked (guest house scene where she faints and the hurt on her wrist). But he never remembers her protestations of innocence or her pleadings to let her go.
As Zain said, he is "selfish, arrogant, pig-headed prick"...and that is why three quarters of the forum loves him so😆😆...our dear dear Bad Boy!!😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: current

Awesome Sushi..

Glad to see ASR is back..because he is one selfish,arrogant ,pighheaded prick
You said it Zainu...😃who can only fight with his inner demons when KKG is not around..When she is in front..he is all mush..Mush may be not...startingto soften...yes...I love that ! He can't take her tears, he can't give her love and he certainly can't be bothered thinking about her problems on a personal level That will come though..That is the part that is most interesting for me...😍Once he is finished fighting with himself and her and he is ready to listen..yes...but as much as we like him..this is where he is right now...😔
Ahh today was much better..Loved him flinging the pearls away.He is BACK for sure...he has stopped having the FB where he wronged her..He is where he is because he lets nothing get to him..and that is important because if it does it becomes a weakness and ASR hates weaknesses..
Difficult to say whether he will pay her..I am not counting on it either...maybe Anjali might end up interceding on his behalf..When he comes to know it is KKG , he might certainly return the mithai without a second thought..What is with all ...I don't care ... you annoy me attitude in the mahaepisode clip...last I checked all he could think about was how painful it was to see her go away...😉

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