is it wise for kavya to witness ahem ahem

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Posted: 11 years ago
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why is kavya not given her own nursery she is old enough to observe, ask and think, learn behaviour and get influenced by actions
mostly she sleeps on her parents bed, is this a good practice, are they now above marital obligations to each other that kavya wont be introduced at such an early age??? well right now they are instructed to produce an heir so???
then she prefers sleeping with chachu cahchi, well this is not at all safe place or right place for her, there is no assumption in this case, the matter is pure and simple, if they are in bucha phase (on speaking terms-friendly phase) they will be overly friendly and guess what it leads to - mahiya
and if they are in kita phase (not speaking terms- zagada mode) guess what happens , we dont have to guess, shlok ensured us yesterday he demonstrated what happens, so definitely a no-no for kavya
if they are with na-anjali, will she be safe is this even debatable??
so why dont they show kavya having her own nursery with a nursery maid , if not anjali can shift there she will have a nice warm bed instead of mat, but certainly miss sahib's sticks but kavya will atleast be spared from spats or ahem ahem, that way sojal - varad and astha-shlok can concentrate in the competition of who will be the first in line to giving agnihotris the heir
i simply dont like kavya in adult bed NO-NO; its a torture for the child to witness acts, sounds of all kinds and variations, movements, etc on the same bed
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good point... Kavya is old enough to sleep in her own room... If NA has no problem with her having a room of her own...
Or maybe she isn't allowed to, since she may not "learn to behave like a girl" or "make her like Anjali" and crap 😆

She sleeping with her Chacha and Chachi is a BIG NO NO NO NO NO... everyone knows why 🤣

Astha should also stop her from sleeping with NA - Anji ..She sleeping with NA and Anjali... He doesn't like it... You know because he won't get to beat her na... Then how will his day go nice? How will he have a good sleep? 😡



Great post... Kavya should be given her own room already...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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peyto dear.. whenever kavya sees ashlok.close. i don't like it much.. as she is a child.. ashlok also feel weird and stop.. n in one scene before marriage she asked ashlok ki aap dono kya kar rahe ho ?? she should not witnes these at all.. later on. she may tease aastha chachi when she grows up..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Btw do u think Ashlok wl stil do d high level romance if Kavya slps wid them?😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't know how the Agni mansion looks so big from the outside and does not have enough bedrooms. During the divorce track there was not a guest room where Aastha could stay. Now they repaired it for Jyoti.
Anyway - I think there is not much action going in Varad/Sojal room 😉

Yes Chachu/Chachi room should remain off limit. 😳

But on a serious note - yes she should have her own room.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ANKHITA , GR8 POST ...
Yeah think that kavya is old enough to have her own room but the she is a girl ...she has to go to saasural no ...maybe that's why , NA, is from now only training her ...vidhai ...

NO NO with , NA, I didn't like it when astha sent her to sleep with anjali , as , NA, is a violent man and in anger could have done anything ...

I don't think varad and sojal are having any ahem ahem sessions now so no problem there ...untill kavya fights for her room ...but with ...

ASHLOK ...definitely a BIG NO NO ...ASHLOK WILL BE FRUSTRATED ...along with all of us poor viewer's ...

Think astha chachi should also get a room ready for chamchi ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hi...can I ask u a question... r u staying in india...cause I have seen many house where children r in same room as parents till 12-15 yrs sleeping in same room...
well I wonder about those couples...I think most real life couples at that stage don't do frequently...it is sometimes and they know and very well aware of their child being in room...so they might do it say when that child is in school or not in a house...not necessarily in night...my assumption...
regardin agni house...kavya is just say 6 yr old...she cant b stayin alone in room...not in india atleast...well as v know varad doesn't come near sojal so chances of kavya hearing sound...wont b possible cause they don't do it...
and even if they have to do it they can when kavya is in school or not around in the house...now kavya sleeping on chacha chichi room...well yes newly wed couples do it oftenly and so everyday at times and so shlok was showing frustration...now when kavya is around she has just seen them kissing not doing ahem ahem...and the night kavya slept in chacha chichi room...I don't think ashlok did anything except for kissing on cheek...and even if they wanted to do...v can assume they did it bathroom...but certainly not when kavya was sleeping...
so kavya has never seen ahem ahem...it was just kiss of astha and shlok ...he was obvisouly not going to do ahem ahem in study room that time when kavya saw them trying to kiss
and in the night when she slept...we should assume astha shlok never did ahem ahem that night...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ankitha u r worrying about kavya..but am worrying about grace aka kavya...poor soul witnessing all thier romance in day light..they cant say they r taking separate shots..often thier r one shot with shravi n grace...n the one before kavya bday avi lifts shrenu to tie balloons..thier expressions were too raw...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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and as someone mentioned nursery for kids is not common in india..but can shift the child with elders
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazygul

peyto dear.. whenever kavya sees ashlok.close. i don't like it much.. as she is a child.. ashlok also feel weird and stop.. n in one scene before marriage she asked ashlok ki aap dono kya kar rahe ho ?? she should not witnes these at all.. later on. she may tease aastha chachi when she grows up..

exactly there has to be a limit drawn somewhere
i dont think parents should befriend their children , children should have friends of their own age, parents should remain parents, they can discuss stuff, epress opinion, parents can share their experience and show pros / cons while taking decision but ultimately allow their child to decide so the child owns up that decision whatever happens the child will learn lessons and build confidence
there should be a level of trust respect and openness but parents should refrain from being overly friendly
and hence i think there should be a level of respect maintained between elder and younger
if elders starts befriending the kids, kids behaves with the parents just like other kids and lose the respect
please i am not moral policing just my opinion

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