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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jia.astk


thanks Miac 😊..
yes to all you said..she never thought that her lies will harm somebody. Previously it only her who suffered because of her simple lies but this time another person suffered. I too want to see her explaining to Kavya not to lie..let's see.
Yes to Kirloskers ... its their belief system ...because they believe that its ok if you are saving/helping someone and they will learn a big lesson due to this.
What about Agnihotris? They in fact live life full of lies esp. NA and Anjali.


Agnihotri hah...I thought abt only who are capable of learning lessons not the ones who doesn't thinks some lesson exist at all (abt niranjan) and abt anjali she learned her lesson long back but not ready to accept it...just my thought even I felt sorry for Anjali but isnt she is the reason for destroying so many lives. .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jia.astk

"The basic truth of human condition is that everybody lies. The only variable is about what"

Astha is always used to telling white lies and she feels that there is nothing wrong in telling lies as that is how she is brought up that if you are protecting/ helping someone by telling a simple white lie there is no harm.
In her immaturity, childishness she also defends herself that she has helped Sojal to go visit her Mom who met with an accident. She even justified her actions to a small innocent child that there is nothing wrong in telling lies when its good for others! Really..is that what you teach a small child who is opening her eyes to this world and by teaching such values to a child you mend them in a wrong way 😡. Even Varad supported her for her white lie, what kind of father is he!!

She did not fully understand the repercussions of her lie...till her "sweekruthi samaroh". She saw the bitter stark reality of the relationship of her MIL and FIL. It was a shock of her lifetime when she found out about her dear baba's atrocities and her sasubai's plight! Anjali could have spoken that its not her fault and that Astha lied to her that Sojal is at home, but she did not. In fact she hid the truth and took the blame upon herself; and tolerated the wrath, physical abuse from her husband 😭. Then she tried to put up a fake smile to not spoil the image of her family.
All these being observed by Astha now understood the reality behind the gruff behavior of her Sasubai and that she is only acting according to the wishes of her husband and putting up a false bravado in front of others.

Now will she again lie to Shlok or will she tell him the truth about the reality of his beloved baba whom he respects like a GOD? They just started a new beginning to their lives and Shlok apologized to her for all the anguish he gave her. However, Shlok is also branch of the same tree of Agnihotri clan who also inflicted emotional abuse upon her just because he felt she is the cause of his father's disgrace. Even if she tries to confide with him about the truth he will never believe her as it his Baba in the picture now. I want to see a shrewd Shlok and mature Astha to deal with this situation which can create a big rift between them.
Hoping against hope that Cv's handle this new track sensibly as this is most important part of the story.

A big applause to Geetanjali, Manish 👏again for enacting such scene which was bone-chilling and mind-numbing. Shrenu also did well who got a big blow and who is unable to cope up with it. And superb direction by Waseem.



Hey JIA, very very nice dear, must say the cast AVI and SHERNU always does the best as ASHLOK. Added the feel was NA and ANAJLI. My my..gave me chills, felt bad and thought of other many women in ANAJLI boat. Hats off the the team of EBP who brought the feel in real even was little risky to do so.👏

White lies or for a good reason always can be differentiates as for genuine reason where it depends on situation based and time being when in case of emergency occurs. Lying to kids is always bad but when the kid can't understand adults emotional pain and the reasons behind it be it NA wide customs or some other issues like social or family at times we have to lie. Can't say lie but can be said as deviating a child when at comes to age and have good knowledge to,understand what is good or how bad effects she will understand. The good values in we have to give but some,times kids questions we can't answer and even answers were given it makes them small to understand.


Rift are common in couples and overcoming it are the perfect couple if not small tiffs the couple can't understand new new emotions or egos which are touched by self pride. Always trust in couple by understand emotions and their impact in different situations.
Evidence not having even we won't be saying NA is culprit..it is the live show we are seeing not all in family are seeing. Of not shown NA abusive belabour we would have asked for,evidence too. Evidence as in making believe not saying have no trust. The trust you have on you even sometimes won't make you believe..often conflicts of common man or woman.
Lying to hubby is again not good thing but can sideline the issue and find the correct evidence and prove NA behind the mask behaviour. Once AASTHA without any hesitation went and said about ADITI and was told prove by evidence as believe and believing all in belief is different. If so AASTHA sidelines her scare SHLOK will figure out and AASTHA also can't stay mum in front of SHLOK will be tuff for AASTHA and SHLOK more in care to see AASTHA scare reasons. How AASTHA will try to show the real NA is what we are waging to see...can be giving examples as of jyothi abusive hubby behaviour and pinpointing NA and alerting NA. Or making ANAJLI talk in open where she shuts AASTHA out saying its men and can have rights on wife ..this might be heard by one of the family member, be it SOJAL ,VARAD,or SHLOK himself ..can't say many terms and ways all cvs choice..

And the saying for nice doing doings or save one lying is also taken as common consideration in flow not as sin..the sin is when one lies for, greed, status , self means of making him importance. or to hide bad things of inner himself. When in care and concern comes it can be sidelined when true love seems to see touched.

Nice work JIA you always impress me,.⭐️have to write more but time and space limits..will post some more of mirror pics specifically the three women in the SHAGUN water tub under the moon light requesting hubby safety and later the water they have poured in emotions wasting away their images. Kind making themselves...AASTHA went in one more step and prayed for their long living relationship and love which is growing bloomed now.not only SHLOK well being and alter ASHLOK shown in the mirror SHLOK sliding the false custom of only hubby well wishing by having a glimpse of moon and AASTHA too in the water...
Waseem Ji awesome mirror symbolism in self mirror , plain glass mirror where it's a shadow , and water mirror such as created or washed away..but erasing the previous obstacles or by pouring out yourself. ⭐️👏
What a symbology is, your blind belief of only hubby well being and you washing away SHLOK way of seeing them says together we see each other in our well being..

Will see to catch more as time permits..dear..will PM all pics.
Edited by Prasai - 11 years ago

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