why is CVS making astha shameless ?????update

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bingyy

@bingyy

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: abhi_guru

Again to your point that he was going to tell her about Swathi in the temple, I have not even one ounce of belief that he would have told her all the truth. He had planned that marriage in the temple in the first place. Astha at that time did not know of his intentions, so she was right in believing him and saying she did not need to know about Swathi. If the topic was really closed for Shlok, why is he still affected by her so much? Swathi is on his mind even now, so as Bingy points out, Astha is not wrong in wanting to know about why Swathi and Shlok broke up.
He got angry for catching Astha reading his diary, that is justifiable, but his allegations and physical tormenting are not.

bang on post ,u r spot on the point ,thanks for posting buddy ,yeah shloke would have never told astha at the mandir marriage ,thats for sure

if he wants astha to not dwell in his past ,its him who is doing this even after marriage ,which wife wont then want to know ???

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bingyy

@bingyy

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Neelum.drashti

🤗...true, he probably won't have told her truth..lets see after all this if aastha will find out the truth.

buddy i m really tired now seeing shloke's miserable acts towards astha

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bingyy

@bingyy

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: hi50
Great Post Buddy!!!
I agree with you...!!👍🏼

For me, Shlok is right that she should not have read his diary at all.. To me his madness is totally justified... I don't have any doubt that he loves her..but at this point he is so right...!!

And for Aastha, as I said long back, I can repeat... RIP ...
Being a woman I felt so low when I see her lovelorn face... someone with ZERO SELF-RESPECT...!! 😡

I don't know what's in CVs mind..!!
But for me, I feel no sympathy for her as this is her choice...
First of all, she should have respected Shlok's privacy...!! She is no mother India who is here (for one more month???) to remove Shlok's pain...😡
And if she is so insistent to read his diary, why can't she go out with it to read it? So she is someone with occasional brain..!!😕

buddy i dont agree that astha should not have read the diary ,since she is MAHAAN HEROINE😆 ,after V day she tried to cure shloke ,as he was kept mentioning swati ,so she had to know about swati & diary was only way ,since she wanted to do social service of curing shloke😆

but it looks like her social service is backfiring 😆😆 ,i think NA brought this aditi girl to show astha's place in shloke life & THAT IS A DOORMAT place & that swati is irreplaceable ,i mean shloke only loves swati

u think shloke loves astha 😲? buddy the sucking blood thingy was a humanity since he was the one hurt her by throwing things ,he even saved aditi other night ,shloke does not love astha ,not yet according to me

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bingyy

@bingyy

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

NEELUM KNOWING HIS PAST WHICH IS TORMENTING HIM AND HE BEHAVES IRRATIONALLY . ANYONE WILL BE CURIOUS TO KNOW ABOUT THE GIRL , HER HUSBAND IS SO OBSESSED . WHY NOT SHE KNOW ABOUT HIS PAST . DIRECTLY HE GETS ANGRY IF SHE ASKS . BUT THIS ASTHA MADAM IS REALLY GREAT . WHERE IS THE NEED TO READ IT IN THE OPEN WHEN IT HAS MUSIC . WHY NOT TO CLOSE THE DOOR . YES ANYONE WILL BE ANGRY IF YOU ARE INVADING HIS PRIVACY . SO HERE CURIOSITY KILLED THE CAT . DOES SHE HAVE LITTLE COMMON SENSE? AND AGAIN BLAMING HERSELF FOR SHALOK,S TREATING HER LIKE DIRT . POOR GIRL JUST LOOK AT HIM WITH HER HEART IN HER EYES . .DESTROYING THE ASTHA,S CHARACTER .

tell me about it Neerja ,any girl would have wanted to know about whom his husband is obsessed about

astha's character is ruined atleast for me ,for shloke i feel more or less disgust bcoz he married an innocent girl to ruin her whole life for his sadistic pleasure & now gets his entertainment by tormenting her ,chiii

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NidhaA

@NidhaA

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Bings ,

We have established the fact that Astha ' s self respect is long since gone into hibernation. She has no spine whatsoever to react anymore and by the looks of it no brains as well.

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bingyy

@bingyy

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: CavingIn
Bings ,
We have established the fact that Astha ' s self respect is long since gone into hibernation. She has no spine whatsoever to react anymore and by the looks of it no brains as well.

thank u for posting buddy 😎

i was waiting about ur POV
i was stunned at shloke's accusation that astha is trying to read what shloke used to like in swati & copy it to get close to him physically & be a part of his life ,these were his exact words

& then astha's love lorn look with the stupid background music ,
iss dil ko kya karuu ?????? what the 🤬
iss pyaar ko kya naam doon ???

she is brainless & doormat ,she is proving to shloke he is right that she is afterall despo

i then read neha's article that aditi is not going to separate them ,then what ????

the character aditi is here to make astha feel possessive & jealous over shloke so that she realise she is in love with shloke EK BAAR PHIR ????

or shloke will realize that all women r not swati ,swati used to make shlok eat from her hands & shloke will now realize that there is woman like astha who is total doormat type who wont leave him even his whole family kick her butt ????so he will get that all women r not same ???? is that the intention ???? i mean then 🤬 to cvs ,seriously

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ankita sharma

@Ankita__S

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#27

I really want astha to slap shlok at that time how can he think so low of astha...

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sonia

@lachii

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#28

You know after reading your post I am wondering y I didn't feel bad abt that scene, now I'll have to watch again. May b I, like aastha have become used to shlok's high handedness. The scene was a replica of saputara. He had asked her the same kinda questions at that time.

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aunt Blue

@bluejalpari

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: lachii
You know after reading your post I am wondering y I didn't feel bad abt that scene, now I'll have to watch again. May b I, like aastha have become used to shlok's high handedness. The scene was a replica of saputara. He had asked her the same kinda questions at that time.

Exactly..binggy buddy..I understand how you feel and I know that your thinking Astha should have slapped him etc...and how she is taking it etc..
But trust me...the scene was a exact playout of the saputara scene...Astha Shlok's first meeting itself started like this where Shlok asks these things to Astha. At that time, Astha calld him Battameez and Rakshas, that time her self respect reacted.
But today she did not ,because it was wrong to read his personal diary that too about his ex without his permission. ..anybody will think that she is reading it to use it against him.Esp since things are happening. AStha never in so many days told Shlok that she has the dairy. Astha also reads how much of a romantic and loving guy he was
The biggest thing shlok was telling her indirectly that the diary does not mean a thing to him he wanted to discard it and he made AStha do it...he doesnt give a second glance to the diary...he does not have any feelings while burning it.
He does not want Astha to dwell on his and Swati's past...actually ever since she opened the diary he has constantly remembered Swati. He has moved on from Swati and does not want Astha to dwell on it..he wants him and Astha to create a relationship based on today's realities , not on how he used to be in the past. But he does not want to say that to Astha because he has his NA related reasons.He does not want anyone to use that diary against him. In fact he may also have realized she would be hurting so much to read that he loved Swati so much.
His reaction to her wound does say he knows when she is in pain.
100% agree his behavior with Astha was very bad...but this was not worse than Saputara where AStha was not even his wife! Now Astha is really his wife.

By the time they show why Shlok is like this, they will also show why AStha tolerated it.

Also the "bimari control to kee jaasakti hai" by Astha was a big thing today. So there are more things happening in the background.

My POV..this was better than yelling

Edited by bluejalpari - 11 years ago

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bingyy

@bingyy

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: bluejalpari

Exactly..binggy buddy..I understand how you feel and I know that your thinking Astha should have slapped him etc...and how she is taking it etc..
But trust me...the scene was a exact playout of the saputara scene...Astha Shlok's first meeting itself started like this where Shlok asks these things to Astha. At that time, Astha calld him Battameez and Rakshas, that time her self respect reacted.
But today she did not ,because it was wrong to read his personal diary that too about his ex without his permission. ..anybody will think that she is reading it to use it against him.Esp since things are happening. AStha never in so many days told Shlok that she has the dairy. Astha also reads how much of a romantic and loving guy he was
The biggest thing shlok was telling her indirectly that the diary does not mean a thing to him he wanted to discard it and he made AStha do it...he doesnt give a second glance to the diary...he does not have any feelings while burning it.
He does not want Astha to dwell on his and Swati's past...actually ever since she opened the diary he has constantly remembered Swati. He has moved on from Swati and does not want Astha to dwell on it..he wants him and Astha to create a relationship based on today's realities , not on how he used to be in the past. But he does not want to say that to Astha because he has his NA related reasons.He does not want anyone to use that diary against him. In fact he may also have realized she would be hurting so much to read that he loved Swati so much.
His reaction to her wound does say he knows when she is in pain.
100% agree his behavior with Astha was very bad...but this was not worse than Saputara where AStha was not even his wife! Now Astha is really his wife.

By the time they show why Shlok is like this, they will also show why AStha tolerated it.

Also the "bimari control to kee jaasakti hai" by Astha was a big thing today. So there are more things happening in the background.

My POV..this was better than yelling

jalpari ,thanks for posting as i always enjoy reading ur analysis ,i agree many of ur points & also disagree to some ,
ok lets see shloke wants to move on but did he do any attempt other than letting his memory thingy with swati went away ,did he try any way to move forward his relation with astha ???nope ,he did not ,his relation with astha is same ,he did not show her any love ,did not give her any wifey rights ,still they r separate ,tomorrow there will another scene where he threw the plate away ,so whats new about his relation with astha if he really wanted to move on ????
overall he said that she is using his past to copy things to get close to him & want to part of his life & that no one can be in his heart or life ,those were his words ,

now for woman whose husband is dwelling on his past since V day ,continuosly kept mumbling his ex's name ,she found out that shloke is obsessed with his ex ,would not any wife in her place want to know about his past ???? bcoz he himself did not want to let go of his past ,he kept his memory thingies locked in a room ,so why wont any wife want to know when they r married for atleast long time (6 months or so since marriage ) ???

husband wife relationship needs clarity & trust & every husband wife have rights to know about their spouse's past specially if it affects them so badly in their marriage life

shloke's past was & still is affecting their marriage bcoz shloke never let that go away ,astha wanted to know bcoz she wanted to help him move on but yes ,that plan of hers backfired bcoz of aditi's entry ,shloke never told her nor did anybody ,so diary was only option left for her ,if shloke would wanted to tell her ,he would have told her by now since so much has happened

u r right he wanted to burnt that diary but he thats bcoz did not & still does not want astha to know about his past ,do astha as a wife doesnt have a right to know about her husband's ex which affects him so badly that they dont have a normal married couple relationship ???? i disagree to the part that diary does not affect him bcoz it was shown couple of episodes back that when he was sick astha opened the diary ,he started panic or he used to get tormented while sleep when astha used to open it & when anjali burnt those things his sleep get affected so much so that he woke up ,so deep down he has this emotional connections ,even if all the things get burnt he has swati in his heart (love ,hate or obsession ) still yet ,thats why every little thing affects him so bad ,like sindoor ,bangles etc etc ,if he was so unaffected he would not bother about these things ,right ?

about astha's self respect i have nothing to say ,since its nothing new ,after the marriage or should i say after falling in love with shloke during fake love drama even before marriage her self respect kind of started decreasing ,now there is NONE ,nada ,thats why even before marriage she tolerated her parents & her insults time to time by anjali & other ways

the similarity between saputara scene & today was that when shloke behaved that way he remembered swati through astha's bangles & her calling rakshas & astha's calling shloke close relative
today also when he told her this ,its bcoz astha reading the diary where he wrote that swati was angel ,he wanted her forever ,blah blah blah ,so he thinks astha is trying to copy from the diary to get close to shlok physically ,somehow physically get close to him means swati , following swati's everything means a way to get close to him intimately thats what he thinks ,thats why he accuses astha & told her none can take place in his heart or life that way

if he would have let his past go ,astha would not have slept every night on the floor anymore ,so he still did not move on from his past ,bcoz like i said he has this image that swati is a link for him (he thinks ) to get close physically ,i mean swati= physically close ,thats what he meant ,following her means a try to get close ,how can i say more elaborately ,i m bad at explaining 😆 ,anyway that is not a married husband can say specially to a wife & if he says so , a wife should run immediately 😆

about shloke 's agenda or his doubt about NA or wanting to find these things involving NA ,i cannot comment bcoz so far shlok showed only worshiping of him ,it never shown that way that he doubts NA or anything that sort of ,or even any hints of that ,so i still dont think he doubts NA ,since he still didnt doubt abhay about avdhoot thingy even when there was proof ,even without the diary everything is going against them ,like aditi ,so why would he think that diary can be used against him ???it will clear astha about his past but it cannot be used against ,aditi is doing her job without diary 😆😆 perfectly ,she even know the music tune

about astha's pain ,i guess he should know more about his past ,its him who is giving her pain all the time by treating her like trash ,ruining her life ,revenge thingy ,not giving her any rights etc ,does not he know who is giving her pain

astha is emotionally strong person who would have not bother about his past ,thats why she dodged that matter during mandir marriage ,its more about his past ,he is giving her pain ,does shloke not know that ????he knows that

Edited by bingyy - 11 years ago

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