Trials Of Fire!! IPKKND3 Untold Saga of Advay Chandni Chp16 to 18 - Page 32

Originally posted by: saxena_hgt

Hi neha... Really sry yaar u came up with such amazing updates & i read it but life is so busy rt now that i don't see any relief in near future.. rt now just finished shifting in new house.. now d hell begans.. unboxing than getting settled.. all this with an infant.. & holi too round d corner.. for which i have to go to my sasural.. so in short my life has become such that only entertainment is yours & chitra's stories.. sometimes i do think what if i met u all 1 yr bk? Trust me than i would have been on every one of your threads.. but nevermind here i m with whatever time i do get..

Hi Prachi! Very glad to read comment from you... Pls yaar! Dosti hai toh Srry thnkyou allowed nahi...Salaman Bhai ne sikhaya na😃

Congrats on your new home... I can very much understand your feelings about how it can be though my experience was quite different as a working professional... Your little fairy must be enjoying the mess like mad! And yup, Sasural toh mujara/Salaam karake aana hi padata hai! Can completely empathise with that! "Shadi ka laddoo... why called as khaaye toh bhi pachtaaye" known to us through such experiences😆

1st of all i really loved how u bring up mutual respect between partners.. it is very essential part of any relationship.. its necessary to not only respect each other as person but also in front of others be it family members too.. coz if u r not giving respect to your partner & relationship than how can one expect others will do so? Think it in reverse way if chandani & shikha started yelling on advay & miku like that than what respect they would have in front of their family.. agreed they r major arguments & disagreement but they should b done within closed doors..

Absolutely right! And that's why As an author I had to bring in these internal conflicts in the story... as now AdNi and VeeKha are both pairs in agreed love... and external drama factor Indrani is in jail as of now...

Actually, in real life, these internal conflicts are main source of drama in marriage than any external factors...isn't it?

I also liked how u have Incorporated shikha's issue.. she does have to do some more maturing to do.. i m excited to see this whole process plus veer & shikha wedding..

Yup! Veer Shikha Marriage , Shikha getting into the molds of mahantani following age old orthodox procedures will be interesting to watch. Story will move to Allahabad location in near future and that part will come through.

Whole day planned by advay was too Good.. it makes chandani to face her fears & fight them.. but for me icing on cake was d discussion about advay's past.. oh how i loved it.. mind u i m eager for more detailing in nxt part..

Yup , Detailing of past will come further in next immediate discussion by Advay requesting Chandni for a patient hearing.

Any suggestions/ expectations from your side, if there, please do share and I shall incorporate those in next chapter😊

but i want to comment on chandani's reaction.. u know whenever my hubby & i have a tiff v behave in same manner as chandani.. & v think this is better.. let me tell why.. as d hindi saying goes.tarkash se nikla teer aur zubaan se nikle shabd kabhi wapas nahi ho sakte.. so it is much better to b slient for some time than to say any hurtful thing in a moment of rage.. when v both cool down v discuss.. so for me chandani's reaction was okay..

That's absolutely right! Anything said hurtfully, can stay for lifelong... Your saying is so very true and I would add further ki "teer jahaanse nikala vahaa koi nishaan nahi par jaha jaake lagaa vahaa nishaan kabhi mitata nahi". The person saying may forget but the person hearing such hurtful things will remember it lifelong.

Yet, Chandni's ways are not correct in totality in context of suddenly turning into Ice... it's just her ways her character ... but in coming chapter, Advay will explain how it troubles him when she shuts off... the objective of keeping silence is to not hurt the person in front... than making him hurt all the more and get a feeling of rejection... That part Advay is going to explain.

& seriously who would take such playboy type of past of their partner cooly? Be it wife or husband, this has to affect irrespective of gender.. i m surprised advay thought chandani would b okay in a jiffy.. i mean knowing something is different than getting it confirmed as fact. & To think he was about to marry one of them.. not pleasent at all as a wife.. we need to understand if as per advay's upbringing & surrounding this is normal than as per chandani's it is not.. if advay is not being judged on that than nor should b chandani...

Yup! Advay is typically 'men from Mars' kind of mindset where he does not understand Chandni's(woman from venus😛) dilemma in accepting this truth...He believes his being honest about it is more important and because past cannot be changed, Chandni should just accept it... the part will get discussed now.

With my reply i m making it clear neha that u r very much on rt path.. with everything be it your words, plots, length, characterization or pics.. i alwayz look forward to nxt one.. bas samay ka bahut aabhav hai.. isiliye likhne ka time bahut kam milta hai.. hopefully by march i can get more time.. cheers..

Thanks for your appreciation! Wishing you a comfortable settling and lots of happiness in this new home.

And now in regards with your further comments which I read through... In my calendar Kalnirnay almanac, Maha shivraatri is given as 13th... Now I'm confused exactly when should I follow it?😃 Anyway Bhagwaan ko sab din samaan😆... kissi ek din kar loongi!😉...

Happy MahaS hivraatri to you!