Rant: Is Ranbir low-key toxic?

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Posted: 8 months ago
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I've been a fan of FK since watching him in Imlie and was excited when I heard of his new show on Star Plus.

However, his character on the show, Ranbir, has been quite disappointing. For someone established as a mature and successful guy, Ranbir is shown to be quite confused, petty, and insecure.

Firstly - there's the initial misunderstanding of both families thinking he likes Adrija. IMO, the fault lies solely at Ranbir's feet. He never expressed clearly to anyone, including Meghla herself, who he likes, and then has the audacity to be outraged that no one understood his intentions. For God's sake, there were two unmarried girls in the Sen household, of course his family assumed he liked the elder daughter. Why couldn't he just have uttered Meghla's name once in front of his family - it's not that hard! The whole time it looked like he was being annoyingly mysterious about the girl he liked just to enjoy the attention he was getting from his family - because it's such a big deal that he likes someone.

Secondly, his whole attitude change after learning that Meghla has agreed to marry someone else (even though it's a lie). For someone who claims to be madly in love with that girl, he was quite eager to humiliate her in public and call her 'two-faced' and whatnot - all due to a couple of missed calls. I mean, what's with the guy's ego. They were just missed calls! If it was annoying him so much, he could have blocked her number or just called her back to give her a piece of his mind (which I believe is how it happened in the original, IIRC). And then after doing all this, the very next day, he goes: "Meghla, you can call me anytime. I would never stop you from calling me." Then why the hell were you mad that she did? Make up your mind, bro!

Also, this was a minor detail, but after this public dressing down of Meghla, when a simpering Adrija tries to pacify him, he asks her not to interfere coz "Ye uske and Meghla k beech k baat hain". Agar beech ki baat hain toh beech mein hi rakhna tha na. Sabke saamne tamaasha kyun banaaya!

Then there's his insistence that Meghla has 'humiliated' him and his precious feelings by not telling him about the other guy. Dude, you've met her like 4-5 times. She wasn't in a relationship with you. She doesn't owe you anything. In one of the recent episodes, he fought with her just because she refused his invitation to drop her home, which he found 'insulting'. Like, what an entitled jerk! He was acting like those men who expect their wife's family to treat them like Gods. Even in today's precap, he repeats the same 'you have insulted me by refusing to let me drop you home' mantra-jaap. I don't know whether there's a different context this time around, but I still find it unreasonable on his part to force his proximity on a girl who he thinks doesn't reciprocate his feelings. Seems very toxic behaviour, on the whole.

If the makers thought they would excite audiences with this jealousy track, they are going about it the wrong way and butchered Ranbir's character in the process. I've tried really hard to connect with this show but I'm finding it hard coz I'm unable to fall in love with his character (which is usually my main reason for watching any ITV show), and consequently ship Ranbir-Meghla as a couple. I feel like it's important to flesh out the main characters properly, especially in the early stages of a soap, if they want to set the foundation for a good story and establish a fan base. I don't think I'm asking too much. I mean, jealousy can be portrayed in non-toxic ways too - but I guess ITV just isn't there yet.

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Posted: 8 months ago
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articulated very well......all of us viewers share the same opinion
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Posted: 8 months ago
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Very well written. Impulsive jerk. He is a stalker. And manners lavel zero. Lately I am disliking this character to core ......I don't want Meghla to marry that ****smiley7

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Posted: 8 months ago
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actually both Meghla and ranbir's characters are shown to be very flawed. There is a fine line between naive and plain dumb!....Meghla has crossed over!!!.......at least for her there is a reason for being this way.....she has suffered through years of mental abuse from mom and sis.......she needs intensive therapy to come out of this state!!.....she found some peace in music and one good friend,philosopher and guide in guruji....but that alone is not enough........she needs to become her own person and come out from the shadows of the abusive Sen family and only after that contemplate marriage!!...........and as for Ranbir He has seen his father treat his mom badly all through his formative years.......and his mom still stays in the house,performing all duties!!........she has normalized this for him........he has gone out ,studied better and selected a different career from his family business.....but instead of humbling him this has boosted his ego.......Great career,family money,respect in society,accolades at job .......girls going Gaga over him.....all this has further made his hot head full of airs!!........that's y when Meghla said no to him.....he lost his mind completely!!.......he cannot fathom defeat, never having faced rejection b4......he is unable to process it/stomach it.......he does not have the patience required to deal with someone like Meghla........ These 2 really have an ill-fated love story......
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Posted: 8 months ago
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In every Star plus drama there was story 2 sisters n one guy yrkkh, so called maa show, maati se, n this show.

Honestly fed up for this sis drama achi sis bhi hoti Hain toxic n pagal alongside sister ke but no every sister turn evil when she fall in love smiley11N

This Ranbir he really idiot.yestarday he love Meghla when he know she engag he ready to marry her sister all Love gone now again when he know all drama again he love Meghla.

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Posted: 8 months ago
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Originally posted by: name2saakshi

In every Star plus drama there was story 2 sisters n one guy yrkkh, so called maa show, maati se, n this show.

Honestly fed up for this sis drama achi sis bhi hoti Hain toxic n pagal alongside sister ke but no every sister turn evil when she fall in love smiley11N

This Ranbir he really idiot.yestarday he love Meghla when he know she engag he ready to marry her sister all Love gone now again when he know all drama again he love Meghla.

Exactly! - if he really liked (if not loved) megla, why didn't he seek any clarification from meghla, her parents or guruji regarding meghla's relationship with nri ???

Or even that guy - ankush - he was there. If Ranbir walked to him and congratulated him for engagement - he would clarify misunderstanding, there only!

But NO, this ranbir ego is larger than his father... and another cartoon - his father is totally traxxsmiley7

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Posted: 8 months ago
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Even today episode when he come to talk Meghla y he so confident that came with me alone then wesmiley6 talk

Adrija se talk karta y u lie all time I don't marry with you.

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I want to know that what you think 🤔 about Ranbir character? I feel he doesn't know how to talk N when to talk. Meghla se baat karni hai but...

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