Shivaay and his words

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why are Shivaay's words always a lie? He always talks about how he'll never let tears come to Anika's eyes and that he'll always keep her happy. But as soon as the going gets tough this proves to be a lie and he is willing to make her unhappy and hurt her. He talks about how he'll never leave Anika and that she'll never feel alone again in her life. Yet as soon as someone blackmails him he leaves her and tells her to get out of the house and brings another girl into the house in her place and makes her feel alone. He talks about how many girls want him and when Anika gets insecure he assures her that it's her he's marrying like that protects her from everything and that somehow secures her place in his life yet after marriage he brings another girl into the house in her place and refuses to acknowledge her.

It's funny because as soon as it comes to his family it's like she's discardable and she's never ever number one. For a girl who's never had a home, she's always on the verge of losing the one she's found whereas Pinky who's done so many things is always secure and safe knowing that she'll always be part of the family and no one will ever discard her. Even when Anika did what she did during the last Shivika separation, she thought she was doing it for Shivaay and his happiness whereas here Anika and her happiness doesn't really matter. She's once again insulted and made to feel discarded and unhappy after she's been promised the world. After he's basically promised that he'll always be honest with her and that they're a team, he goes back on it and excludes her from everything.

Why must she always fight to get to him? Why must she have to push him to take mercy on her and tell her the truth? Surely her happiness should matter to the man who claims that he can't see her unhappy. Why is her happiness and self respect always discardable for the sake of his family? Why must she have to always fight for that? It seems like they've really not learnt anything and that when the going gets tough they're still separate.

What's worse is that he knows that she'll fight for his family so whats the point of hurting her and not telling her?

I'm sure the Shivaay thinks that even if Anika leaves or is angry or whatever that once he solves the problem with his family that he can get her back or whatever and that Anika will be on stand by waiting for him and putting up with anything and what's worse is that it's true.

Once again we're going to see Anika putting up with Shivaay giving another girl her place and Anika pulling silly stunts on her and pushing Shivaay to accept her until he cracks and tells her. You'd think after the previous track, Shivaay would know how much it hurts to watch the person you love with someone else and that he'd at least spare her from that. Anyone can blackmail him to doing anything it seems. Next she'll be blackmailing him to share a room with him and he'll probably do it for his family. It sucks that Anika always has to suffer for the Oberoi family. What's worse is that Shivaay's seen that no one fights harder for his family than Anika so he should tell her. It's not like she wouldn't support him or help him. He'd need her help eventually anyway since she solves most of their family troubles so why make her suffer first and make her leap through hurdles to learn the truth?

Btw I haven't watched the recent eps yet. This is just based on updates and stuff.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I would completely agree with you but we don't know exactly what happened in 15 days and why Shivaay had to stay away for so long. Perhaps, he did it in order to protect Annika as whoever is blackmailing him is potentially dangerous. They hit him with a car after all. If the Cvs don't give any justification for his behavior, then I'll bash him with you but we don't exactly know his POV yet.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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As said above already, We don't know what exactly happened.
Apart From that,

Its more to do with how a person actually is.
Sometimes even many situations are not enough for a person to completely change what he has been so far in his life.

And Shivaay is one character that's etched like stone, to mould will be hard and will take time. Hence every time things go back to normal, he goes back to being himself. The original shade with slight variation not much though.

Now its Anika's pain that will make him realise he needs to also mend his way of working not just his thoughts...beliefs etc.

Its a journey.
One century made by hard struggle in a match doesnt guarantee a century in the coming match to be easier!

Also, Shivaay still very much continues to be the Great Wall whatsoever, he might say to her he will let her face the challenges with him but his heart still doesnt allow that, he feels the need to protect her rather than protect along woith her.

Still Anika's journey to being the wall with him Baaki Hai:)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: annikaa

As said above already, We don't know what exactly happened.

Apart From that,

Its more to do with how a person actually is.
Sometimes even many situations are not enough for a person to completely change what he has been so far in his life.

And Shivaay is one character that's etched like stone, to mould will be hard and will take time. Hence every time things go back to normal, he goes back to being himself. The original shade with slight variation not much though.

Now its Anika's pain that will make him realise he needs to also mend his way of working not just his thoughts...beliefs etc.

Its a journey.
One century made by hard struggle in a match doesnt guarantee a century in the coming match to be easier!

Also, Shivaay still very much continues to be the Great Wall whatsoever, he might say to her he will let her face the challenges with him but his heart still doesnt allow that, he feels the need to protect her rather than protect along woith her.

Still Anika's journey to being the wall with him Baaki Hai:)


As per segment we already know that he was blackmailed with factory burn video so It has nothing to do with annika safety or anything. They have been through so much journey together and after cruel separation, in reunion they promised to not hide anything. They vows, specially him to fix all raita with her so he shouldn't need push from her to tell the truth or to take her in confidence.
I mean,looking at precap she is so terrified/hurt which could have been avoided and he should have told her without any push from her as per me.
I agree he was great wall - a protector so does annika. She has been with him like solid rock during Tia/Kameeni. In all problems she does as he says, she just needs to be in his confidence thats it. So according to me he should have found a way to tell her even before she forced him to tell her.
Tomorrow she will force/push him then he will tell her eventually so why couldn't he tell before that? Didn't he understood how much it is hurting her knowing that her husband isn't recognising her?

if annika wouldn't have question him that why is he faking and would have told him that fine if you don't remember so even if annika was hurting in this process, he would have kept doing the things asked by tanya as in keep tanya in his room, hold her hand in front annika etc etc and till he would have got to the evidence he wouldn't have told annika how much ever it was hurting her, why is so?
Whats the meaning of vows/promises of keeping her happy or not hiding anything from each other?

PS: This is my genuine doubt that did he really have told her if she wouldn't push him to say that he is acting or he would have kept going with act even though annika was getting hurt in process?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_nonu


As per segment we already know that he was blackmailed with factory burn video so It has nothing to do with annika safety or anything. They have been through so much journey together and after cruel separation, in reunion they promised to not hide anything. They vows, specially him to fix all raita with her so he shouldn't need push from her to tell the truth or to take her in confidence.
I mean,looking at precap she is so terrified/hurt which could have been avoided and he should have told her without any push from her as per me.
I agree he was great wall - a protector so does annika. She has been with him like solid rock during Tia/Kameeni. In all problems she does as he says, she just needs to be in his confidence thats it. So according to me he should have found a way to tell her even before she forced him to tell her.
Tomorrow she will force/push him then he will tell her eventually so why couldn't he tell before that? Didn't he understood how much it is hurting her knowing that her husband isn't recognising her?

if annika wouldn't have question him that why is he faking and would have told him that fine if you don't remember so even if annika was hurting in this process, he would have kept doing the things asked by tanya as in keep tanya in his room, hold her hand in front annika etc etc and till he would have got to the evidence he wouldn't have told annika how much ever it was hurting her, why is so?
Whats the meaning of vows/promises of keeping her happy or not hiding anything from each other?

PS: This is my genuine doubt that did he really have told her if she wouldn't push him to say that he is acting or he would have kept going with act even though annika was getting hurt in process?

You know Angy, after reading you I feel Shivay ko farak hi nahi padta Anika hurt ho ya nahi, he doesn't even flinch at her hurt but he can see and suggest his brothers n every other member of family in their tough time. Bhagwan bachaye meko, koe Shivay jaisa na mile! 🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shivay's words are all empty and lie, Can't believe the guy few days back promised to treasure Her always, stand by her always, respect her always doing the opposite just in 15 days interval. And by segments we all know, NOT to save her(Anika) anyway but to safeguard some old raaz of his family! They say show's name is ishqbaaz and it is a journey ML's becoming ishqbaaz ... Ha, ha, ha! What a joke!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: preity_d

Shivay's words are all empty and lie, Can't believe the guy few days back promised to treasure Her always, stand by her always, respect her always doing the opposite just in 15 days interval. And by segments we all know, NOT to save her(Anika) anyway but to safeguard some old raaz of his family! They say show's name is ishqbaaz and it is a journey ML's becoming ishqbaaz ... Ha, ha, ha! What a joke!


He is getting affected, I felt this today but I want to know that why couln't he tell her. I would wait for epi to see how he tells that he is acting then jump on conclusion :)
As for not telling just after coming I guess tanya was around him so he can't take risk and he would have done same if tanya would have asked to not recognise someone else.
she asked annika bcoz she had to be near sso so what else than pretending his wife would do her task easy
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Originally posted by: angel_nonu


He is getting affected, I felt this today but I want to know that why couln't he tell her. I would wait for epi to see how he tells that he is acting then jump on conclusion :)
As for not telling just after coming I guess tanya was around him so he can't take risk and he would have done same if tanya would have asked to not recognise someone else.
she asked annika bcoz she had to be near sso so what else than pretending his wife would do her task easy

@Bold Angel no I wouldn't agree with that. Is this the same couple who used to communicate during Mahi/Kammeni track with code words? During Tia track he could stop her w/o saying? He is so determined to say that I have to do something to make her believe its not drama. Why? Tearing their pics, asking her to go out of the room. What happens if Tanya insisted her to throw Annika out of Om..Will he do that too? After all the journey they had its sickening to see that she has to beg o reveal the truth. Now I just want to see why that blackmailer wants Shivaay to forget only Annika and not rest of the family?
@Preity The ultimate Ishqbaaz is Annika (no one else there) for her undying love and trust.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_nonu


He is getting affected, I felt this today but I want to know that why couln't he tell her. I would wait for epi to see how he tells that he is acting then jump on conclusion :)
As for not telling just after coming I guess tanya was around him so he can't take risk and he would have done same if tanya would have asked to not recognise someone else.
she asked annika bcoz she had to be near sso so what else than pretending his wife would do her task easy

I don't really care if he is getting affected or not! damage is done by humiliating the actual wife in front of media! We all know raaz is about Oberois so he again made anika scapegoat, what else do we want to make a conclusion. Tomorrow they will show a guilty shivay n we all forget his unacceptable behaviour? What can be more insulting when a guy says his wife to go out of room because another lady needs rest? Still we forget everything n embrace Shivay as a loving hubby even vouch for him as best pati in next SPA, if show succeeds to stay! What would it look if Anika says someone else is her Pati and refuses Shivay? Ha, ha, wo hoga nahi. But we all be very understanding if Shivay does that, because come on, everyone is not same, Shivay is like that. We should accept! i get really offended at Anika, she still doesn't feel any humiliation. If she was real, then people would have questioned her when she was out, "Suna hain, tumhari pati kisi dusri ladki ko biwi banake leke aayi?" ... Oh ho these all are funny, why care? We should laugh! 😆 👏
Sorry dear, for ranting on your comment. No intention to make u feel bad!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Santhi_40

@Bold Angel no I wouldn't agree with that. Is this the same couple who used to communicate during Mahi/Kammeni track with code words? During Tia track he could stop her w/o saying? He is so determined to say that I have to do something to make her believe its not drama. Why? Tearing their pics, asking her to go out of the room. What happens if Tanya insisted her to throw Annika out of Om..Will he do that too? After all the journey they had its sickening to see that she has to beg o reveal the truth. Now I just want to see why that blackmailer wants Shivaay to forget only Annika and not rest of the family?

@Preity The ultimate Ishqbaaz is Annika (no one else there) for her undying love and trust.


Wo to hoga hi dear, Writer sahiba chahti hain unke hero ko sab zarroorat se zyada praay kare, but heroine ke upar writer sahiba ki kya fantasy, so let her be a doormat!

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