Originally posted by: LoveToWrite
I don't think we have interacted earlier. Harshada here. I generally try to stay out of 'Shivaay' vs 'Anika' threads because it somehow always ends up with indirect bashing/mocking [sometimes even direct as well] But since now, today when I read your post... I do have some time to type a few words and here am I, doing the same.
Okay let me just say something about your title of the post...
Bitterness for Shivaay - Somewhat yes.
Bitterness for his fans - A big NO. Why would anyone have that?🤔
Coming to the point - why bitterness towards Shivaay? I find that a bit deep to explain because everyone has their point of views, ways and perceptions like how they think and analyse of a situation, character or say person which vary from person to person. So if I am finding something wrong with his doings or behavior, it needs not to be true or like everyone else should feel the same. No, right? Ah, I am not sure what favor you are talking about here but if it refers to sympathy or support then I just feel, its because many people can relate with her. I mean if we imagine a real life scenario, I guess it would be a little hard to believe that a girl to be with a guy, who threatened her loved one's life, forced her to marry her, called her characterless, bazaroo, 'too mehangi for middle class' and stuff like that.
Who denies that he did not care for her? Of course did/does [I am not sure about present though] I still haven't forgotten he had visited her house on a phone call where she hadn't said anything. He wouldn't have if he did not care. But then again, I am yet to forget that he let his anger and impulse emotions overpower his love for her, and that too to the extent where he could not realize the small steps she took to execute her plan for the separation, where he could not see those unshed tears in her eyes, where he could not hear that hidden hurt in her voice, where he could not see beyond the sham she created that time.
Who says he did not trust her? He of course did, but he trusted her actions and not what, he had understood about her. That was disappointing.
Who says he didnt/doesnt have feelings for her? Of course he did/does. If not then, she and her actions [ count jealousy, engagement frustration and all] wouldn't have affected him. But the fact that he had given importance to his ego/hurt/pain a little more than his love for her, which hadn't allowed him to realize that she had always loved him and can never think of anyone else in place of him makes me feel somewhat bad.
Why Anika has been sympathized for breaking his heart' ? Because, probably , she did that everything for his sake! Breaking him had broken her as well but she had chosen to live with those broken pieces, so as to avoid truth knocking his door because she did not want the beliefs his life stood upon, to shatter.
Why can't/isn't Shivaay sympathized ? Because whatever he had done, she wasn't the reason for which he did it. She wasn't whom, for which he pulled on forced marriage stunt. It was not her.
The fact that she had hurt him because him isn't applicable to him as he had hurt her for sake of his family, his MU sometimes and the rest. So most probably, because of it!
Shivaay is blamed for asking truth? *Raises hand* He should be blamed... not exactly for asking truth, but for making her marry someone else for sake of getting to know it from her.
She did tell him the truth but he doesn't remember. Why should she tell him something, he did not even care about three months before and doing now, when senses have been knocked in his mind - that there is something because of which she did, what she did. I mean really? His brothers are telling him this. May be I was expecting a little too much but I of course expected him to realize it on his own. It would have been okay if he did it, after three months or say even four months - but he thinks on other's words and does not, on the way she had flipped that night? That is again,
Again, one important thing - I believe neither Shivaay nor Anika is supposed to blame but the writer😆
Yet another thing - it is absolutely not worth holding anything against anyone's fans because its a personal choice whom you appreciate and lets not forget they are fictional characters and we are real. 😆 Do criticize whatever you don't find right [even in the characters you ship of course]. Thats what we are here for, aren't we?😆
Do fight, if that is your good friends you are interacting with 🤣but please do not pass rude comments to/about each other.
That was my perspective.
Peace and Love
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And a few words turned out as a long post which I realized after posting. Sorry for the same😆
PS: Did I mention, it was Shivaay because of whom I had started watching IB😉
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