Gauri's outburst - Page 2

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

Ok one doubt. Why does everyone assume that Gauri is in love with On? I felt that she loves him like in an arranged marriage situation. I still don't think she is in Ishq Wala love stage😕

Really complicated characters, both of them!

Originally posted by: alinaza

I think those fans that are bashing Gauri maybe 1) are frustrated, no one should scold our Zulfi Singh Oberoi - not his wife or his mother or his brother lol and/or 2) haven't seen DBO - all 105 episodes.

Gauri has had just as hard a time with OSO as Anika did with SSO. While Anika was more outspoken and independent and gave the tadibaaz back to Shivaay, Gauri has never had that opportunity and has always back unequal in her relationship with OSO - she's from a village, limited education, mentality of "pati parmeshwar hai" and to top it off Om saved her life.

As much as I adore Omkie, he has insulted Gauri (i.e. loose morals, bad character, gold-digger), never believed her (about Kaali thakur, svetlana, bua ma) when she tried to protect him and his family (has been burnt, cut hands, stabbed, drugged), has been thrown (by him) on the ground, out of his room and nearly out of the house (a good few times) and lets not forget almost got slapped by Omkara Singh Oberoi (showing he definitely is the son of Tej Singh Oberoi).

In spite of this, she has never yelled at him, shown him tadibaaz, disgust, fury or nastiness and forgiven him every single time. In Friday's episode, Gauri apologized quickly and intensely - almost like an abuse victim because she's used to Om misunderstanding and lashing out at her.

In my opinion, her outburst at Om is justified but more importantly required for their relationship to grow. She's pacified her heart when he's been nasty to her but she cant handle sweet and kind Omkaraji because Om doesnt love Gauri and his being nice to her hurts her because its not for her, its not because he accepts that she's his wife, its not because he's truly sorry - its because of his guilt that he didnt believe her and was nasty about it. Season 2 Gauri is now taking Omkara off the pedestal and thats exactly how it should be in two partners in a relationship. I love the current slow development of their relationship:). I hope Bareily-wali Dabang Gauri shows Omkie-Shomkie exactly what she's made of. Besides, Zulfi Singh Oberoi needs to be shaken out of complacency and find his static-current Chulbul in Gauri:)