I still cannot understand Anika's decision

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Posted: 8 years ago
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In my opinion she acted rash, and not in the best interest of Shivay, who she professes to love so much and will make the ultimate sacrifice, but:
1. She took the decision to leave Shivay rather than have him broken about his illegitimacy, why did she make that decision for him? He has the right to choose which will hurt him more

2. When he does find out and if indeed Pinky did tell Shivay, he would have needed all his loved ones to help him through this- his brothers, Dadi, Anika...but now without that full support, he is emotionally more vulnerable- especially as now he thinks he was right all along in thinking one's bloodline etc is so important

3. Her leaving him has broken his heart so badly that he has now regressed to the cold businessman that he used to be, all the progress that was made is all gone- he is now a broken man who will not believe in love anymore- and maybe lose the capacity to love

4. This has also affected his health- as he already had a pre-existing condition, this, as seen by Anika could have led and could still lead to serious consequences

Who is Anika to make that choice for Shivay?? If Shivay gets to find out the truth about Pinky's blackmail, he should be equally angry with Anika, as she made a decision FOR him, she took away all control from Shivay...I also believed that she went too far with her verbal diatribe with Shivay...when you love someone that strongly no amount of blackmail could make you say those hurtful things to the one you love...to take one's weakness and twist it like knife in someone is something an enemy does

BUT- what I could not understand was, why did Shivay not suspect that this is not Anika's way? Maybe he will be equally hurt thinking that she should have trusted him and come to him...who knows, but I am not feeling the sympathy most feel for Anika - it was her decision

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Isn't it simple... Shivaay hasn't voiced his feelings for Annika... Whatever they r... They r unspoken n she understands them to an extent but not fully... Till now he has always said his family is his top priority... N whenever angry he always tells her nothing against my family but when pinky keeps blaming Annika he says sorry on his mother's behalf but of late he has nvr told his mom not to speak ill of his wife... He wont tolerate it n she is his family... Annika being his family comes out only when they r alone... So Annika doesn't know how imp she is in his life but very well knows NKK is his foundation... So she made that decision... Im not saying she made the right decision... She may b wrong but that's her reasoning... Also if she was really wrong... OMRu know Shivaay cried when Annika had left and Annika's pain of being an orphan was told to him... They know he loves her... If they also really thot his love for her was stronger than his NKK... Someone wud hv intervened... But none did... Coz everyone believes like she does that his NKK is a bigger threat than Annika leaving
They all r wrong to an extent n right to an extent... The guy who cudnt bear Omkara (for whom NKK doesn't matter) being told that he is illegitimate... Just imagine what wud happen when he gets to know he is illegitimate... Whole his life he has mocked ppl for their lack of NKK... N he himself has such a big daag on his NKK... What wud he go thru... He has been living a lie whole his life...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Do you remember the words Anika said to SSO when he forcefully married her? How he would he feel if someone else made their life decision for him & someone takes away their most precious person?? Well that is what the CVs are trying to teach SSO but in a very very ghissa pita way by the forceful separation & bringing in un-necessary psycho lovers for Shivika 🤢 🤢 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Isn't it simple... Shivaay hasn't voiced his feelings for Annika... Whatever they r... They r unspoken n she understands them to an extent but not fully... Till now he has always said his family is his top priority... N whenever angry he always tells her nothing against my family but when pinky keeps blaming Annika he says sorry on his mother's behalf but of late he has nvr told his mom not to speak ill of his wife... He wont tolerate it n she is his family... Annika being his family comes out only when they r alone... So Annika doesn't know how imp she is in his life but very well knows NKK is his foundation... So she made that decision... Im not saying she made the right decision... She may b wrong but that's her reasoning... Also if she was really wrong... OMRu know Shivaay cried when Annika had left and Annika's pain of being an orphan was told to him... They know he loves her... If they also really thot his love for her was stronger than his NKK... Someone wud hv intervened... But none did... Coz everyone believes like she does that his NKK is a bigger threat than Annika leaving

They all r wrong to an extent n right to an extent... The guy who cudnt bear Omkara (for whom NKK doesn't matter) being told that he is illegitimate... Just imagine what wud happen when he gets to know he is illegitimate... Whole his life he has mocked ppl for their lack of NKK... N he himself has such a big daag on his NKK... What wud he go thru... He has been living a lie whole his life...




But its truth and one day it will come. And he will break again. That time anika may not even be around to support. More than anika i'm surprised Om who claims to value truth did not even raise this point and supported her. Noone said truth will anyway come out one day and that she is taking a wrong decision. Rudra was more sensible!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: OyeNautanki

Do you remember the words Anika said to SSO when he forcefully married her? How he would he feel if someone else made their life decision for him & someone takes away their most precious person?? Well that is what the CVs are trying to teach SSO but in a very very ghissa pita way by the forceful separation & bringing in un-necessary psycho lovers for Shivika 🤢 🤢 🤢



Then they could have made anika say that she was doing natak and she stayed back only to revenge.😆 I would have preferred that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Isn't it simple... Shivaay hasn't voiced his feelings for Annika... Whatever they r... They r unspoken n she understands them to an extent but not fully... Till now he has always said his family is his top priority... N whenever angry he always tells her nothing against my family but when pinky keeps blaming Annika he says sorry on his mother's behalf but of late he has nvr told his mom not to speak ill of his wife... He wont tolerate it n she is his family... Annika being his family comes out only when they r alone... So Annika doesn't know how imp she is in his life but very well knows NKK is his foundation... So she made that decision... Im not saying she made the right decision... She may b wrong but that's her reasoning... Also if she was really wrong... OMRu know Shivaay cried when Annika had left and Annika's pain of being an orphan was told to him... They know he loves her... If they also really thot his love for her was stronger than his NKK... Someone wud hv intervened... But none did... Coz everyone believes like she does that his NKK is a bigger threat than Annika leaving

They all r wrong to an extent n right to an extent... The guy who cudnt bear Omkara (for whom NKK doesn't matter) being told that he is illegitimate... Just imagine what wud happen when he gets to know he is illegitimate... Whole his life he has mocked ppl for their lack of NKK... N he himself has such a big daag on his NKK... What wud he go thru... He has been living a lie whole his life...


Some people just want to put blane on one gauri and that's it.
Totally agree what you said above.

Also the people who are saying all is annika fault then did they not see the episodes after gulgotra. When annika told that she saw pinky with NT then shivaay just yelled at her, mocked her for being orphan in anger. He couldn't hear a word against pinky. Ok she is his mother fine but then he should have acted but the right question Om asked about NT. He knew someone helped NT but then he ignored just bcoz annika took pinky name. Clearly he doesn't act when it comes to his nkk family members. Then in prinku case also he yelled at her bcoz she took pinky name and then in private said sorry. He said he knows that annika didn't do it but then someone did it and was trying to defame anni but he didn't even bother to dig the matter bcoz somewhere he feared about someone from his nkk family being involved. He doesn't want to break his illusion of his perfect nkk family. So both are at fault not only one
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LTLFan



Then they could have made anika say that she was doing natak and she stayed back only to revenge.😆 I would have preferred that.


Whatever annika said everything was truth, although timing wrong but plain truth. Shivaay didn't pay attention to other things what all she said that how she faced hurt in this house, how she wasn't his choice and all. She uttered Oms truth and all shivaay heard, remember was that. His mom had asked for batwara before but when same his wife asked he threw her out. I would have preferred him taking her in room and ask her whats wrong. How come her truth words made him threw her out and he didn't bother to think that something is wrong with her. Well we all will see his reaction to his nkk truth. He was afraid to let Om face this truth when he knows for Om it didn't matter then for him nkk is his own existence. Pinky would have molded the truth and he would have believed pinky over annika and at the end pinky would have thrown anni out. He needs to accept truth about his nkk family that they are imperfect and can do bad things. He would have dig NT and prinku marriage case if he was ready to accept his family truth
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I hv been saying this time and again... Shivaay dint see what Anni was trying to show him for long... Everytime she spoke a truth which was against his family members... Especially his mother he has shut her up... And hasn't ever bothered finding out why she named his mother... N If Annika ko galatfaimi hui hai then reality Kya hai woh usne Kabhi bahar lane ki koshish nahi kiyi... Y? Coz he knows smwhr deep down that his NKK family is at fault but he himself doesn't think he loves Annika enuf to fight against his own NKK family... Pinky Has time n again spoke of batwara and against his brothers... That Time he has nvr yelled at her but annika saying the truth hurt so much coz he too thinks annika is someone who entered his life now . N if her truths will spoilers his ghar ka naksha which had been there for yrs now.. It won't be good... He threw Annika out without even thinking that the middle class girl whose house he had taken fraudulently... Whose tenders he took... How will she survive... She asked for her right as a wife n he denied that too n dragged her out... He dint even think that when he dragged her out she had tears n she dint come back with lawyer or police to stake her claim... She wud hv done that if she really was only interested in his property... Shivaay dint keep even one pinky promise he made to Annika or sahil... At first opportunity of her insulting his family he threw her out... If she used this trick n knew it wud work.. It means she knew she hadn't reached his real trust levels yet... He believed her one day accusation is her real self and not the one who spent months with him...protecting him... For him n his family... Took all insults of tia and her mother n his mother.. Without any words in return...
She did break one pinky promise... Of running away from him... But in scheme of things when u see Shivaay is a bigger culprit... He nvr made her feel that imp... That's y she cud pull of that stun... She knew for sure that he wud fall for it n throw her out... N he did exactly that...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Frankly y does everyone think Annika shud hold Shivaay when he breaks. Was Shivaay there to fight her case when pinky has been torturing her left right n center... Did Shivaay even hear Annika out when she blamed pinky... Then y shud ani hold him when he breaks... His NKK truth his for him to bear... It's his birth sach n he has to face it... Not his wife or love for him... If Ani holds him them it will mean her love was far stronger than his... His was very superficial... N She has made sure that his brothers n Jhanvi know what pinky is doing... Annika may b ethereal but she has left behind a support system... What did Shivaay leave Annika with?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

I hv been saying this time and again... Shivaay dint see what Anni was trying to show him for long... Everytime she spoke a truth which was against his family members... Especially his mother he has shut her up... And hasn't ever bothered finding out why she named his mother... N If Annika ko galatfaimi hui hai then reality Kya hai woh usne Kabhi bahar lane ki koshish nahi kiyi... Y? Coz he knows smwhr deep down that his NKK family is at fault but he himself doesn't think he loves Annika enuf to fight against his own NKK family... Pinky Has time n again spoke of batwara and against his brothers... That Time he has nvr yelled at her but annika saying the truth hurt so much coz he too thinks annika is someone who entered his life now . N if her truths will spoilers his ghar ka naksha which had been there for yrs now.. It won't be good... He threw Annika out without even thinking that the middle class girl whose house he had taken fraudulently... Whose tenders he took... How will she survive... She asked for her right as a wife n he denied that too n dragged her out... He dint even think that when he dragged her out she had tears n she dint come back with lawyer or police to stake her claim... She wud hv done that if she really was only interested in his property... Shivaay dint keep even one pinky promise he made to Annika or sahil... At first opportunity of her insulting his family he threw her out... If she used this trick n knew it wud work.. It means she knew she hadn't reached his real trust levels yet... He believed her one day accusation is her real self and not the one who spent months with him...protecting him... For him n his family... Took all insults of tia and her mother n his mother.. Without any words in return...

She did break one pinky promise... Of running away from him... But in scheme of things when u see Shivaay is a bigger culprit... He nvr made her feel that imp... That's y she cud pull of that stun... She knew for sure that he wud fall for it n throw her out... N he did exactly that...


You have put it so beautifully. I am so tired of people saying again and agaun that it is all only annikas fault. Seeing shivaays pain in just one episode and all forgot annis pain and put all blame on her. We have accepted shivaay with flaws atleast I have and love him equally but here it is both at fault. He still doesn't trust her fully when it comes to protecting his family nkk that's why he didn't tell her Oms truth. If he would have trusted her enough that she will protect his family as he then I would have completely agreed that it is anni fault. He let anni and sahil insulted bcoz of Om truth and when anni asked reason he said he don't feel need to answer. Why couldn't he tell her that truth bcoz it was regarding hus nkk family. Later again he let her get insulted bcoz of daksh. Why couldn't he tell prinku pregnancy truth to her. He let daksh call her mistress and acted at the end when she started going away. He didn't believe her or let her speak about pinky bcoz it was about his nkk family his mother. When he himself can't trust her enough that she can protect his secrets and his nkk faimly reputation then how people are expecting annika to have confidence that NKK truth will not break him or hurt him more than her leaving will.

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