The love that takes

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shivaay knows he loves her I think but he has the kind of love that takes more than it gives when it comes to Anika

1. Pinky kicked her out ---- he told her to come back saying "I need you" .
2. He will stand up for her but never acknowledge the relationship to her even in private
3. He married her for his family
4. He will hold NKK as holy - but not respect her as part of family - only as a responsibility
5. But he will take liberties :)??
😲

It's a very Selfish love !! Anika now enough giving !! Let's find you a nice guy and hope to see shivaay actually fighting for his love !!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree, I had written the same thing in my post a couple of days ago.
Loving... giving... Anika vs the possessive, selfishness of Shivaay. The kind of love that he has is taking, not reciprocating in return, whereas Anika's is pure Love with no expectations from Shivaay. she has told in ML so many times that he is her PP..pati...parmes... he can't even bring himself to say that she is his wife.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's a mix of things between these two.

Shivaay needs her, love or obsession, he can't and won't let Annika leave. It will be an unforeseen circumstance that might separate these two.

Annika wants nothing from him, but love. His Name, Lineage and Power, Money all means nothing to her. She loves the crazy myriad of things he is inside, the loving brother, the strong family pillar. She admires his strength of mind and his power to make things happen.

One would think that the way he loves his brothers, he would know how to treat the woman who is his companion. He has to learn to let her into his heart. That will be tough, as he hasn't even let his brothers into his inner chamber of worries and problems. He needs to learn to share, not fight every battle himself.

Yeah, right now he is being selfish, and she is being the opposite, doing something for everyone but herself (and Shivaay, but she doesn't know that yet).

But he's getting there, we just have to wait.😉
Even if Shivaay plays jealousy games with Annika, I don't think he can stand even 10 seconds of it if she were to do the same thing back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Okay my take...
Its just a phase... In their relationship... You can't make permanent tags to anything...

You call Shivaay's love selfish... When he literally gave his life for her..?
Nahi...Its just that the situations make u think so..

Shivaay is way different..!
The real him inside is the most confused person...

As a result we get... Sau Rangi Shivaay like Anika calls him..!

Thats exactly what tgis story is about...

How will this ever confused soul who is sau rangee realise the shade of love in his life.

He is now in the shade in which obsession and guroor(ego) dominate.

He wants her to be affected because he is affected..!
He wants her to say it, cause she questioned his ehsaas..
Asked him to say it out... But he has never beem the one to obey, and give in..
There u go his head takes it as a challenge to make her say it..!
His ego was hurt.. When she said ki I have no ehsaas no memory...
Now he is making her realise that EHSAAS HAIN...!
EHSAAS will always be there..!

He cant accept the fact that THOSE EHSAAS... Should be forgotten by her...

He himself might not know the reason why,..

But his heart knows... Its the only possession his heart treasures... Those ehsaas...

Which even his heart has to realise is love.!

In short... His lack of understanding of love is making him explore different emotions he can... You know associate between them...

He will try all emotions...

Be it hate... Compassion...
Be it being a friend to being wirse than enemy...

Its going to be a long ride..!

The process in him finally finding out its love and then staying in peace will be like the journey of a river.
Melting from the cold.
Up the mountains..
Down into the valley..
Facing the rocks.
Going up n down the plateau.
Being stagnant in the plains..
Finally meeting the ocean n finding peace.

The above is my take on it..
Views n opinions may differ.

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