Compromises ... 7.2.17 - Page 3

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

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<font color="#0000cc">I feel sadistic too😆.. I need to see his reaction to Annika's outright rejection of him as her husband. I have doubts on whether she can pull this off successfully also, as she is very much affected by his presence. All he needs to do is go near her, and she will blush beetroot red. Definitely she will instigate fights and stay far away from him. Quite looking forward to this ...👍🏼...</font>

<font color="#0000cc">Hopefully Annika only works on Tia, as Omkara breaks Svetlana.</font>

<font color="#0000cc">Another thing is : Suddenly the actress wants us😆to think about Svetlana's motives; positive or negative. DO you think he will join hands with Svetlana, if he finds out what it is that Tej did to the Kapoors?</font>

Originally posted by: anyafan4

I was so happy to see these posts and the replies ! Thought I was going to lose it today. I was so disappointed in SSO

A) maybe they needed to show this divide else why would Anika go against him ?

I know the feeling. But he has done this way too many times, and each time digging his pit even deeper. I don't think Annika is going against him at all. What he said about Om being in her shoes, and doing something for a loved one made her think.

She's doing this for Om, she promised Rudra she would talk Shivaay into getting Om out of this fix. When that failed, she is taking it upon herself and doing what she could to catch the troublemakers.

It's all for Shivaay's family, how could she be against him?

B) I think he knew OM would do something drastic and he had a logic --- if you protect your own, that's ok. Crazy but true

Crazy logic, yeah, but they could've at least talked to each other so one can support the other no? It annoys me that the ObBros don't do team work outside of the kitchen anymore. Each one wants to protect the other.

C) this also lays the foundation for a separation track --- I think Anika was hurt when he said PKK (NKK) will always be important to me --- how can she ever believe now he loves her for who she is

If it is a separation, it will be one where Annika doesn't leave OM. 😆

Because Shivaay would never let her out of his sight, even if she forgot him.

D) she will say maybe you love me and you trust me but due to your soch --- "you will never respect me"???

I really don't know where they are going with Shivika. The serial needs to go on, so we'll have to see where it goes...😆

Despite all these attempts I felt a bit betrayed by the CVs for such a plot --- they seems to go 2 steps forward 1 step back!!

I think the only thing I can hope for in the next week is some TLC by SSO for Anika over the Valentine's Day season

Why even today's SBS has an extremely romantic segment coming up...😳

Very disappointed !

Originally posted by: napstermonster

My issues with Shivaay as he is right now is twofold and Anika is responsible for both of them. Firstly the fact he has not only not taken responsiblility for what he did to her and how he did it-- but he has been assured via her silence that she is okay with it. It's for family. Tit for tat. Nothing from her about her horrific experience, about how her very consent was ripped away. That she had no choice while the Oberois consistently make the choices for themselves at other peoples expenses. How it's not the same as being blackmailed, trying to save your handicapped little brother from the maniac with the bomb. It cannot be compared to choosing to marry your father's mistress when you didnt have to do it at gunpoint. Like she had to. Literally.

And secondly it's this. Never before has there been a ML better positioned to having his cake and eating it. I dont mean having Tia around as the other cake. It's worse than that. I mean having the comforts of a loving relationship, the companionship, the love. Giving and receiving it. Getting to feel loved by the girl of his choice without ever having to choose her. Avoiding the messiness of commitment while getting a committed spouse. Getting to indulge without any of the actual michmichi self reflection, the public acceptance of a lower being. Because-- make no mistake. He is embarrassed and ashamed of his feelings for her. Even a little horrified by the intensity. If he could, he would blame her for inducing these feelings in him. A more sophisticated take on Pinky's jaadu tona accusation. But she doesn't make it uncomfortable. She doesn't make it awkward. She is the perfect guilty pleasure. All the pleasure for him as he wallows in this fascinating low class creature while she takes all the guilt of daring to love so far beyond her class.

The hate marriage in IPKKND was better than this ( now there's a statement I never thought I'd say). At least in that infuriating four months long reveal, Khushi FOUGHT. A weaker character than Anika, a MUCH less free and more traditional girl and she fought her imprisonment. She challenged her jailor, refused his control. She even tried to kill herself for God's sake-- because she wasn't given an answer and she couldn't go on without one. It was AWFUL. We tore our and each other's hair. But it still was better than the peaceful transition to happy hostage than Anika has made.

Because it's all about HIM. He knows it and revels in it. He is Shivaay Singh Oberoi. And even his prisoner wife will make his way easy for him and make herself useful, indispensable. She will not demand value. She will not demand a title. Hell, she will not even demand a divorce or freedom from her pain. He doesn't have to let her go since she can't be what he wants to get in his actual spouse. He gets to still keep her. Reminding her how flawed she is for someone like him--and she absorbs his lessons!!

So he is free to indulge himself on this fascinating treat before his real life intervenes and maybe another Chadda daughter comes, this time for him. He doesn't even need to hide his demands on her and his affection and need for her. She won't use it against him. She won't challenge him on anything to do with her. She won't even tell his mother how much more than hand holding has happened in HIS bedroom.

Anika has become the girl he can disregard because she practically demands that he do so. As long as she believes thatt she doesn't deserve his love and respect as his wife, he has no reason give his love and respect to a woman who will settle for the role of his slave.She will willingly throw herself off a balcony to save him what is probably just the quarter year income for one of his companies. Why should we blame the man for taking advantage of this situation? He is a predator being handed his prize. Without a single battle being fought, for that prize. Why will he-- how can he value that prize if it will not value itself, hold itself in esteem? She cannot have it both ways-- be his beloved wife and be his secret shame. The path she has chosen-- until she runs and runs HARD soon -- is one that will lead to her becoming Janvi in 25 years. If she's lucky.

Originally posted by: asya34

Beautiful post Anisa
I have just a few things to say and no long post actually.

First I am happy that Om and Shivvay are in this together, and that they are is as obvious as the nose on Svets face.

😆 ouch ...

Actually I think Svet has a huge crush on Om as well for her to lose her thinking power and pick him over Tej. She acted with her emotions today not the cool calculating Svet as she usually is. I have always been annoyed that each brother hides his problems from the other and tries to solve it alone. This division has made them weak compared to the NB.

I used to think she had a crush on him too😆.. She would come in full tashan, and he would be so disgusted and dismissive, she used to seethe !

Svetlana is a jawaan ladki after all ... And Om is one gorgeous specimen. Manhandling aside, their negative chemistry was quite sizzling.

I like what you said about Shivaay being on the phone with Om when Annika threw it. Good catch! I didn't think of that. It fits with his puzzled expression, when he said, "Who? Bade Papa?" 😲

Coming to the Devar-Bhabhi Dynamic Duo, they are a blast and will definitely not have Shivvay in on their plans. He would never consent to such a risky plan that puts Annika's life in danger. So yes, this whole ML thing is good because it will force Shivvay to confront his feelings and his status as her wedded husband. I mean, if she has lost her memory it is most convenient for him now to dissolve the marriage right?

Yes! I love it that Rudra and her are working together. Rudra was looking rather lost and frustrated with everything falling apart and Shivaay not doing anything. But it's so risky, that was quite a distance down from the first floor!

My only worry is if she finds out a lot but cannot prove it to Shivaay and Om.

Coming to Annika and Shivvay speech about the NKK.. or should I say PKK now. Again this can be addressed with the ML happening I feel. How is he going to prove to her that they are actually married?? What solid proof does he have??

I m sure there are papers they have signed? Also the mangalsutra and Sindhoor... (What am I saying 😆)