ShivIka - Stage 2 'Jiske liye Mein Number 1 hoon'

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Just a few thoughts on today's episode that made me a little less depressed since Annika's realization of Love Fever.

As I said earlier I am in the minority because I think her falling in love (not revealing it to him) is a good thing for HER. It makes her focus on HER as Shivvay said and spend some time on herself. We all need to do that - make ourselves important so that we can recharge. I was very touched by his words and they were the perfect 'husband-like' response to her present plight. Take a break - take time out for yourself. Forget all the other problems for a while - just focus on you and Sahil. In other words - just chill.

PERFECT HUSBAND ADVISE TO HIS EMOTIONALLY EXHAUSTED WIFE WHO ALMOST DIED IN HIS ARMS AND THEN COMING BACK TO SEAL THAT WHOLE ADVISE PERFECTLY WITH A KISS❤️ ❤️ ❤️

HE TOLD HER TODAY THAT YOU ARE IMPORTANT, SPECIAL AND MY PRIORITY RIGHT NOW SO FORGET ALL THE REST THAT IS HAPPENING AROUND US AND LOOK AFTER YOURSELF. I WILL DEAL WITH THE REST - HAVE FAITH IN ME. JUST LAY LOW FOR A WHILE AND CATCH YOUR BREATH.

Now imagine you have said this to your wife who is following your advice (to your immense satisfaction and relief) and just going through the normal motions of the day (which is a rare thing presently at OM as we all know ) and trying to just go with the flow. You are happy and satisfied that atlest one thing is going right in this super busy/crazy day but then come home to find that she is being hounded again in her vulnerable emotional state, which in turn is going to be set back for you,undoing all the good you did this morning with her.

As a HUSBAND (which Shivvay is officially fast becoming since this morning) you are going to completely lose it that she is again being picked on and harassed in your absence. You are going to realize that this is fast becoming a pattern that she is being framed or blamed for something or the other, no matter how serious or trivial, every single time and that too in connection to the same person.

Today was a big step forward for Shivvay in his relationship with Annika.

Today's episode showed that he has no issues standing up for Annika in front of the whole Family (and soon it will be in front of the whole world I am certain). I loved how he did not even bother to refute Pinky's accusations about Annika and wore a stoic expression through all Pinky accused Annika for. His slight change in expressions only came when she insulted her about being the dust from the streets. Mr. Oberoi is not taking that insult about his wife very well nowadays from what I see. She is 'Shivvay Singh Oberoi's Wife' not a nobody from the streets as far as he is concerned now.

His Faith in her is unshakable and unwavering no matter what proof one has, to incriminate her in a certain act.
I was actually very proud of the way he stood up for her and amazed at it as well. HE was HER strength today. HE was her shield and her rock. She was so lost and frightened for the first time because of her confused state of mind that HE made the stand for HER.

I mentioned a shift in ShivIka Dynamics and it is here. STAGE 2
He did what a Husband would do and in my eyes has taken a big step in his redemption since the kiss this morning. Redemption is a slow road and is done in stages as one goes along in life. It is not always an all out confession and penance.
Even Annika is having a tough time distancing herself from this Shivvay who is fast becoming HER shield and her rock.
Up until now SHE was his shield and rock but with the realization of love has become weaker in her present state of confusion. This is where Shivvay now will become over protective about his mate who is presently weak and vulnerable to look after herself.
But that is under normal circumstances without the blackmail equation from Mrs. Kapoor.

Tia had a perfectly laid plan and it was successful as well. All the evidence pointed to Annika and nothing would have proved otherwise.
Shivvay's argument against this proof would never be held up in any court of justice. His will be purely based on his Faith and Confidence in who Annika really is - just like Dadi, Om, Rudy, Prinku and Saumya. He did not respond, waver or even bat an eyelid till he saw Annika's fingers covered in blood. He was the "SHIVVAY SINGH OBEROI" I had been waiting for him to change into.

Tia is being foolish in her attempts to throw Annika out and I cannot believe she was willing to risk the life of her unborn child from the man she truly claimed to love. It is almost certain she is going to loose the child as she is very careless with it's life.

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Holding on to his Jaan so that she does not leave him while Pinky is dragging her away.

The patent SSO diaglgue that I always connect to Annika - HIS JAAN not his life. Remember he does not fear death - only losing HER to death "Shivvay Singh Oberoi ki Jaan itne Assani se nahi ja sakti hai"

The look that accompanied "Haath chodiye !!! Annika ka haath chodiye" said volumes about how much it angers him to see someone treat his WIFE this way. No matter that it is his own mother. He was clearly keeping his furious temper in check. This is after all "Shivvay Singh Oberoi's WIFE" and his JAAN

Yes Pinky - Shivvay has been suffering from Love Fever for a long time now ... he has been mesmerized by her for a long time now ... did you only JUST notice it. Who has always managed to get through to Shivvay even before their marriage?

He releases Annika from Pinky's hold and announces , "Annika kahi nahi jayegi" (na main kahi jaooga - na tumhe jane dooonga)

He releases Annika from Pinky's hold and stands between them because he knows his wife is very vulnerable and weak right now. HE has to be HER shield and stand in front of her to protect her from the verbal volley of hurtful insults and accusations.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Loved the Shivika dynamics of late. This week we have seen so much progress in their relation. Both almost losing each other and fighting all odds to save the other from peril, bringing them back to life from the edge of death.

Anika's realisation that he came back for her, at her urging has turned her into much, into a seething mass of confusion and feelings for the man whom she knows can never accept her due to her lack of pedigree. Despite that.. they are forging a strong bond... the way she understood him and did not question his need to reach Om..was a revelation to Shivaay, how well his mad Panika understands him. She is like a breath of fresh air in his life and makes his mundane life filled with laughter and color. He cannot fathom leaving for work without having a glimpse of her... is restless... and goes looking for her. Both of their sensors working overtime for sure.

She was expressing her fear of loving and losing him... and he was talking about the attacks on her.. the trials she has had to face of late... and the way she shielded him from Tia... now he is going to be her rock, her wall like he has been for the Oberois.. and she has become one too. Only they have not acknowledged it yet. He is showing it to her in so many ways... his concern for her.. when she hurt herself... makes him crazy and he was ready to jump at his mother.. only his rigid self control worked to keep him quiet.. when he saw Anika's hand bleed from inserting her hand into the sugar jar...

He is her voice, her protector, her savior when Anika is at her most vulnerable. Truly hope he senses a conspiracy to corner and destroy Anika, so is alert and playing a game... baiting the NB's.

Shivaay knows her naivet and innocence will not be enough to deal with people from his class as they are playing for much higher stakes. That is a game which is familiar to him and he is a deft hand at that.

Loved yr note about the JAAN... seeing it in this light now makes more sense. The way he held her head while saying that like a mantra... Anika is his Jaan and she resides in his heart. She is not going away from him nor is he going to let her go.

Hope he pieces together the pyaar ka bhukar signals from Sahil... saw the OLV and was happy to see him bond with the little fella.. who is a fountain of advice for BB.

Lovely post asya.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Asya love,
Great post! I too liked the epi today for many reasons. Today was the day where Shivaay did 2 things that stood out for me. The kiss on the forehead is his way of showing utmost affection, he kisses Ru and Om like that and I have always felt that its something he does in times when he feels overwhelming emotion, a silent promise to care and protect. And today, Ani was included in that circle, of someone he will love and cherish and I loved it!! 😳
The second was that Shivaay Singh Oberoi , who always needed concrete evidence to believe, for the first time trusted his heart over his mind, he believed that she was innocent in the face of overwhelming evidence against her and dare I say it, in those few minutes he believed in her, he became Shivaay for her and on Monday, will become SSO and fight to keep her back in OM!
I am a bit worried about the whole Saahil thing too and wondered Shivaay's changed behavior is due to Mrs.K's blackmail as well but will comment on that after the epi airs!! Why take stress now itself, especially with the episodeless Sunday tommorow??😆
As for Tia, I already foresee an unpleasant track ahead but I dont want to type it down for the fear of it actually coming true!!😆
Edited by chottekikhushi - 8 years ago
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Wow👏 ..so true ...i don't think I could have thought of this episode so deeply ..u just made me realise shivika relationship growing strength they both r already acting as typical hubby wife ..laughing goofing teasing flirting now even standing for one another they have a connection something with mutual understanding they don't need words they just know. ..its just that they don't realise it how far they have reached together ..anikha is shaken cas she has realised how much shivay matters to her ... she is confused kinda in denied which is ok...shivay has the same feelings but slowly even he is getting there when he have to accept his hearts truth and truly be the lover she deserves. ... even if it ment letting her go ... today when he said she should ust relax and give herself and sahil time this showed he cares and truly wants her know he is there for her always ...
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Pearl,
I was ignoring the obvious question : What did the kiss mean? , but instead I was marvelling on how Shivaay was so in tune with her agony, and his need to make everything ok for her. He was confiding in her, about his worries of future schemes, etc , which he never does with his brothers. He protects his brothers, is the guy who fixes things, but here he was being a companion, sharing, comforting, promising support.

After all, she did drag him to safety and take care of him, as he did her. Equals, at least in between them. With the outside world waiting to pounce on them.
Edited by AnnzSageflower7 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Asya love,
Great post! I too liked the epi today for many reasons. Today was the day where Shivaay did 2 things that stood out for me. The kiss on the forehead is his way of showing utmost affection, he kisses Ru and Om like that and I have always felt that its something he does in times when he feels overwhelming emotion, a silent promise to care and protect. And today, Ani was included in that circle, of someone he will love and cherish and I loved it!! 😳
See for me too... these things matter more than the overly romantic gestures.

As husband and wife you balance the equation and cancel out the other persons weaknesses with your strength. Two sides of a coin - that is what a marriage should be.
Up until now SHE has done her utmost as a wife and without any expectations in return. She has been his shield, rock and his strength when all were battering him down post pregnancy being revealed. Then, he was the weak one and she was his strength.
It is his turn now to prove how much she means to him with actions.
Now it is Annika who is weak (and this is why I am glad that she realized the love first) and is busy trying to hide and sort out her emotional distress. She confided in him (which is what I love about this girl - no halfway in her relationships) and did not hide that she is confused, scared and feeling very vulnerable right now. That was perfect because it brought out the 'Lion' in her husband. He asked her to back off and chill for a while, which means she was not 'gunning' for or trying to investigate Tia. This meant he could now focus on Om because Annika was looked after and was not going to attempt anything stupid to risk her life.

His kiss was what made it perfect because he showed his emotions as well. He did not shy away or feel awkward doing it. It was perfectly natural to console and pamper Annika because he knew she would never demand it of him but freely accept it as his way of assuring that "I will make it all ok".

This was needed becuz tomorrow when he has to face the Sahil situation she will wonder why the change has happened. She will have a niggling doubt that there is more to it than what meets the eye here. Just like she did why he said, "Ziyada Taddi math maroo"
Their weird connection that only the two of them get. No other is privy to that. That is the husband-wife connection that no outsider can ever tap into.

The second was that Shivaay Singh Oberoi , who always needed concrete evidence to believe, for the first time trusted his heart over his mind, he believed that she was innocent in the face of overwhelming evidence against her and dare I say it, in those few minutes he believed in her, he became Shivaay for her and on Monday, will become SSO and fight to keep her back in OM!
True. There is no going back for him now. It is only going ahead.
I am a bit worried about the whole Saahil thing too and wondered Shivaay's changed behavior is due to Mrs.K's blackmail as well but will comment on that after the epi airs!! Why take stress now itself, especially with the episodeless Sunday tommorow??😆
As for the Sahil incident - I too will reserve my judgement (after I saw today's episode) as to why Shivvay would ask Sahil to apologize. I am sure there is more to it than him blindly believing that he is a thief.

As for Tia, I already foresee an unpleasant track ahead but I dont want to type it down for the fear of it actually coming true!!😆
Ah! that girl is dumb compared to Svet and Romi. She has made the mistake of taking this Annika problem too personally. When you attach emotions to revenge it always messes things up.
She is just getting careless with her unborn child with all her attempts to throw Annika out. If she is hospitalized nothing will stand in the way of proving that it is not Shivvay''s child.
Edited by asya34 - 8 years ago
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Very nicely written...!!👏👏

It was indeed a very big step in Shivika's relation: TRUST..!!
Annika showed it before during Tia's pregnancy drama and it was Shivaay's turn now..!! He believed Annika with all proofs against her, likewise she believed him that time..!! I loved this scene more than the kiss..!!
By the way, this kiss was very different than his kisses Om-Ru-Priyanke-Dadi... This one was very SLOW i.e. he took all his hime, and he even closed his eyes with all his feelings..!!😳😳😆

I think Shivaay will reach the next level if he announces her as wife in front of the world.. Lori is coming.. so, we'll see..!!😆

Good thing is his Tia-jap is gone after he realized Tia's lie about her pregnancy..!!
Tia is stupid in way to lose even the talking-term with SSO right after the pregnancy trick..!!
I think she lost all his sympathy now, and he is just being nice to her by giving his name to her baby, because he has no proof...!!
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Wow👏 ..so true ...i don't think I could have thought of this episode so deeply ..u just made me realise shivika relationship growing strength they both r already acting as typical hubby wife ..laughing goofing teasing flirting now even standing for one another they have a connection something with mutual understanding they don't need words they just know. .
Romance is moonlight and roses. There is nothing wrong with that but that is not everyday life. In everyday life a couple needs to understand even unspoken clues and know how to handle their spouse in those situations. They need to clue into moods and emotions. That is what I am liking about ShivIka right now. They are adults in love who are romancing like teenagers.

.its just that they don't realise it how far they have reached together ..anikha is shaken cas she has realised how much shivay matters to her ... she is confused kinda in denied which is ok...shivay has the same feelings but slowly even he is getting there when he have to accept his hearts truth and truly be the lover she deserves. ... even if it ment letting her go ... today when he said she should ust relax and give herself and sahil time this showed he cares and truly wants her know he is there for her always
Yep! total Hubby wala dialogue ..lol.

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Very nicely written...!!👏👏

It was indeed a very big step in Shivika's relation: TRUST..!!
Annika showed it before during Tia's pregnancy drama and it was Shivaay's turn now..!! He believed Annika with all proofs against her, likewise she believed him that time..!! I loved this scene more than the kiss..!!
By the way, this kiss was very different than his kisses Om-Ru-Priyanke-Dadi... This one was very SLOW i.e. he took all his hime, and he even closed his eyes with all his feelings..!!😳😳😆
Absolutely.. his kiss for Annika was completely on a different level than his kiss with the others. It was as if he was holding something infinitely precious in the palm of his hands
(Nakkul nailed it)


I think Shivaay will reach the next level if he announces her as wife in front of the world.. Lori is coming.. so, we'll see..!!😆
There might be a twist there with the Svet/Om drama that again and Mrs. Kapoor making him choose Tia

Good thing is his Tia-jap is gone after he realized Tia's lie about her pregnancy..!!
Tia is stupid in way to lose even the talking-term with SSO right after the pregnancy trick..!!
I think she lost all his sympathy now, and he is just being nice to her by giving his name to her baby, because he has no proof...!!
Oh! Tia is long gone from his mind... it is just the baby that is keeping her at OM ... once that truth is out she is going to be treated like a pariah dog by the Oberoi's ... if she is smart she will do all possible to protect that unborn child which is her only trump card

Edited by asya34 - 8 years ago
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Pearl,
I was ignoring the obvious question : What did the kiss mean? , but instead I was marvelling on how Shivaay was so in tune with her agony, and his need to make everything ok for her.
So true Ann. ❤️ It was like he was kissing her fears away. Letting her know that 'All will be well. He would make sure of that".
What I loved was that he did not even care to delve into the details of WHAT was bothering her, he just CARED about making it go away. That in my view is huge.
It may be a trivial thing or a big thing - the fact was that it bothered her and he needed her to know he was there for her. That she should take her time to figure it out without worrying about him or his family. She should put HERSELF before all else, for once.

As for his demonstration of affection and love, he has come a long way in my opinion. From hiding his feelings from all, including himself, he has come to the point where he has gotten comfortable enough to express them openly.
He shows his feelings, flirts and teases her like it is the most natural thing for him to do. He prepared her a special breakfast and was completely ok with his brothers and the whole Family knowing that

I have a strong feeling that, in their dynamic, it will be Shivvay who will be the one ok with falling in love more than Annika, even though she realized it first. For Shivvay it is only overcoming NKK which in my opinion is not as huge an emotional hurdle as Annika's emotional fears and trauma. She has very major issues with her past and with attachments that result in pain.
Shivvay has neither of those. he has always had very healthy and lasting relationships all his life.

He was confiding in her, about his worries of future schemes, etc , which he never does with his brothers. He protects his brothers, is the guy who fixes things, but here he was being a companion, sharing, comforting, promising support.
After all, she did drag him to safety and take care of him, as he did her. Equals, at least in between them. With the outside world waiting to pounce on them.
Again true. Takkar ke equals as Dadi says. They complete each other, balance each other and fill in for each other. When one is weak the other one automatically takes over.
That is Tia's frustration as well - they are like Siamese Twins, joined at the hip so to speak. I can totally get her frustration and annoyance. She envy's what Annika has because in her foolishness she lost her Twin - Robin.
It is fast getting impossible to see or experience one without the other. They are going to start mirroring each other soon as well.
Like they say - husband and wife start looking like each other after a while kinda thing

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