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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: libran90

Love has no logic...Anika is not seeing anything right now, other than protecting Shivaay from Tia. She loves him to bits and she is the only one fighting for their relationship right now.

We all know that Shivaay is a bad judge of character, and he deserves every bit of hard time he is getting from Tia. He needs to learn the hardest lesson, and that only Tia can teach him, in turn making him respect Anika even more for the person she is

Anika does not really make people work hard to appease her. She very easily forgives people. That is really good coming from a person who has been screwed by life since she was born. And shows Shivay in very poor light, because he has not faced life's adversities and only had been raised in a dysfunctional family which has shaped him in such a way, and makes him a very weak person

Khair, the thing is that as Shivay does, he pushes away Anika again, which seems that he has some plan against Tia, and just so that she puts her guard down. If he is doing this with Anika in the loop, then it is okay. But if Anika does not know, and he pushes her away, then he has to work hard to appease her this time.

I hope Shivay does not take it for granted that "Anika will forgive him when she know the truth". Kisiko kaunsi baat dil pe lag jaye pata nahi chalta...It is great that Anika is fighting for their relationship. Shivaay needs to worry when Anika stops fighting for him and this marriage, because then it will be difficult for him to win her over.


bold = I 'm eagerly waiting for it 😛

I know this track will take more time & it's ok but I want at least some self-respect for Anika cause shivaay himself says sign,she should sign it!😔
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: -LetItGo-



kuyn kay according to anika uski izzat toh shivaay nay cheen li hai sach mei aisa hi hua hai that's why she's singing kajrare naina for him.

Mallu


wearing such revealing clothes 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23
This is what we call REEL LIFE
Where a male lead is allowed to manhandle torture threaten a girl in the name of love
He is allowed to do anything but he won't be questioned because at the end of the day he loves the girl truely
He may not accept it but yes he loves the girl
And for the female lead no matter how is she treated by her in laws how cheap thinking does a male lead carries for her she is bound to stick to the family and her husband
But that doesn't mean she is a doormat or she has given up her self respect
Its because she is in love she has feelings for that guy and she is attached to the family
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Posted: 8 years ago
#24
Exactly my thought when I saw the offscreen segments. This behavior is not typical of the spunky and independent character that Anika had been shown to be initially, rather up until she got married. The mangalsutra on her neck seemed to have dulled the spark inside her. This is Indian TV though , where else can you have a male lead that is romancing a female lead that he has forcefully married and is contemplating divorce while not being sure if he slept and impregnated his ex-fianc ( and all the while being upset that he FL may have slept with her fianc !) . The only person that is wronged here is Anika , but who cares when she is busy trying to dance and stroke SSO's huge ego. After all that Anika has been put through , SSO better be solid good in bed :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
#25
See you can't stretch the matter for long. Shivaay did wrong but when the time passes things becomes smooth. If we see the character of Anika you can't make a quick judgement on seeing only one or two episodes. Now this time Shivaay needs someone one aagr woh bhi stubborn ho jaye ki shivaay ne uske saath galat kiya toh jo shivaay ke saath ho raha hai usse hone do isse situations aur bhi disturbing hone lagti hai. And they are marriage couples now and kissi bhi relationship mein compromises hote hai humein kabhi dusro ke liye apne charater znd nature ke against jana padta and yeh toh phir marriage relationship hai aur slowly ek dusre ki nature aur strong and weakness ki habit ho jati hai. You can even see in your practical and real life also. So should not immediately judge anything, you should see situation and environment also to take any decisions.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: aadfg

See you can't stretch the matter for long. Shivaay did wrong but when the time passes things becomes smooth. If we see the character of Anika you can't make a quick judgement on seeing only one or two episodes. Now this time Shivaay needs someone one aagr woh bhi stubborn ho jaye ki shivaay ne uske saath galat kiya toh jo shivaay ke saath ho raha hai usse hone do isse situations aur bhi disturbing hone lagti hai. And they are marriage couples now and kissi bhi relationship mein compromises hote hai humein kabhi dusro ke liye apne charater znd nature ke against jana padta and yeh toh phir marriage relationship hai aur slowly ek dusre ki nature aur strong and weakness ki habit ho jati hai. You can even see in your practical and real life also. So should not immediately judge anything, you should see situation and environment also to take any decisions.


We r judging wat we r seeing. Wat u r saying is only applicable if d man is decent n good human being instead of a jerk. U mean to say Anika sud remain doormat n keep getn insulted? Marriage hua hai to divorce big ho sakta hai. Divorce also happens in real life wen a relationship is toxic. Right? Wud I have said d same lines if Anika n Shivaay were in each other's place I mean d husband being tortured by his wife?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#27
See you should control your emotions I know many of us have different opinions let writers give their space and time and let them doing their jobs. And we should remember one thing this show is fictional and in fiction anything can happen and about nayi sooch, star plus is promoting this and every actress of every star plus show is promoting this regardless the show is conveying the theme of nayi sooch or not. We should only enjoy the show and try to understand every emotion and situation.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't understand why Anika is being called a door mat and no self respect etc etc when this is Anika.
She has always been portrayed as one who can't stand injustice of any sort. Isn't that how she met Shivaay at the temple in the 1st place. And she has always championed the cause of those being wronged selflessly. Anika has never been portrayed as one who cares too much about repercussions to herself. Infact she's never been shown to be selfish or self centred.

So now when it comes to the man she obviously loves, why should she change? Why is her behaviour seen as non-Anikaish when she's always been that way?

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