Anika Never Interfered and Never Will!!

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TheTroubleMaker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: Shivikaishkara
As usual u are absolutely correct Neha... Anika has not interfered in Shivaay's and his family's life ever unless she was helping them by saving their lives (if u count that as interference which I certainly don't)...

Also it is acceptable for Anika to say that 'Shivaay wasn't wrong only the situations were' to Sahil... Sahil is 6 yr old kid who had just seen his sister being mentally tortured by a guy who is supposed to be her husband... I think what she did was absolutely correct since hatred for someone at this stage of life, if allowed to stay and grow never leaves you (personal experience talking here)...

I don't think that what Anika told Sahil was for SSO's benefit but rather for Sahil's...

Also how can we judge that she is going to advocate for Shivaay in front of his family by just getting a glimpse of her looking at him in the precap? Even after having loads of experience at making complete fools of ourselves by early speculations we never learn do we? (I include myself in this category)

I don't think Anika is going to advocate for Shivaay for what he did was wrong..She hid it before but once it is out in the open she won't by any means tell Dadi or OmRu that what SSO did was not wrong...

Bang on Neha... your posts are always welcome as they help me rant out everything I am thinking. ...

She has always been helping and saving hem intentionally-unintentionally and that's the reason Dadi called her he guardian angel in their life!

Anika was absolutely right in keeping her little brother away from such a grave matter coz no matter wat, he is still a kid and should not be seeing or speaking in such matters!

If she wanted to advocate Shivay, she could have done that by staying there, not leaving from the place!

More than Oberoi family accepting Anika, I feel its Anika who is wanting to stay aloof and has not fully accepted them or is hesitant to accept them!

That's the reason she immediately agreed to leave after getting the divorce papers and she did not even wan to stay wen Shivay stopped her, so why would she interfere in the matters at all ...its funny to even think so despite the fact that she has got all rights to speak as an insider in the family, as Shivay's wife and as OmRu's Bhabhi 😆

Thanks Mahi.:)

Edited by Crazy4Mayur - 8 years ago

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Teju

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Posted: 8 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Crazy4Mayur

Its okay Teju 🤗 Anika is misunderstood and too much is expected out of her, wen truth is she is the one still in trauma, her life is still hanging between a husband who wants to divorce her and a wedding like hers, an incident she can never forget!
She clearly has no one to comfort her wen she needs it the most! All that comes her way is blames and accusations and misunderstanding and heaps of expectations, Anika should run away, divorce him, should not interfere, should take a stand, should expose him and what not, wen all she needs to do is stand up again, comfort herself and regain her strength as she has no one else o do that for her!

And as for ur post, I so agree, we all have families, we all fight and make up but don't ask each other to not interfere or keep the misunderstandings forever, families are families for a reason and Anika now is very much a part of the Oberoi Family and nothing can change this truth! OmRu, Dadi, Pinky-Shakti, TejVi, wen everyone has accepted her and somewhere, somehow, Shivay too...then she has got all rights to speak to them as a family member!

And loved ur post...:)

Oh god neha.. Itani gusse mein likhi thi na post.. 😆 baad me mujhehi yaad nahi raha kya likh diya.. i didn't want to read it also again.. mood swings.. 😆😆 but yeah.. Anika is all alone... may be after this truth abt shivay's deed out.. most of family member will stop taunting her.. even pinky aunty.. so it will be bearable for her.. Pinky aunty n Anika convo is much needed now.. after yest.. I can see broken mother who seemed to be defeated thinking she fell short in her son's upbringing.. yeah abt shivay crying when Anika gave him reality check that eh should feel ashamed of his deeds whatever he had done with sahil.. not abt d fact that he did bad with apahij.. becoz Ur deed itself was bad.. we saw.. he understood it he was wrong.. but he was scared now.. that his family will never forgive him for that.. that's why darana dhamkana to Anika was desperate attempt to hide his fault.. he accepted it somewhere he was wrong.. he looked at her in really thankful manner when she too hide fact from OmRu.. Fmily has special name.. de fight do mistakes n forgive also.. that's why family.. kisiko pasand aye na aye Tia ki tarah.. 🤣 😈 but d fact is Anika is part of this Family now.. 😉

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ramz21

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Posted: 8 years ago

#43

@neha thank u so much for making this post! Beautifully written & this is what exactly anika is! She will comfort shivaay for sure because she loves him unconditionally & can't see him in pain!😳

And even if she interferes I don't think it's wrong because she is a part of their family now & she is their bhabhi! So what if she tries to get her husband & her devars together! The problem is few plp in the fandom are totally biased! Let's not get there! Thanks for conveying the facts perfectly!👏

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popeye

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Posted: 8 years ago

#44

I don't think she will interfere in their relationship either... she may try to lighten the atmosphere a bit by giving happiness to this family who has given her so much love and respect and in that way maybe thaw the ice between the brothers and the family but I don't think she will actively interfere in their relationship and ask them to forgive Shivaay.

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TheTroubleMaker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: ramz21
@neha thank u so much for making this post! Beautifully written & this is what exactly anika is! She will comfort shivaay for sure because she loves him unconditionally & can't see him in pain!😳
And even if she interferes I don't think it's wrong because she is a part of their family now & she is their bhabhi! So what if she tries to get her husband & her devars together! The problem is few plp in the fandom are totally biased! Let's not get there! Thanks for conveying the facts perfectly!👏

Thanks and true, wen her Devars themselves always become her sheild against people like Mrs. Kapoor and did not even hesitate once to go against Shivay to help their dear Bhabhi...its not wrong at all 😆

I agree and thanks again :) 😆

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TheTroubleMaker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: popeye
I don't think she will interfere in their relationship either... she may try to lighten the atmosphere a bit by giving happiness to this family who has given her so much love and respect and in that way maybe thaw the ice between the brothers and the family but I don't think she will actively interfere in their relationship and ask them to forgive Shivaay.

Like she has always done, given them space...she has always stood at a distance and watched them happily until they themselves ask her to join in ! Right now she is not the same happy Anika who lightens up the atmosphere with her jokes so I doubt that but just hoping her to comfort Shivay! True, some situation that builds up coz of Anika without her asking anyone to talk to each other would be a treat to watch ! Am praying for a kitchen moment...Anika and Sahil cook...ShiOmRu join too ...something like his 😆

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strangerthings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#47

well anika till now hasn't interfered in their personal matters but this is very much related to her so even if she says it won't be wrong ..
also it can be misleading like most of the times it is..
i won't say much neha as i have expressed my opinion already..
beautiful post by the way n thanks for always coming up with awesome posts

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#48

And what did she do today why did she interfere , why didnt she let brothers figure out themselves and poked her nose giving family lecture haan , So family is not even supposed to be angry at him and Anika is needed for them to realise is it ?