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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry for making some sarcastic comment neha ... but don't U know anika is always wrong.. becoz she is sadkchap girl.. she should not interfere in Obros matter.. yeah Obros can interfere in her life.. one can make mess of her life holding her weak nerve ... other one can stand for her truth to bring out truth in front of everyone.. n chota one can make unneccessary relation with her.. kuch bhi aiyvehi relation with this sadkchap girl.. calling her didi.. Everyone including big member dadi can rule on her life by emotional blackmail.. ya any blackmail.. anything taunting n all.. but still it's her mistake.. she is d one wrong here.. as she is Sadakchap Girl.. Don't U know this by now..? IB forum is rock on.. anika always at center stage to throw so many things at her.. becoz she is girl.. yeah.. Desperate one or gold digger one.. she should not feel any emotions for anyone.. as she is not human.. she should not feel bad for shivay, becoz he did wrong with her.. even if for some days she has seen soft billuji.. whom she liked.. she should not feel for Dadi.. who once give her thodashi sahi.. motherly love.. Aniak ke liye woh bhi kafi hain as she never got motherly love... she should not feel fro Pinky aunty.. who once said in d moment also.. that humari anika.. during Daksh's proposal.. she should forget.. Om who has cleared her name from Chip allegations by Shivay.. she should not feell for Rudy who is baby by heart.. who calls her always Anika didi n even stood up with her in his own ways.. how dare he to be so cute with his Anika didi.. he should not do this.. as anika needs to be rock hard with him too to kick out his emotions too for her.. n insult his love for Anika didi.. Every person has flaws no one is perfect... Oberoi's have theirs.. even Anika has hers.. that she so much thinks abt people by her heart.. becoz she respects humans as may be in her lifetime no one understood her human except her brother Sahil.. For a moment hi sahi.. Dadi janvi pinky adored her.. oh even if for selfish reasons of ders.. even Shivay her stone singh oberoi.. cared abt her once saved her too.. how can he commit such crime.. use mar jane dena chahiye tah SPa mein obros ne.. Anika hi kahtam hoti zanzat nahi.. but stupid obros.. 😈 yes.. Shivay did wrong with Sahil.. even I am angry on him for that.. n I want him to repent for his every actions he did with anika.. n cry for that too.. So anika should not think seeing Billuji crying.. becoz she should do her heart rock just like him.. should not interfere,, n leave that knot in relations as it is..
Anika as an orphan girl will never do that as one thing she missed her in entire lifetime is family , relations except Sahil.. She will never be want d reason of gap in relations btwn Oberoi's relation.. that's why Rudy did ask once her' Didi aap itani acchi kyon ho..?' yeah usse accha nahi hona chahye.. bechari Tia ki tarah behave karna chahiye.. yes I don't wnat her to forgive Shivay easily.. but that doesn't mean I will ever want to see her to go to same level of Shivay.. Shivay under mentorship of Tej became rock hard person n has really started every persons as business including himself.. he is not even hesitating himself to put as business deal with Tia n kapoors.. that's what Om said.. Shivay do live for Urself too.. So it's hsi journey now Anika will teach him both things .. to be person who take care of his entire family.. n himself too..
I hope I didn't make any hasty point..
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22
I'm not sure i understand. If a wife wants to help her husband patch up with her brothers, is that interference?
If a sister in law wants to convince her brothers in law to give their brother another chance, is that interference?

If a daughter in law wants to restore the peace & joy of her new family, is that interference?

Yes, annika was wronged & yes, shivaay's tactics were under-handed, but if annika decides she's ok to let bygones be bygones, she'd like to give this marriage a chance & she'd like to help the family overcome this entire black incident & move forward to a better, happier future, isn't that her prerogative? How can that be perceived as interference?

Interference to me is where a person interjects in other people's affairs when it is not welcome or at times merely to entertain their own end goal. If Annika decides to do anything to help the situation, she'll be helping her family & since she's the one wronged, getting the equilibrium back in OM would not be interference but just Annika. That's who she is. Selflessly helping others.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

Anika has never interfered in Obros relationship

she has never come between them and she wont now

This whole thing is about her though and she cant be expected to stand like a mute spectator

Also she is the lead. Leads never stay without being a part of the story. She cant be dismissed as just another character in this story

She may try to comfort her husband in her own way or she may even go to OmRu and talk to them. Either way I wont call it interference. Its her right because of two reasons.One she is now a member of the family and two its about her and due to her that OmRu have taken this stand And I am gklad they did. But why are they not being questioned for interfering.

One set of rules for anika and another for OmRu?

Anika's nature is to bring together not to break apart. And if she tries to do that now its not interference

Also its not in her nature to lay blame. She is protective by nature and even more so for shivaye thats her nature. And she will only act accordingly . There were enough things she could have blamed on shivaye since beginning but she never did. So how will she it now? she wont

and these are admirable qualities

anyway I liked the episode and I dont mind whatever action anika takes


Agree...she can't be and I feel she won't be a mute spectator! She has her own way of resolving and handling matters without advocating or dictating things to others!

She mostly uses Reverse Psychology on Shivay like she did in Ganpati Visarjan and he understands😆

I have a slight different opinion with regard to OmRu...wat if OmRu come to talk to her like they always do? 😆

The rules have always been different so m not even surprised coz no matter wat, if Anika silently takes she is called a victim and helpless and if she answers back, she is called Mahaan! Either way, she is a part of the family, everyone has accepted her and so will Shivay, infact he has also subconsciously accepted her!

Agree, Anika's qualities are admirable...and episode gonna be another surprise like yesterday was...so speculations and theories should be given a rest 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on , Neha !👏👏👏 & others people too, i liked your cmts guys & i definitely agree with u whatever u said .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Felicity1234

funny i'm first😆

anyway what's with interfering and all?

a wife vs brothers?
since when relationships become a challenge, a competition about who wins or interferes first?!
in my eyes, each relationship has its own place, its own importance, it's own reason to be... and no relationships should be compared, because frankly i dont think a wife and a brother can ever be compared!
none have greater priorities than each other, each are equally important😊

and for me Anika 🥱should just go away and let the Oberoi deal with their own matters, not because she shouldnt be interfering, but because these Oberois have countless times proven to be selfish persons🥱

but aisa nahin hoga, so let's see...
and anyway it's always the Obros and Dadi who always interfered between Shivika😳

as far as interference are concerned, we all sometimes need a third person POV, whether we listen and abide to it is another matter, that will always be our personal choice!

Like i said yesterday, Anika is hardly putting a knife under anyone's neck to force anyone to listen to her😊




True that...funny how relationships are treated as some kinda competition as to who loves more and who got more rights 😆

I think Anika should leave only after she exposes Tia, not before that...she has now found her place in the house, where everyone finally knows the truth! She should leave Shivay only wen he realizes how wrong he was to Anika all through coz right now his guilt is more for using a disabled Child and the hurt that his whole family left him alone!

He needs to reach a point where he realizes, he was wrong with Anika, only after which Anika leaving him would make more sense ! And I agree with Oberois being unreasonable with her for all the good things she did for them...they all need to realize too and apologize to her for misunderstanding her!

Agree, Anika is not asking people to listen to her coz she is not the same old Anika who is going to others to tell them to truth, she herself is so silent and not justifying her own doings, why would she justify Shivay's 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#26
Ready for todays bouncer neha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha...
Nice to see ur post... like shivaay ppl r ready to jump to conclusions always...

precaps are never always true picture of what to expect as different parts of episode are patched up in pre cap...

for all we know shivaay might be sitting alone n crying as he really sees how low he went with everything and anika is seeing a repenting man... anika may not have seen Omru walking away...

her seeing him like that will only make her belief stronger than she wasnt wrong... he isnt really bad...circumstances made him that bad...

anyway knowing anika she wud nvr interfere in the brothers' equation... n she knows shivaay needs to bridge the gap himself as he is the reason it is created... her telling OmRu anything wont change their outlook on what he did... its his attitude towards her n his repenting that will change everyone's outlook...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aarti_16

This is a much needed post and thanks for making it.

With just one scene in precap, why is it assumed that Anika is going to interfere and talk to OmRu. For all you know, she might not even talk to Shivaay too. Why are we assuming things here without the episode being aired?

Coming to the post, when has Anika ever interfered in Obros's lives? Never. She is fully aware of their relationship and has always given them their space. At the same time, no one can stop her from talking to Shivaay about his pain as she loves him. And she does have a right to say something to family too if it involves HER.

In the future, Anika or Saumya or Om's girl will be part of Obros lives and will be extended family. In the initial promos, dadi said that meri bahu in sabko aur ghar ko jod ke rakhengi or something on that lines. Now this was said right in the beginning even before the show started, so it was in the plot. so now why it is being resented ?



True...she might not even talk to Shivay...might just go to him, they may both keep staring and have an eye talk! She has been on mute mode ever since she got married, if only her motive was to interfere or spoil relationships, she had the chance and reason to do so but even then she chose to stay mum!

Exactly, all the matter involves her, so she has got all rights to speak and also as Shivay's wife and a family member she has got the rights to speak and talk to her husband! As for OmRu, they both as good Devars always side by Anika and themselves come to her to talk, to ask her what went wrong, to bring Shivika closer so if that's not interference, Anika's talking normally won't ever be interference and I doubt she would ever advocate Shivay for this deed in the first place !

The show is Ishqbaazi...three brothers and their love lives and all three over coming their flaws and their misconceptions! Their life partners will always be by their side and help them see through a different perspective and that is what is happening, like Anika says, itna confusion kis baat ka hai ! 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amazing post Neha, this was much needed at this time.
The meaning of family, relations and bond mean a lot to Anika, as she knows the pain of not having a family, the pain of loosing her only sibling, the pain of being along as she undergone all of this. True to her heart she would never do anything that would break someone else family especially shivaay's. Yesterday too Anika tried her best not to unfold secrets but unfortunately destiny didn't help her in that.
I don't how Anika will react today but I believe Anika will try to console shivaay in her style. After all how can she see her billu ji crying 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Teju_wkar

Sorry for making some sarcastic comment neha ... but don't U know anika is always wrong.. becoz she is sadkchap girl.. she should not interfere in Obros matter.. yeah Obros can interfere in her life.. one can make mess of her life holding her weak nerve ... other one can stand for her truth to bring out truth in front of everyone.. n chota one can make unneccessary relation with her.. kuch bhi aiyvehi relation with this sadkchap girl.. calling her didi.. Everyone including big member dadi can rule on her life by emotional blackmail.. ya any blackmail.. anything taunting n all.. but still it's her mistake.. she is d one wrong here.. as she is Sadakchap Girl.. Don't U know this by now..? IB forum is rock on.. anika always at center stage to throw so many things at her.. becoz she is girl.. yeah.. Desperate one or gold digger one.. she should not feel any emotions for anyone.. as she is not human.. she should not feel bad for shivay, becoz he did wrong with her.. even if for some days she has seen soft billuji.. whom she liked.. she should not feel for Dadi.. who once give her thodashi sahi.. motherly love.. Aniak ke liye woh bhi kafi hain as she never got motherly love... she should not feel fro Pinky aunty.. who once said in d moment also.. that humari anika.. during Daksh's proposal.. she should forget.. Om who has cleared her name from Chip allegations by Shivay.. she should not feell for Rudy who is baby by heart.. who calls her always Anika didi n even stood up with her in his own ways.. how dare he to be so cute with his Anika didi.. he should not do this.. as anika needs to be rock hard with him too to kick out his emotions too for her.. n insult his love for Anika didi.. Every person has flaws no one is perfect... Oberoi's have theirs.. even Anika has hers.. that she so much thinks abt people by her heart.. becoz she respects humans as may be in her lifetime no one understood her human except her brother Sahil.. For a moment hi sahi.. Dadi janvi pinky adored her.. oh even if for selfish reasons of ders.. even Shivay her stone singh oberoi.. cared abt her once saved her too.. how can he commit such crime.. use mar jane dena chahiye tah SPa mein obros ne.. Anika hi kahtam hoti zanzat nahi.. but stupid obros.. 😈 yes.. Shivay did wrong with Sahil.. even I am angry on him for that.. n I want him to repent for his every actions he did with anika.. n cry for that too.. So anika should not think seeing Billuji crying.. becoz she should do her heart rock just like him.. should not interfere,, n leave that knot in relations as it is..

Anika as an orphan girl will never do that as one thing she missed her in entire lifetime is family , relations except Sahil.. She will never be want d reason of gap in relations btwn Oberoi's relation.. that's why Rudy did ask once her' Didi aap itani acchi kyon ho..?' yeah usse accha nahi hona chahye.. bechari Tia ki tarah behave karna chahiye.. yes I don't wnat her to forgive Shivay easily.. but that doesn't mean I will ever want to see her to go to same level of Shivay.. Shivay under mentorship of Tej became rock hard person n has really started every persons as business including himself.. he is not even hesitating himself to put as business deal with Tia n kapoors.. that's what Om said.. Shivay do live for Urself too.. So it's hsi journey now Anika will teach him both things .. to be person who take care of his entire family.. n himself too..
I hope I didn't make any hasty point..



Its okay Teju 🤗 Anika is misunderstood and too much is expected out of her, wen truth is she is the one still in trauma, her life is still hanging between a husband who wants to divorce her and a wedding like hers, an incident she can never forget!
She clearly has no one to comfort her wen she needs it the most! All that comes her way is blames and accusations and misunderstanding and heaps of expectations, Anika should run away, divorce him, should not interfere, should take a stand, should expose him and what not, wen all she needs to do is stand up again, comfort herself and regain her strength as she has no one else o do that for her!

And as for ur post, I so agree, we all have families, we all fight and make up but don't ask each other to not interfere or keep the misunderstandings forever, families are families for a reason and Anika now is very much a part of the Oberoi Family and nothing can change this truth! OmRu, Dadi, Pinky-Shakti, TejVi, wen everyone has accepted her and somewhere, somehow, Shivay too...then she has got all rights to speak to them as a family member!

And loved ur post...:)

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