Of Unsaid words, inexplicable emotions, and forceful decisions - Page 6

Originally posted by: Sofna

Wow Geet I didn't know you wrote for IB. I've only just returned to the serial from Monday, I had stopped way back in Aug. From what little I had watched in those early episodes the one thing they emphasised again and again was how important his family was for Shivay. There was no ifs buts or mayb - he would put his life down for them. Same with Anika. They may use different approaches but their destination is the same - the protection and happiness of their loved one's (or should I say blood).

Like you said, on Monday and Tuesday from Shivay all I too saw was a very very desperate man. The moment he realised Tia is missing he got into action, selected a family and had an agreement drawn up. Although Annika tried not to interfere in the end it was her words that gave the other girl the 'courage' to back out.

I haven't read the posts in which Shivay has been attacked- but those words are harsh. They should be used wisely and correctly according to the situation not simply out of frustration of the storyline! If Shivay was that bad then what about the parents of that girl who were willing to 'sell' their daughter to be a 1 day bride?

I think this was the first time that he felt such complete loss on how to turn the situation around hence his 'desperate times call for desperate measure' approach that he took to subdue Anika and compel her into this marriage. But he was fighting himself at the same time the struggle was real on his face.

This is actually the first 'revenge/hate' wedding track that I'm looking forward to. Maybe I haven't watched too many dramas but I have seen enough hate marriages - there's something about this one that feels different - they're both wrong yet not wrong at the same time - but the dynamics in their relationship has moved big time.

Originally posted by: geet.a

I saw abuse today, I saw Shivaay emotionally abusing Anika, and I saw him feeling equally sad about it. I saw it in his expressions when he ran after her, hoping and praying he reaches her to restrain before she gets hurt. I saw a reflection of her devastation in his eyes as she hit him, and then just broke down against him, and he had to restrain her in his own way, but gently, just enough so she doesn't harm him or herself. But, she did, with every tear, she harmed him. He knew what Sahil's absence would do, and he ruthlessly used it. Why?

The word people need to check out is Amorality. Please. I need people to look it up because shivaay is that. ONE of the major implications of the term is: Right and wrong matter ONLY when it comes to a family member, or family in general. For instance, the mafia.

There needs to be an understanding that there are people whose sense of morals DOES not involve ANYONE beyond their family, and that is ALSO OKAY.

That doesn't imply they are the devil, or a beast.

We do not have to agree with that point of view but it exists.

For BOTH shivaay and Anika, their family, their brothers, ARE the ultimate, that's their weak point, their selfishness, and they can BOTH use it against each other.

ALL I could see in shivaay today was desperation and pain; NO iota of ego. And those who do, god, show me, because it doesn't exist. NOTHING mattered to him beyond the fact that he was disappointed when he danced with his happy family because he felt he would need to hurt them. And he could not do that.

Did you guys SEE how beautifully she broke down in his arms,when she thought there was no one left, there was no Sahil in the world.

Despite it all, despite him, and however he is, HE is the one she could break down with, he was the one who would be able to control her, to bring out in her, the survivor, because he needed her to be strong enough for him to be stronger for now.

And that regret: She just won't get it. She would NEVER get why he did it.

Love is a very easy word to utter; I'd say I battle every day between love and truth; but to make it a verb: To Love, is the hardest action in the world, and Shivaay and Anika are exactly on that colon between noun and verb of Love and To Love.

I do not believe we can stop loving someone, but our feelings transform. I do not expect this nuance, but the way they liked each other will alter from how they will like each other in the future.

I do not know even now if this covered everything, but I don't think I can write anything more without being romantic, so I'll leave it for comments.

Love

Geet