Sympathizing wid Riddhima - Page 10

All I'm going to say is that they're idiots if they're going to break a three year old relationship on the whim like this. I don't sympathise with Riddhima or Om. Ishana is not my concern because between the two she's just an outsider.

Since I am hardcore IshKara shipper, I think I might be partial. But since I'm quite pragmatic and rational, I again think I may not be that biased. So, yeah.

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Me to want her to learn from her mistake.CV's could have done this whole break up in diff way.Like Bela showing diff side of Riddhima.Like she do things for publicity n she does not really do it because she feel for the cause.But Om could have only got angry on her.Nothing big would have not happened.Accusing Om of cheating n infidelity.Is the worst thing to do.It can hurt him more.Ishana without knowing made Riddhima touch that point.So make Riddhima touch that point CV's traveled this route.

There is no wrong in taking out ur frustration n U feeling sympathy towards Riddhima.That's Ur POV.

My comment was to the post.Ishana is FL.Why all FL has to be so perfect without any flaws.When we can have flawed heroes who have manhandled heroines.Which is covered because he had bad past.But after falling in love he changes.When some can accept that.Why can't we try to accept a flawed heroine .Who changes herself after falling in love.Why can't we as viewers help to break the stereotypical thinking that Heroines r should be like this.Life is not black n white.It has grey also.Let Cv's explore that with a FL breaking the norms of FL on Indian TV.Which we should see as a welcome change.

Originally posted by: AngelicTomboy

Blaming the third person is wrong. True. But when the third person causes rift between two people, that person is to be blamed. And am saying it again. Its human nature to be insecure. If my guy keeps on talking about another girl all the time, I am bound to become insecure. Om and Riddhima's relationship is based on trust. But if he keeps on talking about Bela then obviously Riddhima would feel insecure

I disagree.If it is based on Trust.Riddhima in first place would not have fallen for Mala's word.She knows how Om is.He is a soft hearted person.Who genuinely wanted to help a girl who according to him in bad relation.Om never hided about Bela.He has said everything about Bela to Riddhima.Yet she got insecure.Because she did not trust Om.When there is trust.There will not be insecurity.

Why allow a third person to cause rift.If Ur relation is not that strong only a third person can easily influence U n make U think diff about ur partner.

Ok Riddhima wanted some answer.She got insecure.As a BF it's his duty.Make Riddhima understand his POV.Also Riddhiam trying to understand his POV.If they both truly love n trusted each other.They would have understand each others POV.

A third person can never enter and mess up a relationship if he/she is not allowed to. So I would not blame Ishana here. She IS a congirl and will use whatever means she can to get her way. People have to decide what they want. Ishana as a congirl who will be grey and thus have the liberty (doesn't matter whether justified or unjustified) to mess up others' lives to attain her goal(s). That's just how a congirl works, folks.

Instead of putting Om on a pedestal all the time, try to recognise his faults also mkay? Whatever happened between him and Riddhima yesterday was totally THEIR fault. Why did Riddhima tag Mala along with her to the function? And why didn't they both just introduce Bela/Mala to each other? Do they have no grey matter in their brains that they did not begin to think why Bela/Mala just randomly turns up everywhere they are at. Such lack of introspection for someone who claims to be an artiste.

And yes, I did sympathise with Riddhima too yesterday. But not because of Ishana, because of Om. The way he talked to her yesterday was really not justified and uncalled for. You don't call someone to your house and treat them like that, especially a girlfriend of 3 years. He really lacks perception in relationships and does not even begin to consider the other person's POV before harshly judging them. He did the same with Shivaay too.


NOTE- Please don't attack me for my POV. I know Om has a lot of fans here (and I really cannot fathom why for the life of me), but just understand that not everyone here loves him.

Originally posted by: YoonHiChala

A third person can never enter and mess up a relationship if he/she is not allowed to. So I would not blame Ishana here. She IS a congirl and will use whatever means she can to get her way. People have to decide whether they want. Ishana as a congirl who will be grey and thus have the liberty (doesn't matter whether justified or unjustified) to mess up others' lives to attain her goal(s). That's just how a congirl works, folks.

Instead of putting Om on a pedestal all the time, try to recognise his faults also mkay? Whatever happened between him and Riddhima yesterday was totally THEIR fault. Why did Riddhima tag Mala along with her to the function? And why didn't they both just introduce Bela/Mala to each other? Do they have no grey matter in their brains that they did not begin to think why Bela/Mala just randomly turns up everywhere they are at. Such lack of introspection for someone who claims to be an artiste.

And yes, I did sympathise with Riddhima too yesterday. But not because of Ishana, because of Om. The way he talked to her yesterday was really not justified and uncalled for. You don't call someone to your house and treat them like that, especially a girlfriend of 3 years. He really lacks perception in relationships and does not even begin to consider the other person's POV before harshly judging them. He did the same with Shivaay too.


NOTE- Please don't attack me for my POV. I know Om has a lot of fans here (and I really cannot fathom why for the life of me), but just understand that not everyone here loves him.

Originally posted by: AngelicTomboy

@bold - Riddhima did not tag her along. Ishaana was there already there on the pretext of helping her 🥱

Yes, but she could have politely refused the help right? She tags a third person along everywhere with her and then wonders why a third person is coming between them. 😕

Originally posted by: YoonHiChala

A third person can never enter and mess up a relationship if he/she is not allowed to. So I would not blame Ishana here. She IS a congirl and will use whatever means she can to get her way. People have to decide what they want. Ishana as a congirl who will be grey and thus have the liberty (doesn't matter whether justified or unjustified) to mess up others' lives to attain her goal(s). That's just how a congirl works, folks.

Instead of putting Om on a pedestal all the time, try to recognise his faults also mkay? Whatever happened between him and Riddhima yesterday was totally THEIR fault. Why did Riddhima tag Mala along with her to the function? And why didn't they both just introduce Bela/Mala to each other? Do they have no grey matter in their brains that they did not begin to think why Bela/Mala just randomly turns up everywhere they are at. Such lack of introspection for someone who claims to be an artiste.

And yes, I did sympathise with Riddhima too yesterday. But not because of Ishana, because of Om. The way he talked to her yesterday was really not justified and uncalled for. You don't call someone to your house and treat them like that, especially a girlfriend of 3 years. He really lacks perception in relationships and does not even begin to consider the other person's POV before harshly judging them. He did the same with Shivaay too.


NOTE- Please don't attack me for my POV. I know Om has a lot of fans here (and I really cannot fathom why for the life of me), but just understand that not everyone here loves him.

we accept he too has flaws ...and frankly we don't actually support him in dis thing

its OK dear om does have huge fandom but as long as its constructive criticism no one has any problem...

Originally posted by: YoonHiChala

Yes, but she could have politely refused the help right? She tags a third person along everywhere with her and then wonders why a third person is coming between them. 😕