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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arnavkidevani


I'm not an emotional person but I cried for Zara, the broken relationship, the hopes we had for the show and mostly for woman kind in general. Religion is blamed for man's egotistical and stubborn way of thinking and woman is blamed for speaking up to the injustice of it all! Ya Allah insaniyat ki aurton ki hifazat kar, ameen.

On a side note as women we need to pledge to bring up our sons to learn understand and practice aspects of Islam which men in general ignore or bend to suit them! I hope you ladies will make this personal pledge with me.

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Dear I'm a Hindu and I am also from the other side where u are from and things here are so so different especially for woman we have so much rights that sometimes if a husband verbally abuse us they have to go to counselling and get himself look after I mean I am not disrespecting anyone here but I am so happy I am not from your end because I wouldn't like any man to treat me that way I am a very very powerful and independent woman and my husband is so understanding when it come to that because my parents gives us that freedom so no man can take that away from us
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Posted: 7 years ago
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so sad to watch this!! Zara does not deserves this, i hope the writer's have a great separation track for us,showing a strong and resilient Zara moving ahead and forward regardless and a suffering Kabeer!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Imraan was so right when he said that tum Zara ke layak nahin ho... that sums it up! After the way Kabeer has treated her, trusting the number of vamps over his mother and wife, even if he realizes his mistake and repents, Zara should never take him back, cause he is just not fit to be her husband, there has to be a new male lead joining the sharia board who has the same views as Zara, I can see where this show is headed, Zara's ABBA will die with some more help from Shahbaz and Kabeer will become sheher kazi, Zara will refuse to give up her position in the board and will fight kabeer all the way and not let his regressive views be heard ! Can't wait to see what unfolds! Director, this better be good!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivanie05

Dear I'm a Hindu and I am also from the other side where u are from and things here are so so different especially for woman we have so much rights that sometimes if a husband verbally abuse us they have to go to counselling and get himself look after I mean I am not disrespecting anyone here but I am so happy I am not from your end because I wouldn't like any man to treat me that way I am a very very powerful and independent woman and my husband is so understanding when it come to that because my parents gives us that freedom so no man can take that away from us



Hi hun

Like I said before it's not Islam which puts limitations on women it's men. I am a Muslim woman n my father gave all the freedom I needed to develop as a strong independent women. At the same time my mother taught us the ins n outs of Islam and how to take my religion along with me with my British education. I feel that men from the subcontinent predominantly have these archaic repressive attitudes towards women. Obviously there are exceptions to this generalisation.

My opinion only no offence intended to anyone- peace
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ideally I'd like it to count as one divorce, have her do her iddat for 3 months in his house so he has to face her everyday. For him to realise his mistake and want her to remarry. For them to to get to the point of Nikah and for her not to accept the Nikah. That would be the best lesson for him.

If you allow a man to treat you like dirt and then go back to him he'll do it again and again coz he'll know she'll come running back.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: atiyahv86

Ideally I'd like it to count as one divorce, have her do her iddat for 3 months in his house so he has to face her everyday. For him to realise his mistake and want her to remarry. For them to to get to the point of Nikah and for her not to accept the Nikah. That would be the best lesson for him.

If you allow a man to treat you like dirt and then go back to him he'll do it again and again coz he'll know she'll come running back.



Do agree with most of it ... but would like to see Kabeers character completely at the verge of going crazy as she ignores him ... He needs to be shown as choosing Mohabbat above all , I agree religion is important but first and foremost it should be the people whom you love and loves you that should have the utmost importance ...

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