Farz,Mohabhat,Zid and ?

Originally posted by: JazzyM

So, for Kabir, their marriage and relationship is a farz...

Do these kind of males still exist in this generation... I can understand earlier generation but current generation...?

Even if you had married under pressure, do not consumate your marriage if there is no feelings. At least get to know the person, adjust, find middle ground before starting a relationship...

If a child occurs due this physical relationship...goodness...think of the lady's situation...the baby becomes another burden to the male...😭.

If Kabir is doing his farz - duty towards Zara by having a physical relationship...this for me is something similar to prostitution...he thinks he is doing her favours, full filling her demands, in a way his will too...

I hope Zara doen't look for such physical relationship in future...Kabir would think he is doing Zara a favour... if it's me as Zara, I will not be able to look myself in the mirror...yucks!!

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

@ Jazzy KAbir is conditioned to live in medieval times .lol.

I think Kabir would've been damned either way. Clever Cvs , got Zara all decked up as a bride and he couldn't really say no.He did say that in the morning very bluntly.
Real life couples do accommodate each other.

As far as a child, yep, that's another responsibility, someone like Kabir would be fully prepared to take on, before getting into the physical relationship, i think.

Zara has too much self respect to settle for just farz😆

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

Thats very strong words..

First bold...absolutely...these men do exist and proudly live.we are previliged to be surrounded by open minded souls that's why we don't realize reality of situations.

2nd...that's not an option.

In Islam, if husband or wife has a physical need, other person is bound to fulfil it even if he/she doeanot want to.

Here at least kabir said 'farz'... In actual it is termed as haq ...and when other person haq come in situation,you are bound to do.

3rd...cannot agree with this...yes it sort of looks like it but here, he didn't demand this time in particular...it was Zara need.yes,without love, it looks like some business , but end of the day , you are ask about your duties/ farz fulfilled ( irrespective you love to do it or not)

Originally posted by: arnavkidevani

No offence to anyone but can I just say...

Not all marriages begin with love. In an arranged marriage you don't know the person but are expected and do consummate the marriage. Love and understanding come later.

Not unlike the West or in some societies where people meet and after mutual attraction sex takes place. Why then is love expected before a married couple can have physical relations? I think that's a reality which CVs showed. Zara had a need- she's attracted to her husband- so she asked for Kabir to fulfil her need.

Haan the way Kabir reacted in the morning is another debate altogether. Don't agree to that at all.

Sorry deviating from the topic a little... don't mean to offend anyone 😃

Originally posted by: JazzyM

In arranged marriage too, consummation occurs and most of the time without feelings too but does it occur like it's robotic...no feelings. I'm doing it because it's needed and now it's done...

Really!!

The morning after was a debacle and Zara...she only thought about his words like 2 min...then, back to her world where he is the king and nothing else matters...