How can Kabir behave like that to Zara is unacceptable-7.5.18 - Page 2

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well kabir was getting on my nurves from the begaining of the show.
But cross the limit when he shout at her..omg did anybody notice his eyes was blood shot as if he would slap her any minute. That holding her arms what was that...islam don't give any permission to hit a woman specially when that woman is your wife. Kabir disappointed big time today...if zara dont speak up he will continue with this type of act.
And this act don't have any justification whatsoever.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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While the anger was justified as the char thats been set up for Kabir but the presentation of it was really not like the Kabir that was set up in the last 6 weeks ... all that work has gone down the drain really... Kabir is flawed play on his flaws and present them in char rather than screwing the char!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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The reason i continued watching after the first few epi. Was the fact that the ML was civil to the FL even when they disagreed and did not manhandle her






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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kabir's mind is getting poisoned by Ruks but why isn't he ignoring her as he's married now and Ruks is totally a na-meharam to him!! Before marriage it was fine as it was friendship but now shouldn't he maintain a distance as she once wanted to marry him. When will Kabir realise its best to avoid Ruks for his marital bliss!!

Regarding violence I'm against it in any relationship and marriage is a relationship of equals which should be based upon mutual trust and respect. Manhandling is an extreme form of violence which should be condenmed irrespective of what degree it is.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Zaara-.

Yh. I quit. I.couldnt watch the episode today


Yup me too.

I'll be asking my friend about it and if he storyline changes maybe I'll come back to it.

Kabir as a maulvi should know better.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm new to the forum.. I don't really know how to work it.. but I just wanted to add that I completely agree with what is said above by aqua.m7... it is 100% right...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm wondering if ISA is turning up to be another desi story where the husband is always execused by his wife for all his abusive behaviour. He can do anything and get away by saying he was misinformed or carried away and at a best, the word 'SORRY'.
I had so much expectation of ISA... now this😕
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Even I feel it better not to watch next few episodes until things r not fine between them and Kabir doesn't change his behaviour towards Zara and apologise so only I guess in the glitz interview Adnan said presently I am not like my character(Kabir) just see or read spoilers and if anything nice happens can watch I serouseri feel Kabir today apologize in tomm episode to zara
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: aqua.m7

I might be the only one but I felt bad for both of them. *runs aways*

Please don't bash guys

First of all I felt awful for zara. Whatever she does it just goes to waste. It' sad cus she is really trying to support him and he doesn' understand and due to ruks constant taunts he feels more angry.
Zara was only standing up for her rights and telling the guy that Quran has also provided rules for men too. So he shouldn't go around pointing fingers before evaluating himself. The poor girl was in tears even I was in tears. It's like asking yourself is this what I'm worth? People disregarding my thoughts and feelings as a women as more so as a human being.

Next onto Kabeer, ok let's get this straight I AM BY NO MEANS JUSTIFYING HIS ACTIONS, HE SHOULD NOT HAVE EVEN DARED TO GRAB HER LIKE THAT. but we have already seen how calm and poised he usually is. The fact that he feels insecure that he cant provide for zara or stand up on his own feet to start that project mehr fiasco, ruks stupid taunting and qazi post thing and now this insult by the investor guy was the last straw. He was triggered when the guy said sort out ur own home first. And because he can' stand anyone pointing fingers on his family or zara he lashed out.
He doesn't want anyone getting a chance to disrespect zara like that and so he lashed out on her. (This is not a justification)

IT WAS WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! X100. But because of stupid ruks he was already hot headed. He shouldn' have grabbed her like that, he should have thought about her words with a cool head. Because at the end of the day she was right.

For men and women izzat is equally importany but in different ways.

CVs had to show this because other wise we as society wont understand that its wrong to suppress women and treat them like doormats. Kabeer will change but it will take time. I'm going to still give him one more chance to change before I quit.

So all in all look at both perspectives and the anger on both sides. They are different. But I'm not saying it's an excuse for the way he acted. In the heat of the moment anger can be your worst enemy


*please don' bash* I just wrote what I felt. I stand with zara on this but I understand where kabeers anger came from


It is not the fact that he got angry it is the fact thatt he physically abused her. He could have spoken to her in the confines of their room and not in the drawing room
Please never justify any abuse and this is a sincere request from someone who has witnessed this duedto work in an ngo
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: vaishuarshi123

Even I feel it better not to watch next few episodes until things r not fine between them and Kabir doesn't change his behaviour towards Zara and apologise so only I guess in the glitz interview Adnan said presently I am not like my character(Kabir) just see or read spoilers and if anything nice happens can watch I serouseri feel Kabir today apologize in tomm episode to zara


So, based on this...Kabir's deplorable behaving is going to continue??

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