How can Kabir behave like that to Zara is unacceptable-7.5.18

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vaishnavi

@vaishuarshi123

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Posted: 7 years ago

Serious no husband as the right to behave with his wife like that how much ever angry u are .the way he shouted and held Zara tightly causing her pain and tears this was not expected from Kabir a person who knows how to respect and behave with women seriously the precwp Zara didn't have a problem with Kabir behaviour the way he manhandled her and I guess Kabir showing his anger on the boxing bag was for the project as well as behaving with Zara the way he shouldn't have.what are they trying to show Zara character as before zabir characterisation was not like this hope they don't butcher the character of Kabir Zara esp kabir

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Anjali

@AnjuRish

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Posted: 7 years ago

Thanks for the Post, was thinking of the same

i guess i should stop watching ISA ...the last five mins broke my heart.

No one no matter what can manhandle anyone that way and insult

She must tell him the manhandling was not right

if you tolerate it is wrong

it is not wrong to forgive but one must make the partner aware that it is just not right

First of all it was her right to deposit that cheque

second it is her right to offer money since it was for a bigger cause and the husband can deny but with respect ...the backbone comment was not needed

Man and women are two wheels in a marriage one is not above the other

i am sorry i cant take this

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ZaaraBB

@ZaaraBB

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Posted: 7 years ago

Yh. I quit. I.couldnt watch the episode today

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Sudha

@Sudharies

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Posted: 7 years ago

The problem with Kabir character is that he never was this arrogant and heartless. He has always been considerate towards others feelings.

This anger and arrogance he's showing is something very new and looks abrupt. The guy used to be ziddi in his beliefs, but he relented when he agreed to others pov. That changing his eating habits was one example. He changed only coz he felt thay zara was right.

And what the hell happened to that understanding mature calm kabir? He's become am asshole all of a sudden...

What the hell is wrong with him? Was he simply pretending to be nice with Zara in HM??

He's not respecting her, he's showing immense arrogance in his attitude, he never let anyone disrespect her before, he never let their personal issue go outside, and now he's doing everything himself.

I'm sorry to say this ,I'm hating kabir now... And I'm quitting. Unless they redeem Kabir, not gonna watch anymore.

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Arohi

@made-in-charms

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Posted: 7 years ago

People can judge me but that scene was abuse , and no way I am supporting that .

He was angry he was mad so he can hurt her ? PHYSICALLY ?

I aint buying it man !

And Zara should have punched him right on his face i would have done that , this scene wasnt needed , noone deserves to be treated like that.

This is what he learnt from his so called "mazhab ke usool " ?

And Zara is now again trying to help him ? After getting such sort of behavior from him?

I feel her , why she didnt want to marry Kabeer , but i dont think Zara ever thought in her wildest dreams that kabeer will behave like this with her one day.Such a moron !

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amberyall

@amberyall

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Posted: 7 years ago

please cv's dont butcher the character that u have so carefuly crafted!!!! this is the reason many of us watch ISA ok!! so please dont !!! and no abuse either!! that was physcial abuse whether u wan tto admit it or not!!! Zara mus be seen correcting him on it

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ASHREENA

@ASHREENA

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Posted: 7 years ago

Yeah I would classify it as abuse.today he had no right to speak or behave insultive to zara...it is her money she can do whatever she wants and he thinks allah will be pleased with him...as for the investor he was damn out of place...zara was right...kabir did not defend his wife today...zara was honest and properly attired but he abused her...I want tosee him regret what he did to her today...but I want ayesha more than anyone to put him in his place because his mother dresses like his wife..I want ruksar to get what she deserves...I want her secret on kashmir to be revealed and her kicked out..

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aqua.m7

@aqua.m7

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Posted: 7 years ago

I might be the only one but I felt bad for both of them. *runs aways*

Please don't bash guys

First of all I felt awful for zara. Whatever she does it just goes to waste. It' sad cus she is really trying to support him and he doesn' understand and due to ruks constant taunts he feels more angry.

Zara was only standing up for her rights and telling the guy that Quran has also provided rules for men too. So he shouldn't go around pointing fingers before evaluating himself. The poor girl was in tears even I was in tears. It's like asking yourself is this what I'm worth? People disregarding my thoughts and feelings as a women as more so as a human being.

Next onto Kabeer, ok let's get this straight I AM BY NO MEANS JUSTIFYING HIS ACTIONS, HE SHOULD NOT HAVE EVEN DARED TO GRAB HER LIKE THAT. but we have already seen how calm and poised he usually is. The fact that he feels insecure that he cant provide for zara or stand up on his own feet to start that project mehr fiasco, ruks stupid taunting and qazi post thing and now this insult by the investor guy was the last straw. He was triggered when the guy said sort out ur own home first. And because he can' stand anyone pointing fingers on his family or zara he lashed out.

He doesn't want anyone getting a chance to disrespect zara like that and so he lashed out on her. (This is not a justification)

IT WAS WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! X100. But because of stupid ruks he was already hot headed. He shouldn' have grabbed her like that, he should have thought about her words with a cool head. Because at the end of the day she was right.

For men and women izzat is equally importany but in different ways.

CVs had to show this because other wise we as society wont understand that its wrong to suppress women and treat them like doormats. Kabeer will change but it will take time. I'm going to still give him one more chance to change before I quit.

So all in all look at both perspectives and the anger on both sides. They are different. But I'm not saying it's an excuse for the way he acted. In the heat of the moment anger can be your worst enemy

*please don' bash* I just wrote what I felt. I stand with zara on this but I understand where kabeers anger came from

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aqua.m7

@aqua.m7

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Posted: 7 years ago

Most people will disagree with my above post.

But I've always tried to look at both sides of the story. Even when I see optical illusions I can see both pictures.

This makes it hard for me to decisive so for most things I stick to middle ground cos I can understand both stories. This is a really bad habit.

But I stand firmly against Abuse against ANYONE!

Zara is being mentally emotionally and now physically abused

And kabeer is being mentally abused (by ruks)

Ruks needs to be married off quickly to siraj and shipped off to Antarctica.

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Bat1

@Bat1

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Here the cvs are trying to bring the difference in the mentality of kabir and zara .kabir thinks that he shouldn't take financial help frm zara and he should do everything of his own this is actually purani soch and men should actually take all responsibility and women should look after kitchen frm beginning his character is written in a purani soch way and zara is completely the opposite who needs equality with men and she wants to have an voice .Actually cvs are doing a good job here bringing out the difference of thinking b/w leads.Ruksar is just the catalyst the problem here is clash of viewpoints b/w leads .the only problem with todays episode was last 10 mins manhandling which they could have avoided .And they have kept the characteristics of both leads intact here zara even though loves kabir doesnt fail to express her views and kabir also has his own purani soch . And it will take a lot of time for both of them to have common viewpoint.

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