You are free to choose but you are not free from the consequences of your choice. Nobody ever did or ever will escape the consequences of their choices. People need to learn that their actions do affect other people. So be careful what you say and do, its not always just about you. Every choice has a consequence. The consequences of today are determined by the actions of the past. To change your future, alter your decisions today.
People of thoughtless actions are always surprised by consequences. You are free to make whatever choice you want, but you are not free from the consequences of the choice. True remorse is never just a regret over consequence, it's a regret over motive. Every action has a consequence, so always try to be good. Actions and consequences are a packaged deal.
Ego is the biggest enemy of humans. Ego will hold you back every single time. Ego is the only requirement to destroy any relationship. So, be a bigger person skip the "e" and let it "go". Make sure your worst enemy is not living between your own two ears. Ego is just like a dust in the eyes, without clearing the dust you can't see anything clearly, so clear the ego and see the world.
Relationships never die a natural death. They are always murdered by attitude behavior, ego or ignorance. Ego judges and punishes while love forgives and heals. The ego is the false self-born out of fear and defensiveness. Human beings are very strange, they have ego of their knowledge but they don't have knowledge of their ego. The ego is nothing other than the focus of conscious attention.
If you're lucky enough to get a second chance don't waste it. Life offers you a second chance. It's called tomorrow. A second chance is a new beginning, if you learn from the first one. The best gift in life is a second chance. And a second chance doesn't mean anything if you learned nothing from the first one. Never close the door on an opportunity until you've had a chance to hear the offer. In the end we only regret the chances we didn't take. Nothing is worse than missing an opportunity that could have changed your life, If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door.
We are continually faced by great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems. Don't be afraid to start over. It's a brand new opportunity to rebuild what you truly want. Keep your mind open to opportunities. They are closer than you think. The more you seek security, the less of it you have. But the more you seek opportunity, the more likely it is that you will achieve the security that you desire. Excuses will always be there for you, opportunity wont. Opportunities are like sunrises. If you wait too long, you miss them. In the midst of chaos, there is also opportunity.
Both Dhani and Dashrath Tripathi were given so many chances to rectify their mistakes in the past. But because of their ego they made things far more complicated rather than simplyfing them. Had DT considered Tripurari as his son and accepted Durga ji in his life the day wouldn't have probably come where he had to make Tripurari as his heir...all TP wanted was DT to accept his mother and him in the society and he just wanted to earn the respect. DT had never given them respect and treated them inhumanly in so many occasions.
Had he not been obsessed by his ego n obsession for power may be things would have been better for him and Viplav would have been the rightful heir. His one mistake is made in to a chain of mistakes and he had to continuously keep correcting them and in the end he achieved nothing but unhappiness.
Similarly Dhani has never shed her ego and she kept hiding the truth about Vidha from Viplav. He had given her so many opportunities to her but she never utilized them at all. All she had to do is keep pushing Viplav away from her life. She is being unfair to both Vidha nad Viplav but she never admits it. Now when she receives a letter from Viplav asking her to move on she is realizing her mistake. Second chances are very rarely given to us, both DT and Dhani never bothered to use them, now it is all regret they are living with. The man who has done so much for both of them, valued them never knew his value and significance at all.
They were so much involoved in their own life that his absence made a powerful reminder of his value. We humans make things complicated rather than simplifying them. Things can be sorted out when given a careful thought. The ego is our biggest enemy which makes things worse than it already is. We need to shed out ego and think of all the possibilities to sort out the matters...else we shall end up in a huge mess the way DT and Dhani are right now where neither of them are happy at all. For every action of ours has a consequence and we alone are responsible for it.
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This is the combination of the past two episodes.
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
