The truth hurts only if you keep running away from it. You got to face it, deal with it and move on from it. You never find yourself until you face the truth. You are weak when you lie because you aren't strong enough to face the truth. The truth has never denied the speaker ...it is the seeker who has denied the truth. It's always better to face the truth, no matter how uncomfortable, than to continue coddling a lie. Blind belief in authority is the greatest enemy of truth.
Not everything that is face can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced. Sometimes it's easier to just go ahead and face the truth than to spend the rest of your life trying to hide from it. It is better to tell the truth and face the punishment, than to lie and face the consequences. Most of the problems in life are because of two reasons, we act without thinking or we keep thinking without acting. Sometimes the one's closest to us are the one's that hurts us the most.
Tell the truth, or someone will tell it for you. More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them. Denying the truth doesn't change the facts. Don't let your fear of what could happen make nothing happen. Stop letting fear rule your life. Fear has two meanings...Forget everything and run and Face everything and rise. The key to change is to let go of fear. Confront your fears and they won't be your fears anymore. To escape fear, you have to go through it not around. There is no illusion greater than fear.
Sometimes things are not what they appear to be. Never jump to conclusions because you never know where you might land. In the absence of information we jump to the worst conclusions. Get the facts, be sure of the basic principles and weigh the consequences...then decide. Stay open minded...things aren't what they seem to be. Before you assume, learn the facts...before you judge, understand why...before you hurt someone feel and before you speak, think. Most people's minds are so full of conclusions that there is no room for expansion.
Never judge the motive in someone's heart. Only they know the reason behind their choices. Believe none of what you hear, half of what of what you read and all of what you see. So many assume and so little know. Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth. What we think we see is only a tiny piece of the picture.Before jumping to conclusion ask yourself...Do I have all the information? Could there be more to this than meets the eye? Is this out of character for this person? Is my reaction rooted in my own insecurity? Those who jump to conclusions often land in ignorance.
Be it Dhani or Dulari they are not able to able to face the truth and they chose to live with a lie in their lives. When it comes to Dhani she never once understood that there is something more to what Viplav is trying to tell her. When he wants to know the reason for her leaving Benaras , there needs to be a reason as to why is he asking...but in her fear, n with her insecurity she is not able to find out the truth.
Dulari as well is unable to face the fact that her husband is there in Mumbai and he met Viplav as well. One or the other day she must speak the truth about her life to Dhani. It's better she speaks the truth before someone else does for her. This exactly applies to Dhani as well no matter how much ever she runs away with the fact that Viplav is Vidha's father one or the other day she needs to accept the truth and its better she informs Viplav herself.
Both the mother and the daughter need to face their fears, accept the truth and move on in their lives. They can't keep living their lives in constant fear. Before they come to conclusions they need to gather the facts for it can be very different from what they actually assume. Viplav decides to find the truth about Dhani's father and he has started working on it. This is problem in Viplav and Dhani's life...for neither know what has happened in each other's life.
Dhani has been acting impulsively and she needs to think whether what she saw five years back is it the complete truth or not ? She has never given him a chance to explain his betrayal which she assumed...There is a huge difference between what we think and what actually is...so many problems can be solved when we start asking instead of assuming...because the assumptions and suspicion can destroy a relationship. That is where an open communication is very much essential. Better a cruel truth than a comfortable delusion and hurting someone with the truth is better than killing them with a lie.
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This TOTD is the combination of the past two episodes.
Cricket
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
Bigg Boss 19
